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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Originally posted by Phoenixx
No. I will be seeing him today in class and we might talk a bit. And there's this party next week at college and he's staying at a friend of mines house and I might stay there too OMG! That would mean that we would have to kinda sleep in the same room or something. I don't know what I'll do. Maybe I'll stay at another friend's house that night 
But I don't know if he's gay or if he's into me but he has given some signs already... So I'm really confused. I hope that I'm not reading it wrong or something. I honestly don't know what to think...
Do you think I should go to that party and stay at my friend's house with HIM? I would be so nervous I wouldn't be able to sleep. It's such a coincidence we have the same friends but we don't really know each other. |
That's really exciting!  I really think that you should go to the party, and just see what happens. Will there be drinking? If so, do you plan on drinking? I wouldn't drink too much, because you might do or say some things you'll end up regretting, but a little bit of alcohol might make it easier for you to talk to him and open up more. I would see where the night leads, and if you feel comfortable staying the night with him, do it. If it were me, I'd be a little aggressive and just stay the night anyway.
Does he know that you're gay?
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Originally posted by Dinosauer
Yaaaaaassssss this is actually the most beautiful thing I've ever read, my sloppy crush stories could never.  God even though I have a new crush, and even though I think I somehow wrote in here that he'd cancelled out my new crush, I think I now realize my new-ish crush is just a temporary replacement to ease my loneliness until I can get back to my home country and finally, for once and for all, ask my crush of like 3 years out on a date. I mean I have no idea if he likes me, but he occasionally likes my things on FB or favorites my tweets (well his last fave of a tweet was like a year ago so...  ) but at least he hasn't completely forgotten me. |
Aw, thank you. 
It was always the same for me. I would go from crush to crush to fill the emptiness of my dating life. And it worked, and felt nice. You'll find someone, I promise. It just takes times. When you give up searching, the right person will come to you. When do you go back home?
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Hey guys 
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Me and Dave are talking again  but he's leaving for two weeks in week to go to Florida 
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Originally posted by ManDown
Aw, thank you.
It was always the same for me. I would go from crush to crush to fill the emptiness of my dating life. And it worked, and felt nice. You'll find someone, I promise. It just takes times. When you give up searching, the right person will come to you. When do you go back home? |
Not until the end of the year. But I've always got my eye out for my eternal crush. 
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Not until the end of the year. But I've always got my eye out for my eternal crush. |
Do you
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Seems like my future husband/boyfriend is not that into me 
Guess I will be alone for the rest of my life
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Originally posted by ManDown
MAJOR breakthrough with my crush, girls. We're together now. Like, for real together.
Last night, he came over to my house for dinner. He had already met my family and whatnot, and this was our tenth official date (who's counting anyway). We went into this with the intention of being friends, and possibly seeing where things went. He's a very pure person; he's never been in a relationship and has only ever been with one person. He's treated me so differently than any other guy I've ever known. He actually cares about what I have to say and wasn't trying to rush along to the sex by the second date. We actually had never even kissed yet - before last night.
Anyway, he came over and we were watching movies. I really wanted to hold his hand, kiss him or at least cuddle up next to him - something, anything. We hadn't really talked about our feelings for each other before, other than a brief conversation after a movie date where I thought we were going to kiss and he said that he'd rather wait but would make it special for me, and he was still trying to figure out how he felt about me. He got cold halfway through the movie, so I offered him a blanket. He asked if I'd like to share, so naturally I said yes. I thought, "This is it! I need to make me move!" ...And I didn't. After the movie, we awkwardly sat in silence for a minute, before he turned to me and said, "Alright, I've been thinking about 'us'... a lot. And I've been talking to my friends about you." And I felt the weirdest thing ever. My heart started beating so fast, and I felt like he was about to break the worst news of my life to me. I thought for sure he'd friendzone me, and I would accept it, but I'd still be upset and have to act like I'm fine.
So, he proceeds to tell me that he was talking to several of his friends about me, and how he feels things he's never felt before with me. And he had a friend who he was really attracted to, but blocked and deleted him out of fear, and because he realized that he liked me and probably wanted to be with me. I almost died at this point. I was as white as a ghost. He said that although he had never been in a relationship, he would like to try it with me. But he was afraid of what could happen later on, and was afraid of losing me. I almost cried. I told him that I felt the same way, and didn't want our friendship to suffer, but would definitely like to be with him. He smiled and said something like, "Okay, it's settled then. We're together." My heart was practically leaping out of my chest.
I told him that I didn't want to push him or make him uncomfortable in any way, and we could take things as slow as he'd like, but he'd have to tell me if I'm going too far. He agreed, and said, "Okay, let's kiss". It was the cutest, corniest thing ever. Haha. I've never felt so terrified in my life. We both sat there awkwardly for what felt like hours, waiting for our lips to finally meet. And when it happened, I literally felt sparks fly. A kiss has never been so intense, passionate and meaningful to me.
Long story short, we made out, fooled around, and ended up having sex. I was so shocked that it happened. It is a million times better when you find the right person and get to know them first. Just wow. I'm still in heaven, and refuse to believe that all of that happened. If it wasn't for the evidence in my room, I would think it's a dream. I've never felt so happy in my life before. I can't believe I'm really with the man of my dreams. |
I envy you, sis
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Originally posted by ManDown
MAJOR breakthrough with my crush, girls. We're together now. Like, for real together.
Last night, he came over to my house for dinner. He had already met my family and whatnot, and this was our tenth official date (who's counting anyway). We went into this with the intention of being friends, and possibly seeing where things went. He's a very pure person; he's never been in a relationship and has only ever been with one person. He's treated me so differently than any other guy I've ever known. He actually cares about what I have to say and wasn't trying to rush along to the sex by the second date. We actually had never even kissed yet - before last night.
Anyway, he came over and we were watching movies. I really wanted to hold his hand, kiss him or at least cuddle up next to him - something, anything. We hadn't really talked about our feelings for each other before, other than a brief conversation after a movie date where I thought we were going to kiss and he said that he'd rather wait but would make it special for me, and he was still trying to figure out how he felt about me. He got cold halfway through the movie, so I offered him a blanket. He asked if I'd like to share, so naturally I said yes. I thought, "This is it! I need to make me move!" ...And I didn't. After the movie, we awkwardly sat in silence for a minute, before he turned to me and said, "Alright, I've been thinking about 'us'... a lot. And I've been talking to my friends about you." And I felt the weirdest thing ever. My heart started beating so fast, and I felt like he was about to break the worst news of my life to me. I thought for sure he'd friendzone me, and I would accept it, but I'd still be upset and have to act like I'm fine.
So, he proceeds to tell me that he was talking to several of his friends about me, and how he feels things he's never felt before with me. And he had a friend who he was really attracted to, but blocked and deleted him out of fear, and because he realized that he liked me and probably wanted to be with me. I almost died at this point. I was as white as a ghost. He said that although he had never been in a relationship, he would like to try it with me. But he was afraid of what could happen later on, and was afraid of losing me. I almost cried. I told him that I felt the same way, and didn't want our friendship to suffer, but would definitely like to be with him. He smiled and said something like, "Okay, it's settled then. We're together." My heart was practically leaping out of my chest.
I told him that I didn't want to push him or make him uncomfortable in any way, and we could take things as slow as he'd like, but he'd have to tell me if I'm going too far. He agreed, and said, "Okay, let's kiss". It was the cutest, corniest thing ever. Haha. I've never felt so terrified in my life. We both sat there awkwardly for what felt like hours, waiting for our lips to finally meet. And when it happened, I literally felt sparks fly. A kiss has never been so intense, passionate and meaningful to me.
Long story short, we made out, fooled around, and ended up having sex. I was so shocked that it happened. It is a million times better when you find the right person and get to know them first. Just wow. I'm still in heaven, and refuse to believe that all of that happened. If it wasn't for the evidence in my room, I would think it's a dream. I've never felt so happy in my life before. I can't believe I'm really with the man of my dreams. |
I'm so happy for you sis
On another note my crush and I are still only best friends
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Originally posted by ManDown
That's really exciting! I really think that you should go to the party, and just see what happens. Will there be drinking? If so, do you plan on drinking? I wouldn't drink too much, because you might do or say some things you'll end up regretting, but a little bit of alcohol might make it easier for you to talk to him and open up more. I would see where the night leads, and if you feel comfortable staying the night with him, do it. If it were me, I'd be a little aggressive and just stay the night anyway.
Does he know that you're gay? |
He doesnt know I am gay. At least I've never told him. If he knows he's probably due to gossip or something but I honestly think he doesn't know if I am gay.
I want to go to the party but if I ask my friend to stay at her house he's gonna be there and then I'll have no chance but to share the bedroom with him or something and that would be so awkward. So right now I'm trying to stay at another friends house or else I'll simply skip the party. But I really wanna go! There will be drinking envolved and maybe he opens up more and maybe I can finally discover if he's gay. I got the confirmation that one of my friends was gay during a dinner party where we were drunk so maybe that happens! I really don't wanna skip this opportunity! It might be the last opportunity this year. But I don't want to make it awkward or ruin my chances. But I need closure, I need to know if he's gay and if he's interested in me!!! 
I'm going crazy with this. I can't tell if I'm reading him wrong or if he's really into me.
Today I had class with him too and I arrived late and he saw me. So when I was putting on my lab coat and taking my things off the backpack he went to me and ask me if I had done the homework and showed it to him and he like leaned over and got really close to me I was screaming inside but dead as a rock on the outside. I acted really cold and only said like 4 words
At the end of the class I stayed on a table studying and he passed right next to me and payed me dust I felt to sad
Maybe he really just wanted to know how to make the homework? But he had this colleagues right next to him and I was late so why would he have come to me and asked me? And he stayed with me in that class 2 weeks ago and we were the only ones there talking to the teacher... I'm getting so much mixed feelings.
Maybe he was put off by my Frozen act and went home. He's not from the city so on the weekends he sometimes goes to this hometown. Maybe he was in a hurry... I'm so frustrated! I just wanna talk to him and get to know him!
The party is really going to be a problem! If I don't go I won't be able to sleep but if I go I don't know what to do with myself.
Should I talk with my friend and stay at her house WITH HIM? She's my friend after all and it's a party. And she invited me to the party so....? I don't see what's wrong with going! It's a party, people are supposed to go to parties right? HELP!
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Originally posted by Phoenixx
He doesnt know I am gay. At least I've never told him. If he knows he's probably due to gossip or something but I honestly think he doesn't know if I am gay.
I want to go to the party but if I ask my friend to stay at her house he's gonna be there and then I'll have no chance but to share the bedroom with him or something and that would be so awkward. So right now I'm trying to stay at another friends house or else I'll simply skip the party. But I really wanna go! There will be drinking envolved and maybe he opens up more and maybe I can finally discover if he's gay. I got the confirmation that one of my friends was gay during a dinner party where we were drunk so maybe that happens! I really don't wanna skip this opportunity! It might be the last opportunity this year. But I don't want to make it awkward or ruin my chances. But I need closure, I need to know if he's gay and if he's interested in me!!!
I'm going crazy with this. I can't tell if I'm reading him wrong or if he's really into me.
Today I had class with him too and I arrived late and he saw me. So when I was putting on my lab coat and taking my things off the backpack he went to me and ask me if I had done the homework and showed it to him and he like leaned over and got really close to me I was screaming inside but dead as a rock on the outside. I acted really cold and only said like 4 words
At the end of the class I stayed on a table studying and he passed right next to me and payed me dust I felt to sad
Maybe he really just wanted to know how to make the homework? But he had this colleagues right next to him and I was late so why would he have come to me and asked me? And he stayed with me in that class 2 weeks ago and we were the only ones there talking to the teacher... I'm getting so much mixed feelings.
Maybe he was put off by my Frozen act and went home. He's not from the city so on the weekends he sometimes goes to this hometown. Maybe he was in a hurry... I'm so frustrated! I just wanna talk to him and get to know him!
The party is really going to be a problem! If I don't go I won't be able to sleep but if I go I don't know what to do with myself.
Should I talk with my friend and stay at her house WITH HIM? She's my friend after all and it's a party. And she invited me to the party so....? I don't see what's wrong with going! It's a party, people are supposed to go to parties right? HELP! |
Stay over your friends house and sleep with him in the bedroom! 
But if you're too afraid, you don't have to. Just go to the party and hopefully he'll drink so he opens himself up to you more and you'll see who he really is
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Hai babies.
i have the tea of a lifetime.
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Hai babies.
i have the tea of a lifetime.
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oh, hai maurice 
Anyway, as you all know, i dated another guy after i broke up with that cheating dirty *****. Anyway, that guy turned out to be a verbally abusive asshole, so i left him too.
He kiked me telling me i'll never find someone like him, blah blah blah.
& now i'm taking to a new guy (:
This guy is in medical school, preparing to be a neurosurgeon. He's exactly my type. And he acts his age. 
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Good for you Daniel! but quick question, how old is he?
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Good for you Daniel! but quick question, how old is he?
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21 
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oh, hai maurice
Anyway, as you all know, i dated another guy after i broke up with that cheating dirty *****. Anyway, that guy turned out to be a verbally abusive asshole, so i left him too.
He kiked me telling me i'll never find someone like him, blah blah blah.
& now i'm taking to a new guy (:
This guy is in medical school, preparing to be a neurosurgeon. He's exactly my type. And he acts his age. |
Not you using my real name and not him doing almost what I'll be doing soon
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oh, hai maurice
Anyway, as you all know, i dated another guy after i broke up with that cheating dirty *****. Anyway, that guy turned out to be a verbally abusive asshole, so i left him too.
He kiked me telling me i'll never find someone like him, blah blah blah.
& now i'm taking to a new guy (:
This guy is in medical school, preparing to be a neurosurgeon. He's exactly my type. And he acts his age. |
Yay
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Illegal
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Originally posted by Saint BeyNavi
Not you using my real name and not him doing almost what I'll be doing soon |
lmao.
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Yay |
thank you
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you can just never be happy for me, huh?
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you can just never be happy for me, huh?
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No. Because, its illegal.
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