I wouldn't say I was outed directly but my family found out I was gay because my ex boyfriend threatened to break up w/ if I didn't come out to my family...He still broke up w/ me a couple days later.
So much was happening during that phase in my life that coming out only worsened things. The power of love.
It was crazy. We made out and he told everyone. I wasn't ready at the time for anyone to know. I had to backtrack.
MESS. We messed around a few times, and the dumb bitch decided he wanted to be out. BUT HE USED MY NAME TO BACKTRACK the conversations when he came out. He was all like "Omg, let's come out together it'll be so fun and amazing" and I was like "um no bitch" and he still told.
Everytime someone asked if he was gay he'd be like "Yeah, but Eric is too! Ask him". Stupid ass ****ing petty short bitch,
It took me a while to understand your question but thats so wrong.
If a gay or lesbian wants to keep them sexuality a secret, no one should question it or reveal it without that person's permission. Thats being such a foe
If they're alone and not teasing anyone it's wrong.
But if it's one of those closeted gays/down low gays that have a girlfriend/wife/play out homophobic/tease a gay but just can't finish anything therefore hurting the other person/play with someone's feelings, it's the total right thing to out them. You can have your secrets but if you involve another person it's no longer a secret and it doesn't belong to you anymore. Doesn't count telling the secret, that doesn't mean involving.
Like it's a big deal, outing a person does more good than harm, makes them live truthfully and not a lie, they should thank them.
That's disrespectful and just wrong. But if you care about someone, like maybe a closeted close friend, there are ways to do it respectfully. That person will thank you eventually.
I mean I guess it all depends on the situation. But generally, it's wrong.
I did this in like the fourth grade because I was insecure about my sexuality and I wanted to deflect attention away from myself. I still feel bad about it even if the guy I sort of outed didn't really get any sort of backlash and I think most people knew anyway.
MESS. We messed around a few times, and the dumb bitch decided he wanted to be out. BUT HE USED MY NAME TO BACKTRACK the conversations when he came out. He was all like "Omg, let's come out together it'll be so fun and amazing" and I was like "um no bitch" and he still told.
Everytime someone asked if he was gay he'd be like "Yeah, but Eric is too! Ask him". Stupid ass ****ing petty short bitch,
@ him using your name to lesson the blow of coming out, I can't.
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I couldn't believe he told. I was like why would you say anything? He ran his mouth and that made the first couple months of my freshman year a living hell. I was tormented.