[Reinvention]

Originally posted by YUNGKALIMXEL

OMG YOU MET A GUY IN JAPAN? I envy you. Omg that's something out of a movie.

It did feel very cinematic and beautiful (a la Weekend) but it's sorta doomed to be a few brief flings and then nothing unless one of us decides to dramatically shift across the globe which I mean I'd consider, but you'd have to be pretty damn sure that's what you want.

Originally posted by IamCY

^ aw so cute, happy for you

Thank you! Fingers-crossed for the future.

[Phoenixx]

Originally posted by MikeFenty

Did the fact you had a crush on your best friend destroy your friendship and y'all ain't talking anymore and she's with someone else too?

OMG This happened to me

We were so close and we were always together and talked everyday as best friends. But there was also something else going on that we would try to pretend was not... And then stuff happened and we basically stoped talking since. Now we speak again and hang out but it's NOT the same at all. We don't call everyday, we don't see each other as much or don't see each other only, it's always with other friends. He's got someone else too now so.... I still don't. My college crush is still something I'm working on I'm kinda over it the situation with my best friend but it still hurts that he got away like that. It's like I always push people away from me. Can't seem to keep anyone close to me for a long time. I'm such a huge mess.

Lemme go grab my Goodbye Lullaby album and cry

[SpinThatShhh]

cant feel anything,
When will I learn

[■YoungCalifornia■]

The moment when you have crush on a straight guy who isn't even aware of your existence and I stalk his Instagram just to end up finding a selfie of him and a really hot chick who might be his future GF...... Sometimes I wish I was female

[SpinThatShhh]

[Phoenixx]

Today I had class with my crush! I arrived super late and entered the room like a QUEEN and he looked at me entering. I tried not to catch his eye but I could see him watching me with my peripheric vision. Bitch gotta develop some superpowers in the name of Venus! We don't sit next to each other but there's no one between us and we're on the last table so we if we turn to each other all we see is each other. So glad I sitted in this position haha! So he was kinda next to me and I don't know... the way he moved and his gestures and he wouldn't stay in the same position for long you know? like he was nervous or something.. I was acting the same way and moved and took my shirt off exposing my v neck t shirt baring my hairless chest I could kinda see him with my peripheric vision and I was trying not to look at him and he was doing the same and yeah that was it for like 20 minutes.
Then we started working in groups and he stood up and passed me the spreadsheet where we sign our names for class. I said "Thanks" while looking him in the eye. yaaay
Then later on I asked him about a thingy we were working on class but he said he didn't know. So cute tho
Then he left and I stayed finishing stuff for class.
Tomorrow morning I will have class with him and I hope that some progress can be made. I still don't know if he's into me or into guys for that matter but I'm gathering dem hints
I'll keep you posted on the events that may happen tomorrow!

I'm praying to all the gods for him to be into me the thirst ha realness is slaying me

[Phoenixx]

FRESH UPDATES!

Following my previous post I have some news!!!

So after the class I had with my crush I left the room and went to meet a friend of mine's in college. She was alone so I joined her and we chatted a little bit. Then my crush joins us she's one of our common friend. We actually have a few common friends in college but for some reason we never hang out together. Until today! The 3 of us chatted a little bit and then my friend left. And we stayed there just the two of us and we got so talk a bit a get to know each other better! He seems to be really nice And he's very much alike me personality wise! It's like we're the perfect match!
Then another 2 friend appear and they're also both our common friend! it's so weird that all the people that I got along in my first year are now his friends too and we never spoke before! (I entered college a year eariler than him). So the 4 of us went to grab lunch together! It was fun! He was nice and funny and we agreed on a lot of things and shared opinions on various subjects and we talked and compared our grades and even got a little bit competitive aha!
After lunch they went to study and I went with them because I had free time until my next class so I stayed with him and he was struggling in a subject I had already done with a good grade so he asked for help and I helped him!

Well that was pretty much it!
I'm convinced he might be straight.... I'm still not sure. I have nothing going on proving that he's gay/bi. So far I can only assume he's straight.... Well getting to be friends with him might be enough for me I guess
At this point I can't assume he's gay or interested in me so I'm just gonna keep doing my thing and if anything happens or if any hints drop I'll be aware!

But seriously I'm gonna be so pressed if this flops

[Mezik]

So the one guy I originally rejected is going crazy. I'm apparently the worst human alive for not giving him a chance at all and need to get my morals checked.

[YUNGKALIMXEL]

There's about 2 or 3 guys I think like me. I don't like all of them, but I'm wondering what they'll think of me because.... I think I'm trans.

[CosTaSsSs]

So guys, I need your help....there is one guy I like. We know each other for a year and a half. We were together in the same course at my college and we spent like a semester together. He talked to me first and I thought he was gay or something, then I declined any thought about it because it was just vibes. Thing is that he's a very closed person and he seemed that he didn't like me at all so he was ignoring me. Next semeste we just said hi to each other sometimes and the previous semester September 2013, I had set a goal that I will make him like me and we could come close together, it happened! He was so excited at the beginning, and he's so cute and such a nice person but he has many "dislikes" lol. He doesn't like to go out, before I hang out with him he haven't gone out with someone since 2011 and in general he's a very antisocial person and cold. Thing is sometimes he gives me so many gay vibes but he told me once that he liked a girl. Actually he's a mature person but sometimes he can become very immature. Thing is that because of this, I believe that he may be gay or bi but he just can't accept it, or is not sure about it. He once told me that he had to tell me something but he won't do it because I might get away and I asked him if it was about love, he told me yes. I don't know guys but mostly I want you to tell me some "tips" to say if someone is gay or not. I know that you can tell easy for some but what happens with the ones you're not sure about? any tips or any questios you can ask me so you see if he's or no? lol

[MrJacob]

Originally posted by CosTaSsSs

So guys, I need your help....there is one guy I like. We know each other for a year and a half. We were together in the same course at my college and we spent like a semester together. He talked to me first and I thought he was gay or something, then I declined any thought about it because it was just vibes. Thing is that he's a very closed person and he seemed that he didn't like me at all so he was ignoring me. Next semeste we just said hi to each other sometimes and the previous semester September 2013, I had set a goal that I will make him like me and we could come close together, it happened! He was so excited at the beginning, and he's so cute and such a nice person but he has many "dislikes" lol. He doesn't like to go out, before I hang out with him he haven't gone out with someone since 2011 and in general he's a very antisocial person and cold. Thing is sometimes he gives me so many gay vibes but he told me once that he liked a girl. Actually he's a mature person but sometimes he can become very immature. Thing is that because of this, I believe that he may be gay or bi but he just can't accept it, or is not sure about it. He once told me that he had to tell me something but he won't do it because I might get away and I asked him if it was about love, he told me yes. I don't know guys but mostly I want you to tell me some "tips" to say if someone is gay or not. I know that you can tell easy for some but what happens with the ones you're not sure about? any tips or any questios you can ask me so you see if he's or no? lol

Just ask him or suggest that you are. See how he reacts. If you're not really close, that's okay then, if he's offended, you have nothing to lose. But if he is gay/bi, then you have a lot more to work with now.

[CosTaSsSs]

Originally posted by MrJacob

Just ask him or suggest that you are. See how he reacts. If you're not really close, that's okay then, if he's offended, you have nothing to lose. But if he is gay/bi, then you have a lot more to work with now.

Yeah, you're right! I'm thinking of telling him actually the truth about my feelings after we finish this semester and tell him that it's ok if he doesn't feel the same and that we can still stay friends. He's a very good person and I wouldn't mind if he will stay as a friend actually.

[Kid A]

[Jackson]

Originally posted by Dinosauer

Original Story

Previous Update

Okay time for my official crush update! So I met the guy on Saturday 26th April (aka. weekend before last) at a meet-up thing for all the foreign assistant English teachers in Hokkaido, Japan and he's from Canada but Chinese and so f-ing gorgeous and cute. Anyway we were texting for the rest of the week and since last weekend was a four-day weekend, and we never get holidays, he decided he liked me enough and would go out on a limb and come and stay with me. I live in the middle of nowhere, and like 6-hours away so he had to take a train and a bus ride and then a two hour car-ride with me to get to my house which is obviously traumatic and life ruining, but he did.

We get on so well despite knowing each-other so little, and during the drive home we were pretty much just announcing that we wanted to get with each other. So on the way I had to awkwardly be like "well I don't really have any 'supplies' at home right now" which being the saint that he is, he offered to go into a store and buy which we did. Anyway at mine that night we both got really wasted for no good reason and stumbled down to the 7-Eleven (I was singing the opening line from pop ICON Bonnie McKee's "American Girl" in my head obviously) and bought dinner. I have to like NOT out myself cause I have no idea what the repercussions would be in this silly little Japanese town, but we were being pretty obvious. Gawd. Anyway the next day there happened to be another wee meet-up BBQ about 1hr30mins from me and I showed up with him and it was obvious as sin that him and I were an item and not "fast friends".

So yeah that BBQ was fun, and then Monday we just hung out and got coffee. His Japanese is so good so having him around makes my life so much easier, and he can read kanji well (cause he speaks both Mandarin and Cantonese) so that was iconic and yeah it was just adorable. On Tuesday when I had to see him off I had to drive for like 2hrs again to get him to his bus stop, us both spending the entire drive touching each-other and saying how sad we were and then I hugged him as he hopped on the bus and now there's no real date set for when i'll see him next. Probably not until the end of the month, and that'd be two nights tops. So basically I met a flawless guy, had an instant connection and got on well and naturally every circumstance is against us. Culturally, geographically, temperately (winter is so harsh it'd be almost impossible to visit then). So yeah, happy to have met him and to have had a great weekend together but now left lonely and depressed.

You have no idea how similar my situation is right now. Don't let him go, the distance means nothing!

[SpinThatShhh]

Originally posted by Kid A

Not him posting this just before he got banned.
Bæ nooo.

[Frankmusik]

My crush makes work not so bad. I'm actually excited to go to work so I can see him.

[BILLIONAIRE✘BOY]

Originally posted by Frankmusik

My crush makes work not so bad. I'm actually excited to go to work so I can see him.

I remember that feeling

[Frankmusik]

Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY

I remember that feeling

I read your post. I can't even imagine that happening to me. I don't think I could handle it. I would go insanse.

[BILLIONAIRE✘BOY]

Originally posted by Frankmusik

I read your post. I can't even imagine that happening to me. I don't think I could handle it. I would go insanse.

Omg I know

[Frankmusik]

Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY

Omg I know

It makes me sad to even think about.