I've recently found the hottest gay guy in Sydney through lurking photos of gay clubs/bars on Facebook.
Anyway, he was tagged in one of them, so I lurked his Facebook and Instagram and discovered I'm his type. He's a black bodybuilder (recreational bodybuilding, I don't think he's professional, but he could be
) and he's from Atlanta, Georgia. He moved here like a year ago and I looked him up at work the other day (I work at Australia's largest gym chain) and sure enough he's a member at one of the clubs in the city. He just signed an 18-month contract so he seems to have moved here with no current plans of going back. His insta and FB also say that he's single.
I don't know what to do
I haven't had a crush on someone since like December 2011 and that turned into a relationship so bad that for the past 3 years I've been like "nup, I love being single" but this man is so hot.
And he doesn't even know I exist
I don't know what to do or how to approach the situation. I figure considering I can look him up at work, I can see where and when he trains. In fact I already have
He trains at this club in the city where I used to work and always between 6pm and 8pm. Except the club in the city that he trains at, is a club I used to work at, which is also the club where (last time I checked) my (other) ex is a personal trainer. He's how I got the job there, and then when we started hating each other so much that it got awkward, I transferred to another club.
Also I used to be really into the scene, but I used to go out and get really ****ed up on alcohol and party drugs, and just developed this reputation for being a massive mess, which I was. So I don't really want to go back to this old gym that I used to work at, but I really want to meet this guy
And I don't want to do it on social media. And I can't find him on grindr, even when I limit the minimum age to 26 and the maximum age to 26. I also looked up his age at work
are you openly gay? If you don't mind me asking.
I'll just see where this goes, if it even goes anywhere lol
kisses and cuddles all night <3 
