My guess is God? Like 'it's okay if you love him' mean a gay guy loving a guy and 'or HIM' mean God. I don't know, but that's my take. I am curious to know that.
The song could only really relate to the gays, well I guess it makes sense her stan-base is pretty much all gays. Perez being the first one in line, he'll probably think GaGa made the song for him.
) and mentions all races! 
