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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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My crush says my cheeks are wooden
He also uses sexual humor to make me feel uncomfortable
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Originally posted by Victon
ikr... mind games... they basically just throw us and play game... but we should leave em the **** alone... their loss
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im so done with their sh** im giving up and maybe that thing that people say about it happening when you least expect it will happen
sucks though because all my friends are getting into relationships and im there like "hi"
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Originally posted by hardbrit
My crush passes almost everyday by mo house in his car. I will never talk to him again probably and seeing him everyday is TORTURE.
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this happens to me i kinda think they were signs mainly because there are so many people i don't see but i see him all the time at the most random places or it could just be the world torturing me and loving every minute
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Urgh, I am so sad.
Someone tell me a cute story.
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Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR
My crush...is bomb af.
We dance in the same group and that's where I first saw her. She used to have big brown/blonde curls like Beyoncé but now long straight Black weave. She looks splendid, of course. She has these big beautiful eyes, and a big cute nose, and perfect teeth, and real full lips. Her body A1; perfect shape and fat butt like good Jesus
She seems like a very nice, funny person, but nearly everyone I've ever asked about her has had only negative things to say + she has a bf lol but dat ***** a poppin ass college football player who lives several states away lololol
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Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR
My one friend said she was a hoe. My other friend said she has attitude problems. Another friend said she is stuck up. Her ex-bf said she is dominant and controlling like a man, and very emotionally unstable under that.
Like can y'all chill
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LOL, welp...
Never had the balls to talk to her all dance season. Never really saw her again after it ended in February. Finally mustered up the courage to just text her in May.
- I tried to just have a regular conversation at first. Didn't make it 3 minutes.
- My friend bet me $40 to just ask her out in a text msg. I do it, but find out later that the text may never have even sent. I deleted the conversation before I could check read receipts. But I got a '!' notification and iPhone users should know what that means.
- My other friend tells me to try again, giving me a whole other message to give to the girl. I do it. The girl read the msg (read receipts on) and never replied. I waited on a response the entire next day - it never came. lol
- I cried about it at home after spotting her from afar in public at a prom showoff like 2 days later. Boohooed to "Bad Religion" and "One in a Million" and errthang lmao. I was really sad that I did nothing about this (crush) and when I actually did do something, she curved me like an exponential growth function.
- Then I realized that the first text I sent to try to ask her out may have actually sent after all! - as iMessage 'message not sent' notifications are not always accurate. (I was in a groupchat with other friends. I sent some pictures from the aforementioned prom showoff and my phone said they could not send and gave me a bunch of red exclamation points, yet they DID send, the ppl in the group chat confirmed that). This realization embarrassed me out of my sadness if that makes any sense. Unfollowed her on everything except snapchat.
- I was still feeling it for a couple of days. I was on Instagram just browsing pictures in the explore section. I see a picture of my crush with two apparent friends. She commented something about her 'bf' - meaning she back with the ***** she been leaving and going back to over and over again for like EVER now
- That's what helped me to let go. If she is seriously STUCK on someone else, and her personality is really as contrary to mine as I've been repeatedly warned it was (My friend said that her neglecting to respond to my texts with a decent denial was clear evidence of this), then this **** just aint gon work rn. She would have to be a different person in a different place, and why waste my life waiting on that? lolol
- Revelation: I'm very attractive and there are plenty of *single* girls out there who would LOVE to go out with me. I'm gr8 - not bragging. I am handsome. I am intelligent. I am talented I am very nice and have a great attitude about life. I need someone who can acknowledge and appreciate all of that - or at least agree to let me try and show them that On to the next one!
- I was whining to my friend on some "oh she's so beautiful and smart and talented" **** and then he breaks it to me, these traits are EXTREMELY. COMMON. I'll be fine.
Lessons Learned: (1) DO NOT wait several months to make your true feelings about an important someone or something clear. When the opportunity passes, it may never come back around, it never hurts to try, and it's not at all a big deal if things don't turn out the way you want them to. (2) It makes no sense to be afraid of someone or what to say to them or how they will react to what you say to them. DO NOT put your love interests on crazy pedestals that blur the reality of (a) the process of talking to them or (b) their TRUE personality. Don't fear rejection. Don't fear embarrassment. The former is not a big deal and the latter is a non-existent problem you're probably pulling out of your butt.
IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL! *exhales*
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So, I have like 6 month old tea that is pretty juicy that I want to share due to a recent event. *waits for someone to come online*
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
So, I have like 6 month old tea that is pretty juicy that I want to share due to a recent event. *waits for someone to come online*
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spill it sis :tea:
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Originally posted by Buyonce1814
I don't actually have any crushes right now.
I used to have a crush on someone but after stalking ha Twitter/Instagram I realised that they're actually not very nice.
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social media is great stuff when I have a crush! I start stalking and then I found out what a jerk my crush is so I can continue living a normal life.... until my next crush hits me feelings...
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Lol I saw her at an arts festival recently. She didn't see me, but I still get scared and over-emotional when she pops up. I almost bumped into her and all that confident **** went out the window.
Why?
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
So, I have like 6 month old tea that is pretty juicy that I want to share due to a recent event. *waits for someone to come online*
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No one cares for old tea of your thot ways
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I'm so single that I go here, read your stories and wish I have a crush
It's all about one-night-stand and flirting for s3x on Grindr/Tinder these days I wish I could have someone to care for But nobody seems to fit the bill
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After all, the ex was the best ... (exept his bald head )
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I have so much tea to spill but this thread seems a little dead and I ain't posting the last post of the page
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Do it! Keep this mess alive!
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Originally posted by [Bask]
I'm so single that I go here, read your stories and wish I have a crush
It's all about one-night-stand and flirting for s3x on Grindr/Tinder these days I wish I could have someone to care for But nobody seems to fit the bill
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same
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Originally posted by Saint
No one cares for old tea of your thot ways
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Bitch, rude.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
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Your point being?
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
So, I have like 6 month old tea that is pretty juicy that I want to share due to a recent event. *waits for someone to come online*
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Originally posted by Black Umbrella
I have so much tea to spill but this thread seems a little dead and I ain't posting the last post of the page
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I have new tea that is cutttteeeee, so i'm not spilling the old tea because mess. Not reliving that trauma.
Basically there is this guy at work that I really like but I thought he was straight but I'm having suspicions now... Today this super gay at work (not me) asked him if he was gay for some reason (he was probably thirsty) but he didn't reply and thre the question back at him (and the super gay tried to move on apparently, mess). The dude then told me about this today and he seemed like, weird when he was saying it. I was like "oh" and asked him if he was gay and he replied "i dont think so, i dont know, i dont like to think about that". I was having a internal kii kii. I'm pretty sure he is at least curious now. Now in hindsight, he did always sing Gaga, Xtina and Britney songs that were either album tracks (Outrageous, Donatella, Swine, Let There Be Love, Body Ache) or unreleased (Gaga's Reloaded? Really boo?).
He is super religious though and I think he is denying himself. Urgh, lemme try and get it out of him without exposing my gayness as well.
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gurrrl not Swine n' Donatella.
Hes a gay.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
I have new tea that is cutttteeeee, so i'm not spilling the old tea because mess. Not reliving that trauma.
Basically there is this guy at work that I really like but I thought he was straight but I'm having suspicions now... Today this super gay at work (not me) asked him if he was gay for some reason (he was probably thirsty) but he didn't reply and thre the question back at him (and the super gay tried to move on apparently, mess). The dude then told me about this today and he seemed like, weird when he was saying it. I was like "oh" and asked him if he was gay and he replied "i dont think so, i dont know, i dont like to think about that". I was having a internal kii kii. I'm pretty sure he is at least curious now. Now in hindsight, he did always sing Gaga, Xtina and Britney songs that were either album tracks (Outrageous, Donatella, Swine, Let There Be Love, Body Ache) or unreleased (Gaga's Reloaded? Really boo?).
He is super religious though and I think he is denying himself. Urgh, lemme try and get it out of him without exposing my gayness as well.
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And you only have suspicions? lol he's gay
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He is really straight-acting and sporty though. I just assumed it was his sister or something playing the pop girls and him finding them catchy but... His response was telling.
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