Ok, so I desperately need y'all help.
There's this perfect guy that I see everyday after school (he used to go to my school but he graduated) and I'm infatuated with the idea of him. I don't know his name or anything but I really want to talk to him but idk what I will talk to him about. And he's never alone he's always with some other guys so it's kinda hard to talk to him without they hearing what the conversation is about.
Although he is friends with one of my friends.
Also he wears colored contacts (not bc of his eyesight, for fashion) and someone said "he's gay when his contacts are in" he just smiled when the guy said that.
So I need your help
How do I find out his name.. how do I make him love me.
He's caught me staring at him a couple times also.
Ok, so I desperately need y'all help.
There's this perfect guy that I see everyday after school (he used to go to my school but he graduated) and I'm infatuated with the idea of him. I don't know his name or anything but I really want to talk to him but idk what I will talk to him about. And he's never alone he's always with some other guys so it's kinda hard to talk to him without they hearing what the conversation is about.
Although he is friends with one of my friends.
Also he wears colored contacts (not bc of his eyesight, for fashion) and someone said "he's gay when his contacts are in" he just smiled when the guy said that.
So I need your help
How do I find out his name.. how do I make him love me.
He's caught me staring at him a couple times also.
Today, I did a favor for the guy I was talking about a few weeks ago in here. He said "I could kiss you." (jokingly). I just had to hold back.
What I said: "Ew, I'm good. You can kiss her for me *points to random girl in the class*"
What I wanted to say: "COME TO PAPA BABY"
I've recently found the hottest gay guy in Sydney through lurking photos of gay clubs/bars on Facebook.
Anyway, he was tagged in one of them, so I lurked his Facebook and Instagram and discovered I'm his type. He's a black bodybuilder (recreational bodybuilding, I don't think he's professional, but he could be ) and he's from Atlanta, Georgia. He moved here like a year ago and I looked him up at work the other day (I work at Australia's largest gym chain) and sure enough he's a member at one of the clubs in the city. He just signed an 18-month contract so he seems to have moved here with no current plans of going back. His insta and FB also say that he's single.
I don't know what to do I haven't had a crush on someone since like December 2011 and that turned into a relationship so bad that for the past 3 years I've been like "nup, I love being single" but this man is so hot.
And he doesn't even know I exist I don't know what to do or how to approach the situation. I figure considering I can look him up at work, I can see where and when he trains. In fact I already have He trains at this club in the city where I used to work and always between 6pm and 8pm. Except the club in the city that he trains at, is a club I used to work at, which is also the club where (last time I checked) my (other) ex is a personal trainer. He's how I got the job there, and then when we started hating each other so much that it got awkward, I transferred to another club.
Also I used to be really into the scene, but I used to go out and get really ****ed up on alcohol and party drugs, and just developed this reputation for being a massive mess, which I was. So I don't really want to go back to this old gym that I used to work at, but I really want to meet this guy And I don't want to do it on social media. And I can't find him on grindr, even when I limit the minimum age to 26 and the maximum age to 26. I also looked up his age at work
Anyone you like enough to write an ESSAY about on here deserves a follow-up. **** your ex (not literally ) and go suss out that guy. God knows how upfront you want to be, but for all the effort you've mustered up you might need to just approach him and somehow be like "heeyyy" and god knows what from there.
There's this security guard at my college that's really hot, but I'm almost certain he's straight. Plus, I'm not sure if dating campus staff is even permitted or not.
But at least I get to look at him while he patrols the school grounds.
There's this guy in my physics lecture and we made eye contact one day and I can't stop thinking about him now. I NEVER get like this. it was like slow motion like you see in movies
idk if he's gay/bi or straight though. I went to the class roster and looked up all of the male names on facebook and couldn't find him. I need to know even if it's weird that I did that
When you see the person of your dreams and you know you have no chance at all because you're a loser and ugly af...
Awe, dont think that way I mean I don't know what you look like but I'm sure your not ugly.
You will find the person of your dreams some day
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Originally posted by Mezter
Today, I did a favor for the guy I was talking about a few weeks ago in here. He said "I could kiss you." (jokingly). I just had to hold back.
What I said: "Ew, I'm good. You can kiss her for me *points to random girl in the class*"
What I wanted to say: "COME TO PAPA BABY"
How are you so sure he was joking?
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Originally posted by Gagamon
There's this guy in my physics lecture and we made eye contact one day and I can't stop thinking about him now. I NEVER get like this. it was like slow motion like you see in movies
idk if he's gay/bi or straight though. I went to the class roster and looked up all of the male names on facebook and couldn't find him. I need to know even if it's weird that I did that
Cute
I think everyone is guilty of doing that. Maybe not to that extent but yeah
We finally had sex, guys It was awesome He asked me to his house to have a "movie night" And things went on and on and we ended up naked on his bed
But, there is a problem Back when I was using hook up applications, I once chatted with a guy who apparently a prostitute I didn't do anything with him, we chatted only once (I blocked him hours after he told me he is an escort boy) ... and that guy, with a remarkable tattoo on his chest, is my boy's housemate What should I do now
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I'm confused, guys, I need your help
He sent me a friend request on facebook a year ago through a mutual friend. We then didn't chat much, just some short conversation about the biggest Halloween party of the year and we would meet there. We did see each others in the party, have a short conversation and nothing more than friendly greeting.
For the last 3 months, we've been texting a lot, like, everyday, about random stuff, and making plan for our night out. On the first date, we went to see Guardians of The Galaxy and ended up in 2 bars. He brought me home and suggested to stay in my place. I refused because my brother was in the house that night (I mostly live alone). Then for the next few dates, he didn't mention it or bring it up, like he's totally forget about it
The last time we hang out was last week. I didn't know what he meant but it was like this: G - Are you sure you can go home? You seem a bit drunk. Do you want to stay at my place?
Me - Nah, I can make it home, I'm sober enough to ride
G - OK, then, take care
Me - Ooooh, so you got me drunk and ask me to go to ur place, that's your plan eh?
G - No, if I want to have sex with you, I would say it, but I won't, not now.
Me - OK then, text me when you get home.
We're still texting everyday, planning our next night out and ****.
P.S - He broke up with his bf 4 months ago and move out completely last month
The question is, is he interested in me? We hasn't touched yet Did I expose him on the last date and blow my chance?
We finally had sex, guys It was awesome He asked me to his house to have a "movie night" And things went on and on and we ended up naked on his bed
But, there is a problem Back when I was using hook up applications, I once chatted with a guy who apparently a prostitute I didn't do anything with him, we chatted only once (I blocked him hours after he told me he is an escort boy) ... and that guy, with a remarkable tattoo on his chest, is my boy's housemate What should I do now
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I'm confused, guys, I need your help
He sent me a friend request on facebook a year ago through a mutual friend. We then didn't chat much, just some short conversation about the biggest Halloween party of the year and we would meet there. We did see each others in the party, have a short conversation and nothing more than friendly greeting.
For the last 3 months, we've been texting a lot, like, everyday, about random stuff, and making plan for our night out. On the first date, we went to see Guardians of The Galaxy and ended up in 2 bars. He brought me home and suggested to stay in my place. I refused because my brother was in the house that night (I mostly live alone). Then for the next few dates, he didn't mention it or bring it up, like he's totally forget about it
The last time we hang out was last week. I didn't know what he meant but it was like this: G - Are you sure you can go home? You seem a bit drunk. Do you want to stay at my place?
Me - Nah, I can make it home, I'm sober enough to ride
G - OK, then, take care
Me - Ooooh, so you got me drunk and ask me to go to ur place, that's your plan eh?
G - No, if I want to have sex with you, I would say it, but I won't, not now.
Me - OK then, text me when you get home.
We're still texting everyday, planning our next night out and ****.
P.S - He broke up with his bf 4 months ago and move out completely last month
The question is, is he interested in me? We hasn't touched yet Did I expose him on the last date and blow my chance?
) and he's from Atlanta, Georgia. He moved here like a year ago and I looked him up at work the other day (I work at Australia's largest gym chain) and sure enough he's a member at one of the clubs in the city. He just signed an 18-month contract so he seems to have moved here with no current plans of going back. His insta and FB also say that he's single.
I haven't had a crush on someone since like December 2011 and that turned into a relationship so bad that for the past 3 years I've been like "nup, I love being single" but this man is so hot.
I don't know what to do or how to approach the situation. I figure considering I can look him up at work, I can see where and when he trains. In fact I already have 
He trains at this club in the city where I used to work and always between 6pm and 8pm. Except the club in the city that he trains at, is a club I used to work at, which is also the club where (last time I checked) my (other) ex is a personal trainer. He's how I got the job there, and then when we started hating each other so much that it got awkward, I transferred to another club.
Plus, I'm not sure if dating campus staff is even permitted or not. 
It was awesome 
What should I do now 
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