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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Originally posted by Notorious K.E.N
Im getting a big crush on this guy from my floor. He's kinda slow and blunt but that makes him even cuter. He basically told me that im the only person on the floor he likes talking to. Im getting mixed signals from him to. Cause he only likes spending time with me and says he would never want a girlfriend. Im in a weird situation
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Girl what are you waiting for  He literally told you he doesn't want any girlfriends, ever, and that he only likes YOU. It's very obvious IMO.
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Some of y'all are a total mess. If I was as lucky as you are I would jump on the opportunity at the slightest hint. What do you want more? Are you expecting the guy to shout from rooftops that he's interested? Let me get you all in check real quickly.
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Originally posted by BlackStar_93
I reallyy need some help guys 
There's this guy who I always see around (we smile at each other sometimes) and I'd love to get to know him more. We actually have a mutual friend, but I'm not sure if I'm close enough with her to just message her like "hey your friend is kinda cute". I don't know how to approach the situation. I've found him on Facebook, but I feel like a random add would be hella creepy! Has anyone been in this situation before? |
It's not creepy, he probably won't think much of it. Add him and simply message him like "Hey there. How's it going?" Don't involve any friends unless you're sure he is gay, it can complicate things.
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Originally posted by AMENHOOKER
My crush is all filters and angles. So over it.
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Initial attraction is essential but personality is what matters in the long run. Think twice.
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Originally posted by LordMombi
beautiful, 100% sure they're straight. AND in a relationship.
They're tall, dark, and so so so so handsome. Perfect smile, cool hair, beautiful face, perfect skin color.
Let me stop. :stop:
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Get over it. It's a huge no.
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
My crush is a mess. We always stare at in each other in the hallways and at lunch, it's so awkward, it's always longing and we don't stop till one of us turns away. We also have mutual friends but we don't talk a lot to each other. He's kinda a mess and sometimes rude but I like him.  |
Ask for his phone number or something that you can communicate via. If he has a ****** personality, stay away. Try to talk to him instead of staring at each other.
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Originally posted by Notorious K.E.N
Im getting a big crush on this guy from my floor. He's kinda slow and blunt but that makes him even cuter. He basically told me that im the only person on the floor he likes talking to. Im getting mixed signals from him to. Cause he only likes spending time with me and says he would never want a girlfriend. Im in a weird situation
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It's not weird. It's bright as a sunny Sunday morning. What are you waiting for ffs?
Make sure to keep me updated everyone. Common sense and simple steps will get you there. Good luck.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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I'm in love with a boy who's probably still in a relationship 
But his social media is giving me single teas, so it may be over
Anyway, he deserves better and I volunteer!
We're going to the same party in 2 weeks, so there I'll make a move 
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Originally posted by Dragonfly
I'm in love with a boy who's probably still in a relationship
But his social media is giving me single teas, so it may be over
Anyway, he deserves better and I volunteer!
We're going to the same party in 2 weeks, so there I'll make a move |
Finally someone who knows how to observe and hunt his prey.
Rest of you should take notes.
Good luck. 
Keep me updated.
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I need some advice on this situation
so my best friend recently got into a relationship with this really nice guy, and he has the mod beautiful friends, basically 2 of his friends went to France to work, so it was just him my so to speak "crush" and me and my bf so for the last three months its been the four of us almost everyday so naturally me and my "crush" got to know each other more and more and initially i never thought i would end up liking him (if im honest i used to like one of the others who went to france ) but he makes me laugh so much which makes him so f****** hot to me, he's really sweet and i genuinely have the best time when im with him, and because my friend and his friend are together it may as well be just me and him when we are together. in the last two weeks ive been seeing him on my own every few days and its great it isn't awkward at all and we really do have so much in common, so let me just explain that ive been friends with girls the last 6 years of my life that i literally forgot how to get along with guys so this was extremely weird for me initially but like i said because he is so easy to talk i didn't have the problems i do with other guys. there has been a few things that make me think something could happen (lord knows i deserve this its literally the 6th guy ive really liked and i don't think i can handle all this again) 1 his friend said to my friend " i have to be careful around him, sometimes i think he's gay" and he said he find it really funny when me and his friend talk because he turns really feminine around me, and when we all went out the other day one of my friends said he acts really weird with me if he is straight and he knows I'm gay (he is really touchy) and she said she could see why i like him, were all going to Amsterdam in 1 month as a 4 so thats a kii and a half
side note: he hasn't been snap chatting anyone or liking any pictures on insta since things got more intense between us, and i know intense is probably the wrong word but trust me there is loads of little things that happen between us that just make me 
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Tomorrow at 6pm hunties 
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A guy at my work, who everyone assumed was gay anyway, came out to us all the other day.
I am thrilled.
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I have not had a crush in so long. I am a senior in college and crushes are not the norm here. I miss the feeling of crushing on someone though--I have only had one male crush and I loved thinking about him. The feeling of crushing is so exhilarating and stressful at the same time.
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Originally posted by Scandal & Media
Tomorrow at 6pm hunties |
He wants to hangout again
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Originally posted by Scandal & Media
He wants to hangout again |
Congrats! I hope it works out well for you! He seems cool!
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I just got out of a really toxic, one-sided relationship so I don't really have any hardcore crushes but I do have some guys that I gawk at at school. They are just so hot but they are ALL straight. I'm pretty sure I'm the only gay boy in my high school (my school is honestly filled with lesbians and bisexual girls and it isn't fair  )
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Originally posted by LaNathan
Congrats! I hope it works out well for you! He seems cool!
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I just got out of a really toxic, one-sided relationship so I don't really have any hardcore crushes but I do have some guys that I gawk at at school. They are just so hot but they are ALL straight. I'm pretty sure I'm the only gay boy in my high school (my school is honestly filled with lesbians and bisexual girls and it isn't fair ) |
My school is literally the same. A whole bunch of Lesbians and ****s but not one guy feeling the security to come out as gay lmaoo. I gawk at a lot of the guys too their, I'm here for you! I'm sure you have many gays there! I KNOW some of the guys are gay at my school. My gaydar is off the charts most of the time.
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Originally posted by SegoForbRIHtney
My school is literally the same. A whole bunch of Lesbians and ****s but not one guy feeling the security to come out as gay lmaoo. I gawk at a lot of the guys too their, I'm here for you! I'm sure you have many gays there! I KNOW some of the guys are gay at my school. My gaydar is off the charts most of the time.
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God it sucks doesn't it?
But what kind of guys do you gawk at? I'm into the smart sexy jocks (we have like 2)
Thanks for the support lol! I kind of feel like that once I come out, several guys will follow suit.
At least I hope so
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Seeing my crush tomorrow! I HOPE he talks to me again! I HAVE to talk to him and start a conversation with him! Maybe exchange numbers? lol
I need to wear my best shirt, jeans, shoes, and wear my expensive fragrances. UGH! NERVOUS AF!
EDIT: Saw him today! HARD to talk to him when there is a **** after him! She sits next to him in class and is ALWAYS talking to him.
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Originally posted by LaNathan
God it sucks doesn't it?
But what kind of guys do you gawk at? I'm into the smart sexy jocks (we have like 2)
Thanks for the support lol! I kind of feel like that once I come out, several guys will follow suit.
At least I hope so
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I'm into the hispanics at my school with VERY pretty eyes and one light skinned black guy who could be a model for Abercrombie, no joke he's so handsome. Also we have a lot of guys their that are built. One of em has amazing eyebrows, cute big dimples, Arms and but and chest! He works at Ralph Lauren at a mall I could literally WALK to! I feel like he is gay. The signs are their. Not only does he manicure himself but I have never seen him with a girl and he, like I said, works at Ralph Lauren out of aall the places their.
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Originally posted by SegoForbRIHtney
My school is literally the same. A whole bunch of Lesbians and ****s but not one guy feeling the security to come out as gay lmaoo. I gawk at a lot of the guys too their, I'm here for you! I'm sure you have many gays there! I KNOW some of the guys are gay at my school. My gaydar is off the charts most of the time.
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Right???? There's no way my school can just be lesbians and bi girls! There must be tons of gay guys that don't have the confidence to come out. My gayday is also off the charts all of the time.
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Originally posted by bullshizzlen
Right???? There's no way my school can just be lesbians and bi girls! There must be tons of gay guys that don't have the confidence to come out. My gayday is also off the charts all of the time. |
It's so hard! I can't with all of these "straight" boys feeling the need for this mess. I live in Texas so there are so many closet cases and they think they are so Damn slick
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Originally posted by SegoForbRIHtney
I'm into the hispanics at my school with VERY pretty eyes and one light skinned black guy who could be a model for Abercrombie, no joke he's so handsome. Also we have a lot of guys their that are built. One of em has amazing eyebrows, cute big dimples, Arms and but and chest! He works at Ralph Lauren at a mall I could literally WALK to! I feel like he is gay. The signs are their. Not only does he manicure himself but I have never seen him with a girl and he, like I said, works at Ralph Lauren out of aall the places their.
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They all sound beautiful lol!
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But I think I realized I've been having a hardcore crush on this guy in my school.
He's in the same grade as me and he's really funny, but he's really nerdy and into weird movies and TV (Monty Python and Ghostbusters are his OBSESSIONS). We used to be best friends in elementary school before all my enemies took him away from me. But I remember specifically he stayed at my house for 4 hours longer than he was supposed to during my birthday party and he just was really cool and funny. Like he's not model status in any way, but just his overall package is so appealing to me... I don't know what it is, he's just cute, funny, smart, and a really wholesome person. I wish I still talked to him like I used to.
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Originally posted by LaNathan
They all sound beautiful lol!
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But I think I realized I've been having a hardcore crush on this guy in my school.
He's in the same grade as me and he's really funny, but he's really nerdy and into weird movies and TV (Monty Python and Ghostbusters are his OBSESSIONS). We used to be best friends in elementary school before all my enemies took him away from me. But I remember specifically he stayed at my house for 4 hours longer than he was supposed to during my birthday party and he just was really cool and funny. Like he's not model status in any way, but just his overall package is so appealing to me... I don't know what it is, he's just cute, funny, smart, and a really wholesome person. I wish I still talked to him like I used to.
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Do NOT be scared of talking to him. GO AND TALK TO HIM. I felt the same this year with another guy. I started talking to him, and now we are such great friends! He helps me with Spanish toooo! But go talk to the guy. He seems very approachable and a sweet person! He has it all, and since you guys were once best friends, maybe you guys and reminisce to start a convo. You seem to love his personality and that is the best way to fall for someone  . You can do it! I know you can!
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Originally posted by hardbrit
Seeing my crush tomorrow! I HOPE he talks to me again! I HAVE to talk to him and start a conversation with him! Maybe exchange numbers? lol
I need to wear my best shirt, jeans, shoes, and wear my expensive fragrances. UGH! NERVOUS AF!
EDIT: Saw him today! HARD to talk to him when there is a **** after him! She sits next to him in class and is ALWAYS talking to him.
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Tell that ***** to get tf out! Steal her seat or a seat NEXT TO THE GUY WHEN YOU SEE HIM IN CLASS AGAIN. DO IT!
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Originally posted by SegoForbRIHtney
Tell that ***** to get tf out! Steal her seat or a seat NEXT TO THE GUY WHEN YOU SEE HIM IN CLASS AGAIN. DO IT!
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I MIGHT see him in 1 hour at the parking THIS BITCH IS messing EVERYTHING UP! She will LITERALLY NOT LET HIM BREATHE
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