Discussion: Would you date a HIV+ person? - Page 22

MANUELF

Im sorry but I wouldnt, being friends ok but not any more than that

BlackStar_93

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Originally posted by Lippy

Probably not, because only ****ty ******s get HIV(and I don't date these), but if some normal got one, I would but I wouldn't have anal sex with him.

Ew... it's exactly people like you that continue the stigma of HIV. That's such a uneducated attitude to have. And by the way, people with HIV are still "normal" as you put it. I suggest you get off the internet and go and get an education somewhere.

Anyway, I believe anything is possible, so never say never. If I met someone who I really loved as a person I wouldn't treat them differently because they had HIV.

Codex

No. I don't really care abour PrEp or whatever is being written in this thread, I'm not going to take medication for someone else's mistakes.

Can't_M!ss_This

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Originally posted by Codex

No. I don't really care abour PrEp or whatever is being written in this thread, I'm not going to take medication for someone else's mistakes.

A mistake? There is more than one way to contract HIV.

Every guy I know with HIV got it a different way.

Guy 1: His boyfriend cheated on him and infected him.

Guy 2: A hookup turned relationship where the guy didn't tell him

Guy 3: Attacked in a bar fight by a druggie and years later had HIV

Guy 4: Drugged and raped by some guy while on vacation, didn't know for 5 years

I know several more guys. The point is it's not always a mistake or something they've done. You can be a victim of it just like scabies or head lice or credit fraud. But it's not even something you need to take medication for. That's mostly for people who are high risk, like if you were raped or if a condom broke on your one night stand.

If you're with a guy and he takes care of himself, exercise-diet-stress management-medication his viral load can be zero and you can have sex without a condom, basically. An HIV+ guy who cares for his life and health is going to be so on top of taking care of it that he's like a gold mine. Do you know how many HIV- men take that much care to stay negative? Few. Startlingly few.

Love who will love you back. See the beauty in people.

Daddy

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Originally posted by Lippy

Probably not, because only ****ty ******s get HIV(and I don't date these), but if some normal got one, I would but I wouldn't have anal sex with him.

You pathetic kid. Your post says a lot about you. Mostly that you didn't experience ANYTHING related to the topic. Are you even old enough to know the word anal? **** outta here!

jqnetto

Of course. Love is love.

RomanNavy

I don't think so.

KingB®

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Originally posted by Lippy

Probably not, because only ****ty ******s get HIV(and I don't date these), but if some normal got one, I would but I wouldn't have anal sex with him.

pathetic

kishi

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Originally posted by Codex

No. I don't really care abour PrEp or whatever is being written in this thread, I'm not going to take medication for someone else's mistakes.

Sure, because being born with HIV or being raped is a mistake.

qa3bool

I don't think I could do it

Cobato

I would prefer not to date someone like that, but you can't help who you like. If my feelings are strong enough then I'll give it a go. Tbh I've hooked up with a Hiv+ guy on&off years ago and never caught anything because I educated myself about the risk and how to protect myself, but IDK if I'd want to constantly be on edge in a relationship.

theppy

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Originally posted by Bicassie

No....and there is nothing wrong with that.....

Im not gonna put myself at risk like that....POINT BLANK!

Also I aint got No time for PrEP and **** Im too busy making my Coins...Gurl bye...

My rules with protection:

One night Stands: Condoms

Long Faithful Relationships: RAW

(No protection)

Gurl you're going nowhere

abrahamjmr

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Originally posted by Lyrical.

I currently am. He's undetectable.

If you've been treated and are undetectable, there's a LESS THAN 1% chance you can pass HIV to another person. It's never happened. Especially if you're the top (which I am), there's pretty much NO chance.

I know a lot about HIV, I've even took a class on it to understand it better. So please, no ignorance in this thread.

Finally a post I can completely read.
I am also currently dating a person with HIV, he's undetectable and we've had protection anytime we've been together. I got tested a couple of months ago and I don't have HIV.

People should try to get more information about it. People with it can have a normal life like anyone else as long as they're taking their treatment and using protection.

I been reading all these ignorant comments but I can't blame them, when people don't have enough information about it, they tend to think that way.

abrahamjmr

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Originally posted by GreasyBruce

Is having to take several pills a day for the rest of your life completely normal? Are the side effects, which depending on what strain you get can be very severe, completely normal? And it will still kill you. A lot slower, but it will. Sugarcoating it only makes people not want to protect themselves and think it's not a big deal. It's a big deal. It can also be a very expensive deal, so what if you're poor, or become poor? What if you don't live in a Western country and just accessing retrovirals is very difficult?

Don't be an ignorant person like almost all the people who posted here. People with diabetes or high blood pressure have to take several pills a day for the rest of their lives.

abrahamjmr

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Originally posted by cybiko

some of yall thinking a HIV+ person would wanna date you anyways

Clock em all.

abrahamjmr

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Originally posted by GreasyBruce

That's exactly what I mean! Rates rates are going up because young people don't take it seriously anymore. But even if you're a first world middle class gay on health insurance who can afford the lifelong treatment, what if you go to the caribbean or South America or Southeast Asia on holiday, **** a guy, and bam, you just gave it to him. But will he be able to access treatment as easily as you did?

There you go, being ignorant again. I live in a South American country and my partner gets access to the treatment for FREE. He doesn't need insurance to get it, he just needs a doctor's approval.

abrahamjmr

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Originally posted by Uknowitbeb

HIV/AIDs is still a very real disease. I just went to a 21 yr old boys funeral who passed away from AIDs. Most of the new cases are from ppl in there early 20s, and I believe they make up more than half of new cases. Don't qoute me. So what I'm getting at is, all you sjws talking about ppl are ignorant for being afraid of dating someone with HIV, are not very understanding of why someone might not be comfortable with doing such a thing. It's still out there, and its still killing ppl. No one wants to risk that, especially when it can be prevented. And who wants to pay for that expensive ass medicine anyways.

I know you didn't want to be quoted but, AIDS and HIV are two very different things. HIV don't kill people, it affects the immune system and another disease comes in and kill.

Lippy

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Originally posted by BlackStar_93

Ew... it's exactly people like you that continue the stigma of HIV. That's such a uneducated attitude to have. And by the way, people with HIV are still "normal" as you put it. I suggest you get off the internet and go and get an education somewhere.

Anyway, I believe anything is possible, so never say never. If I met someone who I really loved as a person I wouldn't treat them differently because they had HIV.

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Originally posted by Lily Gaga

You pathetic kid. Your post says a lot about you. Mostly that you didn't experience ANYTHING related to the topic. Are you even old enough to know the word anal? **** outta here!

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Originally posted by KingB®

pathetic

Stay mad, I talked to several HIV+ people and they all got it because they were promiscuous/messy/****ty or jumped into sex without thinking twice. I don't date these. This personality is not normal to me. Sorry, no sorry.

And yeah I'm old enough.

abrahamjmr

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Originally posted by Lippy

Stay mad, I talked to several HIV+ people and they all got it because they were promiscuous/messy/****ty or jumped into sex without thinking twice. I don't date these. This personality is not normal to me. Sorry, no sorry.

And yeah I'm old enough.

Not all of them got it because they were promiscuous. Stay judgemental, ignorant and uneducated.

Lyrical.

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Originally posted by Lippy

Stay mad, I talked to several HIV+ people and they all got it because they were promiscuous/messy/****ty or jumped into sex without thinking twice. I don't date these. This personality is not normal to me. Sorry, no sorry.

And yeah I'm old enough.

Okay girl. Keep those stereotypes alive.

So now everyone who gets it is promiscuous and a ****? Your ****ty friends represent every case? That's completely FALSE. Goodness, you're ****ing ignorant.

There are people with HIV in this thread and you're being so ****ing insensitive and rude making general assumptions on something you barely know anything about. Just leave the thread before you embarrass yourself any further, child.