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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by Saint
I hate you now
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Don't hate me
Chapter 6 coming tomorrow, hopefully!
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Member Since: 3/14/2013
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Originally posted by AllEyesOnUz
stay safe sis
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Guess you didn't
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Mess at me forgetting to post chapter 6
Tomorrow
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Member Since: 1/6/2014
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Why I always end up talking more with my crush's parents than with my crush itself
Not that I complain, they're lovely, but sis, show up a biT
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Member Since: 2/2/2014
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theres just some guy that i kindle grew up with my with my whole life and i always thought he was straight although he was very artistic and stuff he was big into sports. But this year i found out he was bi and that he had a big ass crush on me and that he was kind've obsessed? And then he started talking to my best friend begging her to set me and him up so she like begged me to just text him to shut him up (lol) so i did and we just had a normal convo ab how our summers were going and i really diddnt feel anything for him but apparently he felt something for me. He was like telling everyone that he's like peeing his pants bc he was so excited that i was talking to him and he was like sending screenshots to his friends and stuff, he was just very excited. which was really cute. but then it kind've got to the point where he was creeping me out bc he was getting obsessive asking anonymous questions about himself on my ask.fm asking how i felt about him and just a million questions ab him. so obviously i knew it was him. and then he got in contact with like every single one of my friends to ask how i felt about him. and it really started to scare me. so i kind've have just calmed it down with him although i never thought there was much to calm down bc i never really felt anything for him.. i don't really feel much of a spark he's not like my type he's pretty dark and depressed and **** and I'm like the complete opposite so idrk what to do or how i feel about him bc i really want a relationship..should i date him anyways and lower my standards or something ?
heres his instagram: http://instagram.com/jtullo?modal=true ( i don't really find him that hot but pls leave your opinion)
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
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This guy i've known for a little over a year now.
We go out once in a while and when we do, we hold hands and kiss each other, etc.
When he drops me off at my house, he said, "love you... and give me a final kiss."
I don't even know what kind of relationship it is.Are we dating or are we just friends?
It's complicated.
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
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Originally posted by blackoutbritney
theres just some guy that i kindle grew up with my with my whole life and i always thought he was straight although he was very artistic and stuff he was big into sports. But this year i found out he was bi and that he had a big ass crush on me and that he was kind've obsessed? And then he started talking to my best friend begging her to set me and him up so she like begged me to just text him to shut him up (lol) so i did and we just had a normal convo ab how our summers were going and i really diddnt feel anything for him but apparently he felt something for me. He was like telling everyone that he's like peeing his pants bc he was so excited that i was talking to him and he was like sending screenshots to his friends and stuff, he was just very excited. which was really cute. but then it kind've got to the point where he was creeping me out bc he was getting obsessive asking anonymous questions about himself on my ask.fm asking how i felt about him and just a million questions ab him. so obviously i knew it was him. and then he got in contact with like every single one of my friends to ask how i felt about him. and it really started to scare me. so i kind've have just calmed it down with him although i never thought there was much to calm down bc i never really felt anything for him.. i don't really feel much of a spark he's not like my type he's pretty dark and depressed and **** and I'm like the complete opposite so idrk what to do or how i feel about him bc i really want a relationship..should i date him anyways and lower my standards or something ?
heres his instagram: http://instagram.com/jtullo?modal=true ( i don't really find him that hot but pls leave your opinion)
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There's no such thing as "lower my standard"....
That's used to make one feel as if they're looking for too much, but the truth is love can happen at anytime and you will not be aware of your standard at all.
IMO, if you want to give yourself a chance to get to know him better then maybe go out to lunch together and talk. That guy seems like he's lusting over you, but of course, if you get to know him and stuff, you guys can turn it into love. But again, you don't seem interested at all.
And i do think he's being a little too obsessed over you. I will admit, though, when i have a crush on someone i do the same thing but not as crazy as him. If you don't give him a chance, then you should just tell him that you're not interested, so he can stop lusting over you.
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
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Originally posted by ForeverNow90
So there's this guy I met today at the drama club I'm part of and he is cute for the gawds and we actually had a great convo. I'm very guarded for the most part that's why people don't usually make an effort to get to know me, but cutie asked me questions and wanted to know more about my life etc. I don't think he's gay, but I will observe ha. He seems like an interesting person and he's 100% my type
I've been smiling ever since he walked me to my car. He's so nice I'll keep yall updated. Our next club meeting is on Monday
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how it be now ,sis?
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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I'm kinda over my crush. He lives 6hrs away and has just gone on holiday for a month and we only see each other like twice a month at best. Plus I'm probably fleeing the country, or at least moving far away, in December so... IDK. It just feels annoying, but he's someone to hang out with and do stuff with I guess. Yawn. I want a real lusty, heartfelt kinda thing.
If this was a different sorta site I'd post a really graphic story and post pictures BUT...
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Originally posted by Jae
Previous Chapters
Chapter 1: The Crush Begins
So for the past two years I've had a crush on this guy who has always gone to school with me but we hadn't really known eachother at all up until sixth form. He ended up in two ( ) classes with me and one of his other classes was in the room opposite my other class, in a building made up solely of those two rooms. Needless to say, I saw him very often, every day, and, to my surprise, started to develop feelings for him. I didn't really see it coming, because he was never anything special when I'd seen him around school in the years previously but puberty had done him wonders!
Anyway, we spoke every so often for a month or two, and I tried my hardest to conceal my feelings, which was difficult during class because we sat within eachother's view in the two classes we shared. One day we were moved up to an ICT Suite to work on a project and he leaned against one of the tables and his ass was resting perfectly on the edge. I swear I have never broken a sweat and had my heart rate increase so fast in my damn life holy ****.
The next time we were in class we had a break between the two hour slots and he got onto the table and
lay down on his stomach so the curvature of his sweet cake was visible for me the class to see. Of course, no one else thought anything of it but I was sat there trying to contain myself from leaping up onto the table and mounting him there and then
Since it was during the five minute break I made a quick exit out of the room and into the common room to speak to some of my friends to distract myself
Chapter 2: A Convienient Link
After a couple of weeks it was discovered that one of my crush's friends liked one of my friends, and both of our friendship groups were encouraging the two of them to go out, whilst teasing them a little bit too. As a result I ended up speaking to my crush more often, usually about our friends and finding out how his friend felt about my friend but tbh I didn't give a **** because I was too busy thinking about how much I wanted this guy. After about a month, my crush's friend decided to start messaging my friend, and both of our friend groups were becoming rather interested and engrossed in the unexpected relationship that blossomed between the two of them. For weeks following, I messaged my crush regarding our friends and got to know him fairly well.
A week later, I was sat in class by myself, (the others on my table were on a trip) so my crush invited me over to sit at his table. We got to talking about our lives and our backgrounds etc. He told me I sounded 'posh' and I explained that it was because my family are from a quiet little village in rural England, and I was quite determined to not let the city slang work its way into my vocabulary. We kept talking and ended up talking about real deep **** like my depression in 2011 and stuff.
The next time we spoke, we starting talking about music, and I mentioned how I produce my own songs and do the occasional remix. He told me that I should remix one of his favourite songs and wrote down the name of the song on a piece of paper. As soon as I got home I sniffed that piece of paper till I felt dizzy and got to work and finished the remix in a matter of hours it was really ****** but I was trying so hard to impress him anyhow he said the remix was great and I ended up doing another one
Chapter 3: Sexspeare (THIS IS WHERE IT GETS GOOD)
Chapter 4: What A Blow
Shortly after the events in Chapter 3 (go check it out if you haven't already) I discovered that my crush had recently gotten together with a girl Of course I began to question his sexuality immediately and the motives behind the events in Chapter 3 (seriously if you haven't read it what are you still doing here? GO! NOW!) My crush then made the mistake of retweeting his girlfriend on twitter so I got on that bitch's profile and followed her and found her instagram and followed her there too. I was not about to let her sweep in and get that
D
before me
About a week after I followed the bitch on instagram, she put up a photo of my crush wearing one of her dresses and heavy makeup (eyeliner, mascara, lipstick, eyebrow pencil, foundation, the LOT ) and the caption revealed that he had asked her to "do [his] makeup" This raised more questions in my head about which team he bats for so in a desperate attempt to find out and get to know him better I (don't judge me) asked him if he'd dress as a woman for my photography project He didn't reply to my message
A few weeks later we were in class and his table were having a conversation about their
sexual experiences
and it was revealed by someone else that my crush had
recieved a Britney Jean in a cleaners' cupboard
while he was in hospital Then during the 5 minute break, my crush went to the toilet, and didn't come back for about 10 minutes, by which time we had started reading our books in silence. He then walked in, slammed the door, and said "
Sir, is it normal for your foreskin to shine
?" Like Needless to say I had a very strange image in my head for a good couple of daysminutes
Chapter 5: Asked Out...?
Shortly after, I was back in class and while I was unpacking my crush asked me whether or not I had been out clubbing or not, to which I answered no. He then went on to ask me if I wanted to go out clubbing with him that weekend (like holy ****ing **** what yes I want to go clubbing with you you hot slice ), so I said I'd have to check if I was available (as if I was going to openly pounce on the opportunity? Please!) So I went home and asked my mum if I could go out clubbing and she said NO so the next day I had to lie to my crush and say I was going away for the weekend so he didn't know I couldn't go because I wasn't ALLOWED to go I was SO close to getting that
drunk D
A few weeks later my crush was gone for a week on a trip to ****ing BOSTON luckily some photos of him shirtless in his hotel room made it onto instagram which helped me through the difficult time When he got back we were in class and I sat by him again because the other people on my table weren't in, and we got to talking again and he mentioned that his birthday was in a few months, and that he'd love if I came along and "did [my] dj thing" like what YAS BITCH
More chapters comning soon
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The slayage and impact! Ugh crushes are so heartwrenching. CACKLING at you asking him to dress as a woman and him not responding. Lmao at your mum not letting you go, it's called sneaking out and being a rebellious teen sis.
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
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Originally posted by Reinvention
I'm kinda over my crush. He lives 6hrs away and has just gone on holiday for a month and we only see each other like twice a month at best. Plus I'm probably fleeing the country, or at least moving far away, in December so... IDK. It just feels annoying, but he's someone to hang out with and do stuff with I guess. Yawn. I want a real lusty, heartfelt kinda thing.
If this was a different sorta site I'd post a really graphic story and post pictures BUT...
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I have a lot of free space in my inbox
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by Mariah4life
I have a lot of free space in my inbox
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I sent the messy details your way.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by Reinvention
I'm kinda over my crush. He lives 6hrs away and has just gone on holiday for a month and we only see each other like twice a month at best. Plus I'm probably fleeing the country, or at least moving far away, in December so... IDK. It just feels annoying, but he's someone to hang out with and do stuff with I guess. Yawn. I want a real lusty, heartfelt kinda thing.
If this was a different sorta site I'd post a really graphic story and post pictures BUT...
The slayage and impact! Ugh crushes are so heartwrenching. CACKLING at you asking him to dress as a woman and him not responding. Lmao at your mum not letting you go, it's called sneaking out and being a rebellious teen sis.
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I don't know what I was thinking
And last February I told my mum I was going to a small get together for my friend's birthday when it was a full blown house party and I got wasted so rebellious
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by Jae
I don't know what I was thinking
And last February I told my mum I was going to a small get together for my friend's birthday when it was a full blown house party and I got wasted so rebellious
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You were thinking out of desperation, and sadly we've all been there.
How old are you anyway? I can't really ever remember asking my parents to go anywhere so much as me telling them what I was doing and then me doing it.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by Reinvention
You were thinking out of desperation, and sadly we've all been there.
How old are you anyway? I can't really ever remember asking my parents to go anywhere so much as me telling them what I was doing and then me doing it.
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I'm eighteen (I was seventeen at the time) but I hadn't been out clubbing before I don't think I would've gotten in anyway
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screaming at these chapters !!
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by HumanitySector
screaming at these chapters !!
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Which one are you on?
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Jae
Which one are you on?
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Where is chapter 6 tho? I'm waiting so I can drag you a biT.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by Saint
Where is chapter 6 tho? I'm waiting so I can drag you a biT.
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Coming tomorrow/later today. It's 3am where I am right now
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Member Since: 8/8/2012
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I'm really over the Austen guy from my french class that I was crushing on for months. I finally became friends with him and realized that he's one of the most unintelligent, uninteresting, just overall dull people I've ever met. I can't be with someone like that. I stopped talking to him after like the 3rd time we hung out. I'm fine being acquaintances with him but iiii I can't be anything more than that. #Sorrybout it
Now I'm crushing on one of my 'straight' friends which is a struggle
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My crush hasn't uploaded a pic to Instagram since March, wtf.
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