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Originally posted by RudeBoyy
@Doc I'm not quoting you thats too long,
That whole first paragraph sounds really unlikely and he needs to realize that not all black women are a monolith and that they don't all have the same standards as his childhood bullies  . He CAN'T be that dense so this leads me to assume that the has a different reason then he's explicitly stating. Why is it ok for him to treat black women as an un considerable monolith and how would he feel if the women he chases treated him the same way?
I never accused him of projecting and realize it was a flop comparison but he is forever tainted to me for saying this. I'm not trying to make him out as a hateful bully just someone who is a bit delusional and needs a reality check. He's a nice guy and I'm a obviously offended an entire race of people makes him uncomfortable because that's shameful. Miss me with that "have an ounce of understanding" when you're not trying i. The slightest to understand me
Also I'm curious to hear why people called him "Uncle Tom". Sorry but when you state my entire race of people make you uncomfortable your entire retelling becomes unreliable. I don't believe most of what he's saying is as he's make it sound. Simple :Michael: |
Unlikely? You think it's unlikely that people bullied him because of the way he talks? Even when people now make fun of him on the show because of how he talks?
Anyway, I'm going off of what he said because only he knows his experience. No one has the right to assume things, especially on such a sensitive topic. Devin knows all Black women/people aren't like that, he told that Jocasta in his conversation with her. That doesn't change the fact that he's uncomfortable approaching them. That doesn't change the fact that it's always in the back of his mind that they don't find him worthy. Childhood trauma is SERIOUS, it doesn't just completely go away because of what's "logical." A related example is someone who was abused by a man as a child—clearly they'll grow up knowing that all men aren't like that, but that doesn't change the fact that that residual childhood trauma is going to make them uncomfortable around men or uncomfortable at a touch, regardless of how illogical it is. Two different situations of course, but it's similar in that regard.
