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Discussion: Your Crush Thread
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buT LIKE HOW IS ANYONE SUPPOSED TO MOVE ON FROM THAT. LIKE WHY DID THINGS HAVE TO CHANGE I DNT GET IT. I JUST MISS HIM SO MUCH. I ****ING HATE THIS I HATE ALL THIS ****ING DUMBASS ******** ILL PROBABLY NEVER FIND ANYONE THAT'LL MAKE ME FEEL AS GOID AS HE DID. JOE IF YOURE READING THIS. I LOVE YOU. I JUST MISS YOU SO MUCH. I HAVE ALOT TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT BUT YOURE NOT HERE. NOW IM ****ING CRYING.
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Where do you guys find other wholesome gays? 
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Originally posted by L/\DY G/\G/\
I had this crush on this french guy and one time I was in Paris and was using his place to stay at since he had moved back there. I was traveling to Europe to visit my boyfriend, and I went to a couple cities before visiting him ( he lives in Eastern Europe and I was first visiting London and Paris for a few days); on my first night in Paris my bf messaged me and said he wasnt even sure if I should be coming anymore. Obviously I was shocked...what was I doing in Europe for some one that didnt even want to see me. We had never outright said anything and it was never spoken about, but it seemed to me there was mutual attraction. Anyway, my french friend consoled me and just kept repeating how hot I was and good I looked (He was high at the time he picked me up from the train station).
Anyway, we settled in to bed and I was in a second bed that came out from under his, so we were safely distanced. However, he only had one pillow, so eventually we just decided to share the pillow and thus began sleeping very close to each other. After a few minutes we were basically in cuddle position and the rest is history.
In the end my crush gave me something no one else ever did.........
an STD  (Officially its not an STD, but its essentially like one)
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I'm sorry but.....
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...but are you okay?
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Originally posted by ImHighPrice
I don't go a day without thinking about my crush....
On the first day of my current job (which I started about 6 months ago), I met most of my co-workers, then in walks this Adonis in disguise (I say "disguise" because, he had a tragic spiky hairdo that was not tea, but I seen his visual potential). He is a 6ft male of Indian descent and He's cute but I wasn't instantly attracted to him. We introduced ourselves (he has a sexy deep voice btw) and it might've just been my imagination but that handshake and eye-contact lasted significantly longer than everybody else's.
Meanwhile, when my Crush would have the day off, the other employees would make rude remarks about him and it was apparent that he was not the most liked at the job and I didn't understand why. The next day, my Crush and I worked the same shift and as he was doing his job, another employee (who had superiority over him) try to make him do a task that was not in his job description...my Crush went AWF! He spoke his mind and in his words "Didn't give a f**k!" My heart begun racing...He's a BAD BOY! I'm the rational,reserved & sometimes quiet type and I am nationally drawn to outspoken and sometimes irrational men. This is when I knew I wanted to get closer to him...even if it means just being friends.
Over the course of just 2 months, we begun having our lunches together and had conversations that range from politics, sports (ugh), and music. Sidebar: He was initially embarrassed about the fact that he enjoyed pop music and pretended to only like rap music but since we got closer, he freely sings "Dark Horse" with no shame (so cute). We got so close that he actually listens to what I have to say and when he begins to react irrationally, I try to calm him down, to which he surprisingly complies. He even changed his "tragic hair spiky hairdo" and became the Adonis I always knew he was (faints).
Currently, EVERYBODY at the job sees how close my Crush and I are but in a "bromance" kind of way. I would make stupid,cute gestures at him by poking him or something and he would do the same to me in return. On the days where we haven't seen each other in a while (usually 1 or 2 days lol), he would say " I missed you" and I would say the same in return. We talk alot outside of work and frequently go to the gym together (among other places). I'm conflicted because I do feel like the crush is mutual and I DO want to act on it but it could backfire of course, and I don't want to ruin what we currently have.
P.S. I'm actually talking to my Crush as I type this so excuse the novel-like teas. I'm just overwhelm with feelings at the moment.
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That's so sweet tbh 
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Originally posted by mannybillionz
There was this guy in highschool. His name was Joe. He was average height light-skinned gorgeousness .We met sophomore and got super close out of nowhere. I remember the day he put me in his like top 5 of myspace friends after like a week  He would always like play fight with and rub my ears out of nowhere and just randomly stare at me with his puppy dog eyes . And I would be like "wtf are you looking at?" and he would be like "you sexy" and I would always blush and he would laugh . People used to get jealous of us too. I remember walking by his class just because I know he would ask to use to bathroom just to come out and talk to me. We used to chat on facebook like all the time also. I remember when I was really sad once I messaged him at like 4am and he answered me right back. We had a convo about our friends and **** and I told him like "I hope nothing will ever come like ... between like our friendship" and he was like "I'll always be there for you"  It felt like a fairy tale. He would always share things with me that he never shared with anyone. Like his group of friends are super "hood" or whatever and he had that side to him but when he was around me he always felt comfortable enough to be himself. In bio whenever we had a free day he would always grab a chair and sit next to me , he would put his glasses on and read like Malcolm X. People would ask "why did you move to just read a book" and he would point at me and say "because I wanted to be next to him". It was perfect . Unfortunately he dropped out of high-school the following year because his dad passed away and he needed to get a full-time job to help pay the bills at his home. We saw each other less and things changed. I got more involved with my music and he got addicted to drugs. I see him like maybe once a year now and his life is just ruined. I cry thinking about it. He asks me even to this day when we rarely see each other "How are you? Is everything ok?" and every time I say yes even though I'm not but I know he has own **** to worry about. I wonder if he still thinks about me. We used to be so close. |
Awww sis  Those are really upsetting circumstances. Have you made any efforts to get closer with him again? I wouldn't doubt that he still cares about you/thinks about you. Keep the faith!
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Originally posted by mannybillionz
There was this guy in highschool. His name was Joe. He was average height light-skinned gorgeousness .We met sophomore and got super close out of nowhere. I remember the day he put me in his like top 5 of myspace friends after like a week He would always like play fight with and rub my ears out of nowhere and just randomly stare at me with his puppy dog eyes . And I would be like "wtf are you looking at?" and he would be like "you sexy" and I would always blush and he would laugh . People used to get jealous of us too. I remember walking by his class just because I know he would ask to use to bathroom just to come out and talk to me. We used to chat on facebook like all the time also. I remember when I was really sad once I messaged him at like 4am and he answered me right back. We had a convo about our friends and **** and I told him like "I hope nothing will ever come like ... between like our friendship" and he was like "I'll always be there for you" It felt like a fairy tale. He would always share things with me that he never shared with anyone. Like his group of friends are super "hood" or whatever and he had that side to him but when he was around me he always felt comfortable enough to be himself. In bio whenever we had a free day he would always grab a chair and sit next to me , he would put his glasses on and read like Malcolm X. People would ask "why did you move to just read a book" and he would point at me and say "because I wanted to be next to him". It was perfect . Unfortunately he dropped out of high-school the following year because his dad passed away and he needed to get a full-time job to help pay the bills at his home. We saw each other less and things changed. I got more involved with my music and he got addicted to drugs. I see him like maybe once a year now and his life is just ruined. I cry thinking about it. He asks me even to this day when we rarely see each other "How are you? Is everything ok?" and every time I say yes even though I'm not but I know he has own **** to worry about. I wonder if he still thinks about me. We used to be so close. |
OMG...He really needs a friend, I think you still have a chance to be that person...again.
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This thread is getting way to intense
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Originally posted by mannybillionz
There was this guy in highschool. His name was Joe. He was average height light-skinned gorgeousness .We met sophomore and got super close out of nowhere. I remember the day he put me in his like top 5 of myspace friends after like a week He would always like play fight with and rub my ears out of nowhere and just randomly stare at me with his puppy dog eyes . And I would be like "wtf are you looking at?" and he would be like "you sexy" and I would always blush and he would laugh . People used to get jealous of us too. I remember walking by his class just because I know he would ask to use to bathroom just to come out and talk to me. We used to chat on facebook like all the time also. I remember when I was really sad once I messaged him at like 4am and he answered me right back. We had a convo about our friends and **** and I told him like "I hope nothing will ever come like ... between like our friendship" and he was like "I'll always be there for you" It felt like a fairy tale. He would always share things with me that he never shared with anyone. Like his group of friends are super "hood" or whatever and he had that side to him but when he was around me he always felt comfortable enough to be himself. In bio whenever we had a free day he would always grab a chair and sit next to me , he would put his glasses on and read like Malcolm X. People would ask "why did you move to just read a book" and he would point at me and say "because I wanted to be next to him". It was perfect . Unfortunately he dropped out of high-school the following year because his dad passed away and he needed to get a full-time job to help pay the bills at his home. We saw each other less and things changed. I got more involved with my music and he got addicted to drugs. I see him like maybe once a year now and his life is just ruined. I cry thinking about it. He asks me even to this day when we rarely see each other "How are you? Is everything ok?" and every time I say yes even though I'm not but I know he has own **** to worry about. I wonder if he still thinks about me. We used to be so close. |
gurl what is this I can't I just can imagine how tragic
everything just crumbled
I can't right now. noT the drugs omg 
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Originally posted by ImHighPrice
OMG...He really needs a friend, I think you still have a chance to be that person...again.
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This took place like four years ago , its not a recent loss for him.
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
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Girl... I haven't gone to church in over 10 years and I'm not starting now just to get a boyfriend. 
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Originally posted by L/\DY G/\G/\
I had this crush on this french guy and one time I was in Paris and was using his place to stay at since he had moved back there. I was traveling to Europe to visit my boyfriend, and I went to a couple cities before visiting him ( he lives in Eastern Europe and I was first visiting London and Paris for a few days); on my first night in Paris my bf messaged me and said he wasnt even sure if I should be coming anymore. Obviously I was shocked...what was I doing in Europe for some one that didnt even want to see me. We had never outright said anything and it was never spoken about, but it seemed to me there was mutual attraction. Anyway, my french friend consoled me and just kept repeating how hot I was and good I looked (He was high at the time he picked me up from the train station).
Anyway, we settled in to bed and I was in a second bed that came out from under his, so we were safely distanced. However, he only had one pillow, so eventually we just decided to share the pillow and thus began sleeping very close to each other. After a few minutes we were basically in cuddle position and the rest is history.
In the end my crush gave me something no one else ever did.........
an STD (Officially its not an STD, but its essentially like one)
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WHAT KIND OF NICHOLAS SPARKS BOOK ENDING STORY?!?!?!
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Scabies (from Latin: scabere, "to scratch"),[1] also known colloquially as the seven-year itch
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I was thinking about telling him how I completely feel about him but the day I wrote the letter to give to him my I see him at a football game hugged up with some girl. This was the happiest anyone has ever seen him since the incident. But I just couldn't take it he had become comfortable with someone else. He was randomly staring at HER rubbing HER ears
! Doing everything we used to . I broke down in tears hopped on the train and ran home
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Originally posted by LonelySoul
gurl what is this I can't I just can imagine how tragic
everything just crumbled
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I know
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My first crush got a girl knocked up, moved to Arkansas, started dating another guy and is doing crack.
(I think he's recovering, though)
He went to my rival high school and we never talked, but I just had a crush on him and then all this happened over the course of last summer.
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Originally posted by Prometheus.
My first crush got a girl knocked up, moved to Arkansas, started dating another guy and is doing crack.
(I think he's recovering, though)
He went to my rival high school and we never talked, but I just had a crush on him and then all this happened over the course of last summer. |
Nnnn
Just one summer?
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I'm sorry but.....
...but are you okay? |
Yes, I got it around May and symptoms werent there till late june. I wasn't diagnosed till early July and it took around 2 months to get rid of. I didn't know if I would be able to go back to school because you are kept awake all night itching and you need to be very very very clean with your environment and your body so it doesnt spread. I only wore one pair of shirts and shorts for 2 months and washed and dried them every morning and while that was happening I took a one hour bath in this chemical thing to prevent itching and spreading.
I had to keep all my clothes and belongings in trashbags for a month and a half in the attic since the virus is very easily spread onto cloth material and the easiest way to kill it is through suffocation and heat.
Lastly, and most sadly, I slept on a pool float in a closed off dining room in my house for 1 month in July/August since it was plastic and the scabies dont adhere to it and I would clean it every morning with a bucket of hot water, lysol, and a mop....needless to say it was a sad summer.
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Originally posted by Attitude
Nnnn
Just one summer?
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The bulk of it.
She posted her pregnancy like a year ago. Then I heard that he moved to Arkansas with her family. Then I saw a pic of him and a guy making out. Then his friends back here starting gossiping about him doing drugs. Then I made the mistake of deleting my facebook.
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Originally posted by ImHighPrice
I don't go a day without thinking about my crush....
On the first day of my current job (which I started about 6 months ago), I met most of my co-workers, then in walks this Adonis in disguise (I say "disguise" because, he had a tragic spiky hairdo that was not tea, but I seen his visual potential). He is a 6ft male of Indian descent and He's cute but I wasn't instantly attracted to him. We introduced ourselves (he has a sexy deep voice btw) and it might've just been my imagination but that handshake and eye-contact lasted significantly longer than everybody else's.
Meanwhile, when my Crush would have the day off, the other employees would make rude remarks about him and it was apparent that he was not the most liked at the job and I didn't understand why. The next day, my Crush and I worked the same shift and as he was doing his job, another employee (who had superiority over him) try to make him do a task that was not in his job description...my Crush went AWF! He spoke his mind and in his words "Didn't give a f**k!" My heart begun racing...He's a BAD BOY! I'm the rational,reserved & sometimes quiet type and I am nationally drawn to outspoken and sometimes irrational men. This is when I knew I wanted to get closer to him...even if it means just being friends.
Over the course of just 2 months, we begun having our lunches together and had conversations that range from politics, sports (ugh), and music. Sidebar: He was initially embarrassed about the fact that he enjoyed pop music and pretended to only like rap music but since we got closer, he freely sings "Dark Horse" with no shame (so cute). We got so close that he actually listens to what I have to say and when he begins to react irrationally, I try to calm him down, to which he surprisingly complies. He even changed his "tragic hair spiky hairdo" and became the Adonis I always knew he was (faints).
Currently, EVERYBODY at the job sees how close my Crush and I are but in a "bromance" kind of way. I would make stupid,cute gestures at him by poking him or something and he would do the same to me in return. On the days where we haven't seen each other in a while (usually 1 or 2 days lol), he would say " I missed you" and I would say the same in return. We talk alot outside of work and frequently go to the gym together (among other places). I'm conflicted because I do feel like the crush is mutual and I DO want to act on it but it could backfire of course, and I don't want to ruin what we currently have.
P.S. I'm actually talking to my Crush as I type this so excuse the novel-like teas. I'm just overwhelm with feelings at the moment.
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Gurl, this is so cute! Don't act on it until you're absolutely sure it won't backfire and ruin a perfectly good friendship.
Srsly, tho these stories...
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Originally posted by Prometheus.
The bulk of it.
She posted her pregnancy like a year ago. Then I heard that he moved to Arkansas with her family. Then I saw a pic of him and a guy making out. Then his friends back here starting gossiping about him doing drugs. Then I made the mistake of deleting my facebook. |
Poor girl, tho. I mean, c'mon, she was pregnant.
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Poor girl, tho. I mean, c'mon, she was pregnant. |
I KNOW. He still lives in Arkansas, too. I ask my friends for updates from time to time, but I've been super busy with work I haven't seen them lately.
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