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Originally posted by Anvarie
This whole base(blog too) has been filled with negativity, how can you not expect people to treat each other with disrespect when it's such a common practice here? I haven't any other stan bases on here treat their members like some of the people in here do. Pointless shade, dismissing others opinions, talking down to one another, etc this faux hierarchy within the base is stupid.
It doesn't help that people like to become characters, Richa and Devon, that purposefully act ignorant. How can we expect anything to change when the new members are brought up in it? Eventually it happens so often that the behavior becomes okay. It's okay to be rude to people in here, it's okay to respond to what people say with "lol", it's okay to tell people they have a mental disability. It shouldn't be like that.
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Anvarie you just gained a ton of respect from me and others. I may not agree but you are allowed to have your pov.
My point is that you shouldn't target one group when another group is actually starting stuff, its apparently bleeding over into the blog which i didnt partake in, wall posts pm s etc.
I can think of a few bases that rip each other's too shred but your point stands.
The reports in January prove that we were the highest reporting with me either ranking 3 or 4 with #2 doubling my reports and #1 quadrupling my report count...yet i apparently won the most likely to report a barb award. Lol.
If it was meant to say most effective reporting then yes but the stats didnt lie on who did it the most.
Whenever i talk Down to anyone if you Out of nowhere...check me.
Hierarchy...well ppl allow willy a lot of slack that would often be reported because of that hierarchy. I get what ur saying but it exists...i choose not to buck up against it because its a waste to try.
I get that its hard not to follow suit when so much unnecessary shade (which I'm GUILTY of) and unwarranted attacks which IM NOT GUILTY of goes down.
I mean two posters do it and it almost comes off as one sided sexual tension.
Well you make some good points but at the end of the day you are responsible for your actions.
I get that its tough when you are in an unhealthy environment its hard to be healthy.
I'd say check ppl indiscriminately and maybe ppl will turn a new lead.
Good luck.
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Originally posted by Drama
Willy is joking majority of the time.....but I know what you mean, the constant dragging/shading makes us seem like all the barbz hate each other lol.
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It seems like some ppl use this as a scapegoat to life instead of entertainment.
How can you hate someone you've never met. It's not that serious? But some ppl do and its alarming to allow someone to get under your skin to where you are hiding, scared to come in base, talking smack on wall posts, or trying to drag ppl personally when you are doing based on conjecture and not facts.
Thats true. We've got to do better.
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Originally posted by Anvarie
I know he was, but the point is those types of insults become okay to everyone when they're used so carelessly
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So true but the hierarchy as you state is what makes it permissible for him...its not right but it is. What it is.
Look at all those comments he makes to richa...yet they dont get reported.
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Originally posted by MMMinaj
Using the term "mental disability" in a negative manner is never ok though. Joking or not.
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True and that's not even the half of it. I guess ppl are more perceptive than i give them credit for.
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Originally posted by JessicaVanessa
This post is everything. I don't have a problem with Willy but I understand what you're saying and Agree 100%
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True.
. Sometimes I wonder if I really like the songs she does or if it's my stan brain making me like anything 
