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Discussion: Most hurtful thing anybody's ever said to you in real life?
Member Since: 2/9/2008
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
I hate guys who talk about which girls they'd bang. If you do that and I find out that you do that, SORRY but I will NEVER date you! ![lmao](http://atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/lmao.gif)
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Omfg, you're a girl?!
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Member Since: 12/24/2010
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The most hurtful thing? My mother told me when I was young we're all born superstars that I was the ugly one in my house, that I was the mistake, the bonus, that I have an ugly body, that she's only gonna support my older sister, she was a drunk mess, but that really hurt me, since that day I haven't a real mother/daughter relationship
*Plays Shadow by Ashlee Simpson*
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Member Since: 3/13/2011
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My ex said to me after we broke up 'Just like the song 'Grenade' i would catch a grenade for you, i would die for you but you wouldnt do the same.'
What really hurt the most is the fact they didnt know just how much i loved them and WOULD do the same ![:(](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/frown.gif)
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Member Since: 6/1/2011
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somebody once called me a miley fan. i cried for days
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Member Since: 3/27/2011
Posts: 1,081
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My mom told me I was fat and I looked like a man when I was 12. ![:(](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/frown.gif) I'm 20 now and I'm still recovering from anorexia. I stopped playing basketball as well. It just hurts more when it's coming from your own mother.
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Member Since: 12/24/2010
Posts: 37,039
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Originally posted by kitten_moon
My mom told me I was fat and I looked like a man when I was 12. ![:(](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/frown.gif) I'm 20 now and I'm still recovering from anorexia. I stopped playing basketball as well. It just hurts more when it's coming from your own mother.
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I know ![weeps](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRLSmilies/52b0f867.gif) and I'm sorry to hear that, I don't have a great relationship with my mother, you can see my previous post ![:(](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/frown.gif) and I was obsessed with my weight and I almost have anorexia, but I couldn't vomit and thanks God I didn't bothered trying to vomit again
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Member Since: 6/15/2010
Posts: 14,318
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Originally posted by jagon91
Right now I'm going through the hardest time in my life so far... It all started on my birthday..My friend threw a party for me...I wanted to get WASTED, and they knew that, so drink after drink, I went into blackout mode....Basically from what they told me, I went into the bathroom and I cut my hands with a razor...I started regaining my consciousness when we were in the ambulance that was taking us to the hospital...The scars are just scratches, so I was released from the hospital in the morning... I don't know the reasons that made me do such a thing, but I believe it's due to the fact that recently I lost a lot of weight very fast...I always remember myself a fat kid, so now I didn't wanna go back to that...I was semi-anorexic...I could go for days with just water...
But that's not the reason I'm hurt...After that day, we spoke only a few times with my so-called "friends" that "would always be there for me"...They pushed me to tell my parents, when I didn't want to...My mother has been through a lot...They called me bipolar, they said I'm not the one they knew, things will never be the same between us, that I need psychological help, that I didn't think about them when I did this (uummm hello, I didn't even think myself or my parents at that point!), that now they will have problems forever, that they can't sleep or eat... and many other things that hurt like hell...So they threatened me to tell my parents, or else they would...My parents lost their trust on me from that point...And you know what's worse???
After that day, they don't speak to me at all...I stayed in my house for 4 and a half weeks, while they were still going out...WE WERE 9 PEOPLE THAT DAY!!!9 MOTHER ****ING PEOPLE, and I would understand if only 1 or 2 of them had a hard time...But everyone (besides 2 girls)??
Those 2 girls are my only comfort now...We go out, and I see them at the next table, and it hurts so much...I wanted to be with them, even though they made me basically hate myself more...They keep talking about me (I have my sources) and they keep discussing about that night, after almost 2 months...Yesterday, one of them texted me cause he wanted some DVDs of his I had...After 2 months and the only text I got is this...All this time nobody cared, nobody asked how I was doing...I cried myself to sleep for one month...It's summer, and I went to college with hoodies cause I didn't wanna show my scars...
There has been more...I have an appointment with a psychologist on the 4th of July...And honestly, I don't think I had a problem initially...The problems came after the incident...
I wanna believe I have moved on (even though it hurts when I see them out), and I changed for the better...I just have a hard time trusting people now...
Please excuse any grammar mistakes...
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I'll sacrifice my blood just so very bad things happen to your disgusting "friends" ![Foxaylove](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/a20869ce.gif)
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Member Since: 8/10/2010
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I was called FAT, SWINE, PIG and other "fat" words through all the years while I was growing up (7-16). Sometimes I was picked as a "***" but that didn't hurt.
It hurt me so much, I got anorexic, dropped 110lbs/50kg in 4 months, and lost the "excessive" weight. I was 6'2''(191cm) so I wasn't really "the fattest person ever". But after losing that weight I had to deal with doctors and hospital for an year aprox, I was on the edge of life...
But now, I'm back on track, PEOPLE CAN WISH TO HAVE MY BODY! ![Alexz 2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/alexz2_zps7d3bf068.gif)
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Member Since: 10/20/2009
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Most hurtful things have actually been said by my roommate who everyone thinks he and I are best friends, but really we aren't ![weeps](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRLSmilies/52b0f867.gif) Some of the meanest are:
1. "Yeah I'll do that with you...unless something better comes up"
2. "You're not ____ and _____ (his two "best friends"...when one is socially awkward and the other is gay but he doesn't know and a lot of other people do) and you don't compare so stop trying."
Just hurtful things when I did a lot of nice things like drive him for 6 months when he lost his license for speeding and never asked for gas money and woke up at 7 AM to drive him to work even though my classes didn't start until 10. ![weeps](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRLSmilies/52b0f867.gif)
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
Posts: 38,919
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Some of your "family" and "friends" are a damn mess. My friends & family have never really said anything hurtful to me or anything to make me upset. ![psyduck](images/smilies/images/smilies/psyduck.gif)
I'm trying to think, but I can't really think of anything. IDK if this counts, but one time this gerl on the bus stuck gum in my hair in like 4th grade. I was so mad and upset.
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Member Since: 5/14/2009
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Poor Yall ![coffee2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/b80efe23.gif)
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Member Since: 11/13/2009
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Some pressed soul tried convincing me I had no friends. Two years later and everyone talks mad **** about her. ![rofl](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/b51cb370.gif)
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Member Since: 3/27/2011
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Originally posted by ReginaGeorge
The most hurtful thing? My mother told me when I was young we're all born superstars that I was the ugly one in my house, that I was the mistake, the bonus, that I have an ugly body, that she's only gonna support my older sister, she was a drunk mess, but that really hurt me, since that day I haven't a real mother/daughter relationship
*Plays Shadow by Ashlee Simpson*
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MY GOD!
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Member Since: 6/24/2011
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I've been called plenty of hurtful things, but the ones that hurt the most were when somebody told me I didn't have and wouldn't ever have any friends and that everyone at our school hated me (this hurt because at the time, I didn't have any true friends, I was just tagging along in a social group) and when someone told me that I look like a transvestite.
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Member Since: 12/28/2010
Posts: 26,529
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at my school people have picked on me and other students about our sexuality, made me have low self esteem ![sad](images/smilies/images/smilies/sad.gif)
I've also been told that I wont make it in life because im gay
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Member Since: 3/7/2011
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My dad always called me pathetic and an idiot that never does anything right... he says it only when pissed at me, but it always hurts and gets me all down
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Member Since: 3/27/2009
Posts: 30,284
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Quote:
Originally posted by Hi.Def
I'm trying to think, but I can't really think of anything. IDK if this counts, but one time this gerl on the bus stuck gum in my hair in like 4th grade. I was so mad and upset.
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Bitch
Really the only thing people, well my friends, say to me that's annoying rather than hurtful is because I always have a steady girlfriend and don't sleep around with random girls when we go to clubs or whatnot, like they do all the time, they steadily call me gay or pansy...I takes it with a grain of salt though
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Member Since: 6/19/2011
Posts: 22
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Quote:
Originally posted by Mitchell-Bryce
My ex said to me after we broke up 'Just like the song 'Grenade' i would catch a grenade for you, i would die for you but you wouldnt do the same.'
What really hurt the most is the fact they didnt know just how much i loved them and WOULD do the same ![:(](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/frown.gif)
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You seem sweet, so don't take this the wrong way. But seriously, if someone is quoting Bruno Mars lyrics in a relationship, it isn't worth your time. ![Alexz 2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/alexz2_zps7d3bf068.gif)
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Member Since: 5/7/2009
Posts: 10,129
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I was once told that I didn't deserve to have friends, got called a ******, and said I was an annoying douchebag. All at once by the same person, too. I was really hurt but it was just ridiculous that it was even said.
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Member Since: 5/3/2010
Posts: 26,013
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People always call me *** or gay and I get so pressed about it. ![rip](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRLSmilies/rip_zpsec10ede9.gif)
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