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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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MAJOR breakthrough with my crush, girls. We're together now.  Like, for real together.
Last night, he came over to my house for dinner. He had already met my family and whatnot, and this was our tenth official date (who's counting anyway). We went into this with the intention of being friends, and possibly seeing where things went. He's a very pure person; he's never been in a relationship and has only ever been with one person. He's treated me so differently than any other guy I've ever known. He actually cares about what I have to say and wasn't trying to rush along to the sex by the second date. We actually had never even kissed yet - before last night. 
Anyway, he came over and we were watching movies. I really wanted to hold his hand, kiss him or at least cuddle up next to him - something, anything. We hadn't really talked about our feelings for each other before, other than a brief conversation after a movie date where I thought we were going to kiss and he said that he'd rather wait but would make it special for me, and he was still trying to figure out how he felt about me. He got cold halfway through the movie, so I offered him a blanket. He asked if I'd like to share, so naturally I said yes. I thought, "This is it! I need to make me move!" ...And I didn't. After the movie, we awkwardly sat in silence for a minute, before he turned to me and said, "Alright, I've been thinking about 'us'... a lot. And I've been talking to my friends about you." And I felt the weirdest thing ever. My heart started beating so fast, and I felt like he was about to break the worst news of my life to me. I thought for sure he'd friendzone me, and I would accept it, but I'd still be upset and have to act like I'm fine.
So, he proceeds to tell me that he was talking to several of his friends about me, and how he feels things he's never felt before with me. And he had a friend who he was really attracted to, but blocked and deleted him out of fear, and because he realized that he liked me and probably wanted to be with me. I almost died at this point. I was as white as a ghost. He said that although he had never been in a relationship, he would like to try it with me. But he was afraid of what could happen later on, and was afraid of losing me. I almost cried. I told him that I felt the same way, and didn't want our friendship to suffer, but would definitely like to be with him. He smiled and said something like, "Okay, it's settled then. We're together." My heart was practically leaping out of my chest.
I told him that I didn't want to push him or make him uncomfortable in any way, and we could take things as slow as he'd like, but he'd have to tell me if I'm going too far. He agreed, and said, "Okay, let's kiss". It was the cutest, corniest thing ever. Haha. I've never felt so terrified in my life. We both sat there awkwardly for what felt like hours, waiting for our lips to finally meet. And when it happened, I literally felt sparks fly. A kiss has never been so intense, passionate and meaningful to me.
Long story short, we made out, fooled around, and ended up having sex. I was so shocked that it happened. It is a million times better when you find the right person and get to know them first. Just wow. I'm still in heaven, and refuse to believe that all of that happened. If it wasn't for the evidence in my room, I would think it's a dream. I've never felt so happy in my life before. I can't believe I'm really with the man of my dreams.
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Originally posted by ManDown
MAJOR breakthrough with my crush, girls. We're together now. Like, for real together.
Last night, he came over to my house for dinner. He had already met my family and whatnot, and this was our tenth official date (who's counting anyway). We went into this with the intention of being friends, and possibly seeing where things went. He's a very pure person; he's never been in a relationship and has only ever been with one person. He's treated me so differently than any other guy I've ever known. He actually cares about what I have to say and wasn't trying to rush along to the sex by the second date. We actually had never even kissed yet - before last night.
Anyway, he came over and we were watching movies. I really wanted to hold his hand, kiss him or at least cuddle up next to him - something, anything. We hadn't really talked about our feelings for each other before, other than a brief conversation after a movie date where I thought we were going to kiss and he said that he'd rather wait but would make it special for me, and he was still trying to figure out how he felt about me. He got cold halfway through the movie, so I offered him a blanket. He asked if I'd like to share, so naturally I said yes. I thought, "This is it! I need to make me move!" ...And I didn't. After the movie, we awkwardly sat in silence for a minute, before he turned to me and said, "Alright, I've been thinking about 'us'... a lot. And I've been talking to my friends about you." And I felt the weirdest thing ever. My heart started beating so fast, and I felt like he was about to break the worst news of my life to me. I thought for sure he'd friendzone me, and I would accept it, but I'd still be upset and have to act like I'm fine.
So, he proceeds to tell me that he was talking to several of his friends about me, and how he feels things he's never felt before with me. And he had a friend who he was really attracted to, but blocked and deleted him out of fear, and because he realized that he liked me and probably wanted to be with me. I almost died at this point. I was as white as a ghost. He said that although he had never been in a relationship, he would like to try it with me. But he was afraid of what could happen later on, and was afraid of losing me. I almost cried. I told him that I felt the same way, and didn't want our friendship to suffer, but would definitely like to be with him. He smiled and said something like, "Okay, it's settled then. We're together." My heart was practically leaping out of my chest.
I told him that I didn't want to push him or make him uncomfortable in any way, and we could take things as slow as he'd like, but he'd have to tell me if I'm going too far. He agreed, and said, "Okay, let's kiss". It was the cutest, corniest thing ever. Haha. I've never felt so terrified in my life. We both sat there awkwardly for what felt like hours, waiting for our lips to finally meet. And when it happened, I literally felt sparks fly. A kiss has never been so intense, passionate and meaningful to me.
Long story short, we made out, fooled around, and ended up having sex. I was so shocked that it happened. It is a million times better when you find the right person and get to know them first. Just wow. I'm still in heaven, and refuse to believe that all of that happened. If it wasn't for the evidence in my room, I would think it's a dream. I've never felt so happy in my life before. I can't believe I'm really with the man of my dreams. |
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Originally posted by ManDown
MAJOR breakthrough with my crush, girls. We're together now. Like, for real together.
Last night, he came over to my house for dinner. He had already met my family and whatnot, and this was our tenth official date (who's counting anyway). We went into this with the intention of being friends, and possibly seeing where things went. He's a very pure person; he's never been in a relationship and has only ever been with one person. He's treated me so differently than any other guy I've ever known. He actually cares about what I have to say and wasn't trying to rush along to the sex by the second date. We actually had never even kissed yet - before last night.
Anyway, he came over and we were watching movies. I really wanted to hold his hand, kiss him or at least cuddle up next to him - something, anything. We hadn't really talked about our feelings for each other before, other than a brief conversation after a movie date where I thought we were going to kiss and he said that he'd rather wait but would make it special for me, and he was still trying to figure out how he felt about me. He got cold halfway through the movie, so I offered him a blanket. He asked if I'd like to share, so naturally I said yes. I thought, "This is it! I need to make me move!" ...And I didn't. After the movie, we awkwardly sat in silence for a minute, before he turned to me and said, "Alright, I've been thinking about 'us'... a lot. And I've been talking to my friends about you." And I felt the weirdest thing ever. My heart started beating so fast, and I felt like he was about to break the worst news of my life to me. I thought for sure he'd friendzone me, and I would accept it, but I'd still be upset and have to act like I'm fine.
So, he proceeds to tell me that he was talking to several of his friends about me, and how he feels things he's never felt before with me. And he had a friend who he was really attracted to, but blocked and deleted him out of fear, and because he realized that he liked me and probably wanted to be with me. I almost died at this point. I was as white as a ghost. He said that although he had never been in a relationship, he would like to try it with me. But he was afraid of what could happen later on, and was afraid of losing me. I almost cried. I told him that I felt the same way, and didn't want our friendship to suffer, but would definitely like to be with him. He smiled and said something like, "Okay, it's settled then. We're together." My heart was practically leaping out of my chest.
I told him that I didn't want to push him or make him uncomfortable in any way, and we could take things as slow as he'd like, but he'd have to tell me if I'm going too far. He agreed, and said, "Okay, let's kiss". It was the cutest, corniest thing ever. Haha. I've never felt so terrified in my life. We both sat there awkwardly for what felt like hours, waiting for our lips to finally meet. And when it happened, I literally felt sparks fly. A kiss has never been so intense, passionate and meaningful to me.
Long story short, we made out, fooled around, and ended up having sex. I was so shocked that it happened. It is a million times better when you find the right person and get to know them first. Just wow. I'm still in heaven, and refuse to believe that all of that happened. If it wasn't for the evidence in my room, I would think it's a dream. I've never felt so happy in my life before. I can't believe I'm really with the man of my dreams. |
I screamed with that! 
That's so romantic!!!! that's great for you!
I'm actually really sad because I had the best time with my crush and got to know him a little bit better but I'm almost certain he's not gay And I can't stop thinking about him! I hate it! .weeps:
So good that all worked up well for you! 
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She doesn't like me. :/
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Oh honey....  Just let her go then..
I will probably get rejected too
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Originally posted by ManDown
MAJOR breakthrough with my crush, girls. We're together now. Like, for real together.
Last night, he came over to my house for dinner. He had already met my family and whatnot, and this was our tenth official date (who's counting anyway). We went into this with the intention of being friends, and possibly seeing where things went. He's a very pure person; he's never been in a relationship and has only ever been with one person. He's treated me so differently than any other guy I've ever known. He actually cares about what I have to say and wasn't trying to rush along to the sex by the second date. We actually had never even kissed yet - before last night.
Anyway, he came over and we were watching movies. I really wanted to hold his hand, kiss him or at least cuddle up next to him - something, anything. We hadn't really talked about our feelings for each other before, other than a brief conversation after a movie date where I thought we were going to kiss and he said that he'd rather wait but would make it special for me, and he was still trying to figure out how he felt about me. He got cold halfway through the movie, so I offered him a blanket. He asked if I'd like to share, so naturally I said yes. I thought, "This is it! I need to make me move!" ...And I didn't. After the movie, we awkwardly sat in silence for a minute, before he turned to me and said, "Alright, I've been thinking about 'us'... a lot. And I've been talking to my friends about you." And I felt the weirdest thing ever. My heart started beating so fast, and I felt like he was about to break the worst news of my life to me. I thought for sure he'd friendzone me, and I would accept it, but I'd still be upset and have to act like I'm fine.
So, he proceeds to tell me that he was talking to several of his friends about me, and how he feels things he's never felt before with me. And he had a friend who he was really attracted to, but blocked and deleted him out of fear, and because he realized that he liked me and probably wanted to be with me. I almost died at this point. I was as white as a ghost. He said that although he had never been in a relationship, he would like to try it with me. But he was afraid of what could happen later on, and was afraid of losing me. I almost cried. I told him that I felt the same way, and didn't want our friendship to suffer, but would definitely like to be with him. He smiled and said something like, "Okay, it's settled then. We're together." My heart was practically leaping out of my chest.
I told him that I didn't want to push him or make him uncomfortable in any way, and we could take things as slow as he'd like, but he'd have to tell me if I'm going too far. He agreed, and said, "Okay, let's kiss". It was the cutest, corniest thing ever. Haha. I've never felt so terrified in my life. We both sat there awkwardly for what felt like hours, waiting for our lips to finally meet. And when it happened, I literally felt sparks fly. A kiss has never been so intense, passionate and meaningful to me.
Long story short, we made out, fooled around, and ended up having sex. I was so shocked that it happened. It is a million times better when you find the right person and get to know them first. Just wow. I'm still in heaven, and refuse to believe that all of that happened. If it wasn't for the evidence in my room, I would think it's a dream. I've never felt so happy in my life before. I can't believe I'm really with the man of my dreams. |
The jealousy spewing from my soul right now
Happy for you though
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I ****ing hate my life atm.
So bored.
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Originally posted by Phoenixx
Oh honey.... Just let her go then..
I will probably get rejected too |
I think I should. But right now, I need time to think. I really like her </3
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Any gay guy here wants to get to know me? I can't seem to find anyone at all for me 
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Any gay guy here wants to get to know me? I can't seem to find anyone at all for me |
Aw. You will find someone. 
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Aw. You will find someone. |
I'm scared that my gaydar is a mess and all the guys I want are straight as ****.
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The fact that I'll see her warm and lovely smile at school all the time and knowing I don't have a chance destroys me I feel so emo right now
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Originally posted by Phoenixx
I screamed with that!
That's so romantic!!!! that's great for you!
I'm actually really sad because I had the best time with my crush and got to know him a little bit better but I'm almost certain he's not gay And I can't stop thinking about him! I hate it! .weeps:
So good that all worked up well for you! |
This is EXACTLY me
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Haven't been here in a while
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Originally posted by Phoenixx
I screamed with that!
That's so romantic!!!! that's great for you!
I'm actually really sad because I had the best time with my crush and got to know him a little bit better but I'm almost certain he's not gay And I can't stop thinking about him! I hate it! .weeps:
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The jealousy spewing from my soul right now
Happy for you though |
Thanks guys. This goes to show that if you keep trying and continue to pursue somebody you really like, you have a good chance of being with them. Him and I were both surprised that I survived this long.
I planned a romantic weekend. We're going to camp out and possibly go to a renaissance festival. It'll be like a modern day Brokeback Mountain.
Phoenixx, have you told him about your feelings?
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There is this cute boy who works at this dessert place downtown and I wanna go see him a lot but I can't go to a dessert diner more than like once a week without looking weird.
They don't even wear name tags so I couldn't get his name.
His smile was A+, I couldn't even make eye contact. My eyes stayed focused on the menu.
P.S - slay a bit Dale.
Congrats! He seems like a good guy!
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Thanks guys. This goes to show that if you keep trying and continue to pursue somebody you really like, you have a good chance of being with them. Him and I were both surprised that I survived this long.
I planned a romantic weekend. We're going to camp out and possibly go to a renaissance festival. It'll be like a modern day Brokeback Mountain.
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No. I will be seeing him today in class and we might talk a bit. And there's this party next week at college and he's staying at a friend of mines house and I might stay there too OMG! That would mean that we would have to kinda sleep in the same room or something. I don't know what I'll do. Maybe I'll stay at another friend's house that night 
But I don't know if he's gay or if he's into me but he has given some signs already... So I'm really confused. I hope that I'm not reading it wrong or something. I honestly don't know what to think...
Do you think I should go to that party and stay at my friend's house with HIM? I would be so nervous I wouldn't be able to sleep. It's such a coincidence we have the same friends but we don't really know each other.
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One of my friends is hitting on her
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@ this thread still Alive..
(btw talking of alive things, finally something is happening to me, I've been meeting more guys/girls now and I think some of them are really perfect)
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Originally posted by ManDown
MAJOR breakthrough with my crush, girls. We're together now. Like, for real together.
Last night, he came over to my house for dinner. He had already met my family and whatnot, and this was our tenth official date (who's counting anyway). We went into this with the intention of being friends, and possibly seeing where things went. He's a very pure person; he's never been in a relationship and has only ever been with one person. He's treated me so differently than any other guy I've ever known. He actually cares about what I have to say and wasn't trying to rush along to the sex by the second date. We actually had never even kissed yet - before last night.
Anyway, he came over and we were watching movies. I really wanted to hold his hand, kiss him or at least cuddle up next to him - something, anything. We hadn't really talked about our feelings for each other before, other than a brief conversation after a movie date where I thought we were going to kiss and he said that he'd rather wait but would make it special for me, and he was still trying to figure out how he felt about me. He got cold halfway through the movie, so I offered him a blanket. He asked if I'd like to share, so naturally I said yes. I thought, "This is it! I need to make me move!" ...And I didn't. After the movie, we awkwardly sat in silence for a minute, before he turned to me and said, "Alright, I've been thinking about 'us'... a lot. And I've been talking to my friends about you." And I felt the weirdest thing ever. My heart started beating so fast, and I felt like he was about to break the worst news of my life to me. I thought for sure he'd friendzone me, and I would accept it, but I'd still be upset and have to act like I'm fine.
So, he proceeds to tell me that he was talking to several of his friends about me, and how he feels things he's never felt before with me. And he had a friend who he was really attracted to, but blocked and deleted him out of fear, and because he realized that he liked me and probably wanted to be with me. I almost died at this point. I was as white as a ghost. He said that although he had never been in a relationship, he would like to try it with me. But he was afraid of what could happen later on, and was afraid of losing me. I almost cried. I told him that I felt the same way, and didn't want our friendship to suffer, but would definitely like to be with him. He smiled and said something like, "Okay, it's settled then. We're together." My heart was practically leaping out of my chest.
I told him that I didn't want to push him or make him uncomfortable in any way, and we could take things as slow as he'd like, but he'd have to tell me if I'm going too far. He agreed, and said, "Okay, let's kiss". It was the cutest, corniest thing ever. Haha. I've never felt so terrified in my life. We both sat there awkwardly for what felt like hours, waiting for our lips to finally meet. And when it happened, I literally felt sparks fly. A kiss has never been so intense, passionate and meaningful to me.
Long story short, we made out, fooled around, and ended up having sex. I was so shocked that it happened. It is a million times better when you find the right person and get to know them first. Just wow. I'm still in heaven, and refuse to believe that all of that happened. If it wasn't for the evidence in my room, I would think it's a dream. I've never felt so happy in my life before. I can't believe I'm really with the man of my dreams. |
Yaaaaaassssss this is actually the most beautiful thing I've ever read, my sloppy crush stories could never.  God even though I have a new crush, and even though I think I somehow wrote in here that he'd cancelled out my new crush, I think I now realize my new-ish crush is just a temporary replacement to ease my loneliness until I can get back to my home country and finally, for once and for all, ask my crush of like 3 years out on a date. I mean I have no idea if he likes me, but he occasionally likes my things on FB or favorites my tweets (well his last fave of a tweet was like a year ago so... ) but at least he hasn't completely forgotten me.
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