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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Bored.
Im not even asking for much.
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Bored.
Im not even asking for much.
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WaiT. It worked.
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Originally posted by ManDown
So, I went to see Captain America with my crush last night. We hung out in the mall before the movie started, and got to spend a lot of time talking. This was our sixth date, by the way. Throughout the movie, I kept moving my hand closer and closer to his, and noticed him looking over at me when I would look away, but I was too scared to just grab his hand. It was like I was 15 again.
The movie ended, and I didn't want to go home right away, so we went to his car to talk. We talked for almost two hours, and when it was time to go, he said, "Pardon me for being blunt, but I have to ask. I'm still getting used to this. Are you waiting for a kiss?" And I was thinking, "Oh ****, he's going to think that I just want to sleep with him or something. Or he's going to be freaked out if I tell him yes". So I hesitated for a second, and said, "A kiss would be great, but I don't want to pressure you into anything. Why, what do you think of this?" And he said, "I value our friendship and enjoy spending time with you, but I don't know if I'm ready for the next step." I basically agreed and said, "I understand that, I feel the same way. I don't want to ruin things between us. I do like you, though." He smiled and said, "How about this; you can look forward to a kiss on our next date." It was so adorable.
I get the feeling that he wants to be more than friends as well. I haven't been friendzoned at all. He's just a really different kind of guy. He's very blunt, but very shy when it comes to dating, sex, etc since he doesn't have much experience. If you guys knew me, you would know that I'm never like this with a guy. I've NEVER waited this long for a kiss. It's at least third base by the second or third date. Something about waiting makes it even more exciting and enjoyable. My heart was pounding like I've never felt it before in the theater and in the car.
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so happy for you!
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
WaiT. It worked.
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Are you sucking **** with your laptop beside you or something?
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Are you sucking **** with your laptop beside you or something?
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nnn; I'm not really.
I have before tho, ngl.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
nnn; I'm not really.
I have before tho, ngl.
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Multi-tasking queen, I see you
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Multi-tasking queen, I see you
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oh my god
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Fed up of him tbh. Like, I do so much for him and he cant. Like, urgh.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Fed up of him tbh. Like, I do so much for him and he cant. Like, urgh.
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He said that he won't touch you until you've found yourself and are truly happy right? Start doing your soul-searching and show him
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He said that he won't touch you until you've found yourself and are truly happy right? Start doing your soul-searching and show him
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Effort tho.
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Or you can just tell him that you've already found your happiness, but I doubt he'll believe you seeing how thirsty you've been the past few days.
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Or you can just tell him that you've already found your happiness, but I doubt he'll believe you seeing how thirsty you've been the past few days.
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n;
I hate him so much.
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nnn Spin
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Okay, well I might as well share my story here.
I'm a pastor's kid (I was until my dad stepped down last year) and at the time I was thirteen I think. This guy that I've always liked (I've always considered him an off limits totally straight guy) and I fooled around one fine Sunday afternoon in the hallway outside my dad's office. Long story short of that, the next day he told me that we should forget it ever happened. I agreed reluctantly, because I wanted more than just what we were. Note: when we were fooling around, he was loving it, smiling like an idiot.
Whenever we would talk afterward, he would have the biggest smile on his face, and do the cutest things like pick me up and spin me around or smack me on the butt. There was always this odd tension in the air when we talked to each other, like there was an elephant in the room. But we continued, more or less, just being friends.
One day, we had a conversation alone in my dad's car about a friend of his that was gay. It wasn't even a conversation about gay people at first, he was prank calling this friend of his. He told me his views - he fully accepts his friend for who he is and understands a lot more about the struggles of being gay than I thought. I was so surprised from that conversation...i couldn't believe he was gay-friendly but he is. A lot of guys around the church were homophobic or just ignorant, I couldn't believe him of all people was so understanding. (But then again, we did fool around so maybe he was a lot more understanding than I realized...)
Sometimes when I spoke to him, he would talk about bagging girls like some sort of sport, and he eventually started going out with a girl from the church. Recently my sister told me that not only did he break up with the girl, that maybe he talked so much about girls to me to help me come out (LOL), but he apparently also has a gay brother so that's why he's so gay-friendly. As I said, my dad stepped down in Sept. last year (long story, cheating and rumours and foolishness), and I stopped going since then. My sister also told me that this same guy had been asking for me the most, and wanted me to come back the most out of everyone.
Part of me is like, this would never work because we're two different. He's a Christian, I've been an atheist since 13. He's not super religious, but I don't want our views to clash and cause unneccesary drama. He's also a real goofball, and that's good because he makes me smile, but sometimes he's a legit idiot. Or maybe not and I just need to get to know him better.
Whether we hit it off, or just have a fling, or nothing happens at all, all comes down to this Easter Sunday, when I go back to church (for him only) to tell him how I feel. Wish me luck.
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Originally posted by theoyella jukebox
Okay, well I might as well share my story here.
I'm a pastor's kid (I was until my dad stepped down last year) and at the time I was thirteen I think. This guy that I've always liked (I've always considered him an off limits totally straight guy) and I fooled around one fine Sunday afternoon in the hallway outside my dad's office. Long story short of that, the next day he told me that we should forget it ever happened. I agreed reluctantly, because I wanted more than just what we were. Note: when we were fooling around, he was loving it, smiling like an idiot.
Whenever we would talk afterward, he would have the biggest smile on his face, and do the cutest things like pick me up and spin me around or smack me on the butt. There was always this odd tension in the air when we talked to each other, like there was an elephant in the room. But we continued, more or less, just being friends.
One day, we had a conversation alone in my dad's car about a friend of his that was gay. It wasn't even a conversation about gay people at first, he was prank calling this friend of his. He told me his views - he fully accepts his friend for who he is and understands a lot more about the struggles of being gay than I thought. I was so surprised from that conversation...i couldn't believe he was gay-friendly but he is. A lot of guys around the church were homophobic or just ignorant, I couldn't believe him of all people was so understanding. (But then again, we did fool around so maybe he was a lot more understanding than I realized...)
Sometimes when I spoke to him, he would talk about bagging girls like some sort of sport, and he eventually started going out with a girl from the church. Recently my sister told me that not only did he break up with the girl, that maybe he talked so much about girls to me to help me come out (LOL), but he apparently also has a gay brother so that's why he's so gay-friendly. As I said, my dad stepped down in Sept. last year (long story, cheating and rumours and foolishness), and I stopped going since then. My sister also told me that this same guy had been asking for me the most, and wanted me to come back the most out of everyone.
Part of me is like, this would never work because we're two different. He's a Christian, I've been an atheist since 13. He's not super religious, but I don't want our views to clash and cause unneccesary drama. He's also a real goofball, and that's good because he makes me smile, but sometimes he's a legit idiot. Or maybe not and I just need to get to know him better.
Whether we hit it off, or just have a fling, or nothing happens at all, all comes down to this Easter Sunday, when I go back to church (for him only) to tell him how I feel. Wish me luck.
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Awe that was cute! Good luck!
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Awe that was cute! Good luck!
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Thank you!
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