[ethann.]

Someone needs to make a good foolproof list of ways to know for sure a guy is interested in guys too, despite what he might say because he is in the denial stage... Stereotypes or not, there has to be a few that are dead giveaways...

[Katy Perry]

Originally posted by ethann.

Someone needs to make a good foolproof list of ways to know for sure a guy is interested in guys too, despite what he might say because he is in the denial stage... Stereotypes or not, there has to be a few that are dead giveaways...

Madonna
Never had a GF
Always stares at guys

[Rihinvention]

Wow I haven't "crushed" on someone in over 2 years hahahaha

I remember that feeling though. Butterflies in your stomach and constantly checking your phone.

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by Katy Perry

Madonna
Never had a GF
Always stares at guys

This is my crush. And it's funny because girls in my school always throw themselves at him and talk about how attractive he is

[tigerlily13]

My crush/former crush (who's a foreign exchange student, it's a long damn story) leaves back to his country in two weeks. I'm not upset, in fact I don't even know how I feel about it.

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by tigerlily13

My crush/former crush (who's a foreign exchange student, it's a long damn story) leaves back to his country in two weeks. I'm not upset, in fact I don't even know how I feel about.

Isn't this the homophobic one?

[BILLIONAIRE✘BOY]

Originally posted by marajxgrant

Cameron keeps telling me he loves me & that he wants to be with me & not his girlfriend idk what to do.

Wait what Oh ****

[tigerlily13]

Originally posted by Quiqui4eva

Isn't this the homophobic one?

I have no idea what he is. I'm done with trying. But he's always looking at me whenever I walk by him. He's into fitness and I've like lost like a lot of weight these past few months so maybe he's just jealous or wants weight loss tips.

[ethann.]

Originally posted by Katy Perry

Madonna
Never had a GF
Always stares at guys

Personally I have never liked Madge but this guy does on FB among many other female chanteuses. We are both Beyonce Stans and he does the whole I am Beyonce, u r Michelle jig lmao...

This guy is a captain of a major sports code at school and a pretty popular guy but to my knowledge he has never had a gf and I swear he is not interested in girls... I've known this guy for 7 years now and we have gotten closer as friends over the last two ish years. The only pretty girls he likes on FB are girls from shows on Nickelodeon and Disney LMAAAO and like women from E! And stuff like that

Idk if he stares at guys but he is a fan of one direction and once commented that Liam is now his now that he's dumped his GF lol..

Also last night he liked RuPaul on fb

He sounds like the biggest flamer based on this description but if you looked at or talked to him you would never think it at all. He's also kind of ish told me he's not gay but not that I've asked... He seems to bring it up himself lol

Idk but he's a really great cool guy and I have developed feelings for him but I'm good at hiding it lol.. Sometimes I notice him seeing me and I pretend not to see him like two nights ago at this school ball and he sometimes sees me and fixes his hair lol... I swear tho

Doubt he likes me but there's recently been some sort of thing between us ever since the first time I kinda called him out for maybe not being as straight as he says...

Also he dos a mighty good **** drop and his friends who do his sport with him who are also my friends have told me he danced very homo to Beyonce single ladies at a competition camp lol

But no gurls, he is very very straight acting and he is interested in sports and pretty manly rock music despite all these other things

He is a confusing mess

ETA: at this ball we ended up dancing together with a few friends and he was droppin it like the rent was due tomorrow but then all of a sudden they started playing a slow song and we were pretty much alone and we were doing the whole playful slow groove thing to John Mayer gravity while talking face to face and it was just so ...

[Katy Perry]

Originally posted by ethann.

Personally I have never liked Madge but this guy does on FB among many other female chanteuses. We are both Beyonce Stans and he does the whole I am Beyonce, u r Michelle jig lmao...

This guy is a captain of a major sports code at school and a pretty popular guy but to my knowledge he has never had a gf and I swear he is not interested in girls... I've known this guy for 7 years now and we have gotten closer as friends over the last two ish years. The only pretty girls he likes on FB are girls from shows on Nickelodeon and Disney LMAAAO and like women from E! And stuff like that

Idk if he stares at guys but he is a fan of one direction and once commented that Liam is now his now that he's dumped his GF lol..

Also last night he liked RuPaul on fb

He sounds like the biggest flamer based on this description but if you looked at or talked to him you would never think it at all. He's also kind of ish told me he's not gay but not that I've asked... He seems to bring it up himself lol

Idk but he's a really great cool guy and I have developed feelings for him but I'm good at hiding it lol.. Sometimes I notice him seeing me and I pretend not to see him like two nights ago at this school ball and he sometimes sees me and fixes his hair lol... I swear tho

Doubt he likes me but there's recently been some sort of thing between us ever since the first time I kinda called him out for maybe not being as straight as he says...

Also he dos a mighty good **** drop and his friends who do his sport with him who are also my friends have told me he danced very homo to Beyonce single ladies at a competition camp lol

But no gurls, he is very very straight acting and he is interested in sports and pretty manly rock music despite all these other things

He is a confusing mess

ETA: at this ball we ended up dancing together with a few friends and he was droppin it like the rent was due tomorrow but then all of a sudden they started playing a slow song and we were pretty much alone and we were doing the whole playful slow groove thing to John Mayer gravity while talking face to face and it was just so ...

Sis, he's in the closet, and your story is so cute. No straight guy will like Ru Paul on facebook or talk about Beyonce like that. Start paying attention to his reaction to attractive females or guys in school. If you see him quickly glance at only guys he's gay. It's really hard to catch though. If you're looking at him he might try to hide it.
I caught my crush checking me out once and he started fixing his hair and acting all strange and fidgety in class. He also plays the stare game with me in class but acts so straight. I'm so confused.

I should try dating a flamer instead, it's easier this way.

Originally posted by Quiqui4eva

This is my crush. And it's funny because girls in my school always throw themselves at him and talk about how attractive he is

You should try flirting with him and see how he reacts.

[Black Umbrella]

Originally posted by marajxgrant

Cameron keeps telling me he loves me & that he wants to be with me & not his girlfriend idk what to do.

I'm not sure it's all up to you ! ( but why would he say this like now? )

[Feather]

This guy I have a crush on is doing his masters, I think he just turned 25 this year, been school all his life and never had a girlfriend... and he's straight.

I work with him (I work in retail) and I asked him why he never had a girlfriend. He said because he's busy with school. When I tell him what does he do when it's summer vacation, he says he has to work. So his life is too busy to have a girlfriend. All the girls at work has a huge crush on him, he flirts back but nothing more.

Anyways, he knows I'm gay and I kind of do have feelings for him. It's been months and he knows it because my friends (co workers) always tell him, and he's not homophobic or anything, but he tells me that he's not interested in me. I find it weird that he always says he's "not interested" or he will say "he's straight" but when I ask him who does he like, or ideal type of person, he will describe me what his ideal type is... without specifying the gender. Example he will be like "My perfect type is someone who goes to the gym, eats healthy, has good education, good job, etc.". He's always joking around about being gay, saying if he was gay he would find a man to take care of him, because "he's straight, so he has to take care of the girl". He's in finance so he's always thinking about dollar signs.

Anyway, the other night we all went to a house party, and he talked to me and he told me "nothing in personal, I hope you know that". I think this is his way telling me that he doesn't want me to make anymore moves on him... I keep talking about him at work (that I have a crush on him) and I guess me talking about him, are making people think that he is gay and he doesn't like that. But... I genuinely do think he's gay. He's so "busy" with his life and he's never had a girlfriend. Oh yeah! And I forgot to mention - he told me he doesn't want to have a girlfriend because he got out of a long term relationship (3 years) and he thought that was his dream girl, so when they broke up he couldn't get over her - so I was like, "oh, so this guy is straight". But then I found out from his best friend that "long term relationship" was from when he was 20 - which was five years ago

[Saint]

Originally posted by marajxgrant

Cameron keeps telling me he loves me & that he wants to be with me & not his girlfriend idk what to do.

[ethann.]

Originally posted by Katy Perry

Sis, he's in the closet, and your story is so cute. No straight guy will like Ru Paul on facebook or talk about Beyonce like that. Start paying attention to his reaction to attractive females or guys in school. If you see him quickly glance at only guys he's gay. It's really hard to catch though. If you're looking at him he might try to hide it.
I caught my crush checking me out once and he started fixing his hair and acting all strange and fidgety in class. He also plays the stare game with me in class but acts so straight. I'm so confused.

I should try dating a flamer instead, it's easier this way.

Ya think soo???

The thing is I don't want to be stuck in a "wishful thinking" position... but Yeah if you base it on stereotypes like that it's very true but tbh it's not even stereotypes that much anymore is it he's a raging Bey stan i don't see how he could talk about her like that

... also I was the one who accidentally linked (like legit accident) a few months back and at the time he was wow wtf was that, it looks mental... but i just noticed last night he liked his FB page ...

We go to an all guys school so it's hard to see what his reactions to girls are but I have never heard him talk about girls being attractive or hot or anything like that ... my good friend once spied him checking out a hot guy quickly but Idk if I can take his word for it 100%

I find this guy pretty dang attractive too, but mainly what draws me to him is his warmth and like general persona - he's pretty chill but still outgoing and he balances me out cuz im outgoing too but can be more frenetic lol

Thanks KP for your reply tho
Tell me more about your story, we can get thru the herds of mess together !!

and Here's a few things he's said in chats and comments on FB just for the giggles:

"beyonce will be screaming my name today and wishing blue was named [his name]! but I know she's proud of us!"

"I think I figured why beyonce was the only successful one

You see its Destiny's CHILD and not Destiny's CHILDREN so destiny had to decide on on true child and beyonce was the only one that shone above the rest"

"My **** drops are insane 100% the best you will see"

" I am a very good dancer it's like my hidden talent, I have insane hip movement.

and cause I'm a guy it appears like I'm a hoe"

"Did you see what he was wearing?"

"Precious is like a soft ghetto name, like trying to stay within the white regime but you know she will be hard bitch"

"i have to sort out team clothing and i don't want to look like a cheap unfashionable sports team."

i am so bored

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by ethann.

Ya think soo???

The thing is I don't want to be stuck in a "wishful thinking" position... but Yeah if you base it on stereotypes like that it's very true but tbh it's not even stereotypes that much anymore is it he's a raging Bey stan i don't see how he could talk about her like that

... also I was the one who accidentally linked (like legit accident) a few months back and at the time he was wow wtf was that, it looks mental... but i just noticed last night he liked his FB page ...

We go to an all guys school so it's hard to see what his reactions to girls are but I have never heard him talk about girls being attractive or hot or anything like that ... my good friend once spied him checking out a hot guy quickly but Idk if I can take his word for it 100%

I find this guy pretty dang attractive too, but mainly what draws me to him is his warmth and like general persona - he's pretty chill but still outgoing and he balances me out cuz im outgoing too but can be more frenetic lol

Thanks KP for your reply tho
Tell me more about your story, we can get thru the herds of mess together !!

and Here's a few things he's said in chats and comments on FB just for the giggles:

"beyonce will be screaming my name today and wishing blue was named [his name]! but I know she's proud of us!"

"I think I figured why beyonce was the only successful one

You see its Destiny's CHILD and not Destiny's CHILDREN so destiny had to decide on on true child and beyonce was the only one that shone above the rest"

"My **** drops are insane 100% the best you will see"

" I am a very good dancer it's like my hidden talent, I have insane hip movement.

and cause I'm a guy it appears like I'm a hoe"

"Did you see what he was wearing?"

"Precious is like a soft ghetto name, like trying to stay within the white regime but you know she will be hard bitch"

"i have to sort out team clothing and i don't want to look like a cheap unfashionable sports team."

i am so bored

You should invite him over

[tigerlily13]

Moments like these I find myself in my feelings listening to Taylor Swift. It's kind of why I started stanning.

[bleuwaffle]

So I hung out with my friends yesterday and they brought along this one guy that is literally my clone. We are SO SIMILAR and he's so nice. He asked for my number and I gave it to him but I never got a text. My friend just sent me his number because apparently he couldn't get a hold of me. That means he's making an effort to talk to me (right?).

How do I send the first text without being awkward? I'm new to this, I just came out to my friends yesterday.

I'm overreacting for sure but whatever.

[Black Umbrella]

Originally posted by bleuwaffle

So I hung out with my friends yesterday and they brought along this one guy that is literally my clone. We are SO SIMILAR and he's so nice. He asked for my number and I gave it to him but I never got a text. My friend just sent me his number because apparently he couldn't get a hold of me. That means he's making an effort to talk to me (right?).

How do I send the first text without being awkward? I'm new to this, I just came out to my friends yesterday.

I'm overreacting for sure but whatever.

I'm happy for you coming out

I just wanna ask you first if this guys is straight or gay? Are you actually intrested in him?

and to answer your question, you can just send him Hi I'm ____ how are you? things like this comes naturally don't think about it so much

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by bleuwaffle

So I hung out with my friends yesterday and they brought along this one guy that is literally my clone. We are SO SIMILAR and he's so nice. He asked for my number and I gave it to him but I never got a text. My friend just sent me his number because apparently he couldn't get a hold of me. That means he's making an effort to talk to me (right?).

How do I send the first text without being awkward? I'm new to this, I just came out to my friends yesterday.

I'm overreacting for sure but whatever.

Just reply "hey it's ___". It really isn't that big of a deal lol

[bleuwaffle]

Originally posted by Black Umbrella

I'm happy for you coming out

I just wanna ask you first if this guys is straight or gay? Are you actually intrested in him?

and to answer your question, you can just send him Hi I'm ____ how are you? things like this comes naturally don't think about it so much

Thank you! He's gay, and we're so alike in some ways that it'd be interesting to see if we click know?

Originally posted by Quiqui4eva

Just reply "hey it's ___". It really isn't that big of a deal lol

lmao I know