[B'Day]

Yikes. For a second, the comments reflected a Catholic forum
OT: Anyways, personally no. But if anyone wants to be referred as them/they, I'd gladly respect that.

[Dylobs]

Half the time I'll just assume their cis-gender and the other half I'll use they.

[-brian]

Originally posted by Mhs90

Sorry, if you got a penis, you're a man. Inside, you could be whoever you want--man, woman, dog, goldfish, shoelace idgaf No one cares as much as you think

next time just answer the question

[velocity]

i use the gender specific one. i only use they online when I don't know what gender that person is.

although if someone asked me to use a that pronoun for them i would

[Brunette Ambition]

he/she
but i would use they if someone told me to

in german we dont have a gender neutral word anyways, only something like ''it'' but nobody would want to be called that

[theo.]

EDIT: I misunderstood the thread.

Of course!! You have to ask them how they'd like to be addressed. Fosters better communication and deters stereotypical assumptions.

[Paul McCutie]

Only online, when i don't know the gender.

[devotedtokesha]

Originally posted by Jorq

they...

I mean if I dont know the gender why would I FORCE myself to use he/she?

Right? People here are stupid sometimes lmfao.

[devotedtokesha]

Originally posted by Mhs90

Sorry, if you got a penis, you're a man. Inside, you could be whoever you want--man, woman, dog, goldfish, shoelace idgaf No one cares as much as you think

Ok, that was uncalled for and really off topic.

[Quiqui4eva]

I only use they/them if I know someone identifies with neither gender

[Titan]

He/she but i'll use they/them if they want me to

[Courtney Love]

Originally posted by Titan

He/she but i'll use they/them if they want me to

.

[AvrilLaQueen]

if I am talking to a girl, she
boy, he

I would be offended if someone calls me as "them" wtf is that mess? the tumblr kids are too much! log out and experience life tbh

[Reader]

Gender specific. But I would use neutral if I met someone androgynous or trans.

[Sazare]

Usually gender-specific, unless I have some inkling they might have some other preference. Which is wrong, I know, but I don't really know how to get out of the habit.

[cypriotpcdfan]

All these ****ing terms though. Like, go outside, enjoy life instead of worry about a he or a she. The majority of you who are being so pro term or whatever you want to call them, coulnd't give a **** 5 years ago because it wasn't a thing. But now that it is, with this ****ing internet that has changed the world, y'all make it into a big deal.

[gettsleazy]

You will never catch me dead or alive calling somebody I first meet by a gender neutral pronoun. Like, what in the world.

If you look like a she, I will call you she. If you look like a he, the same goes. If you are androgynous, I will hold off and wait for you to say something.

You can't be expected to account and be responsible for everyone. If you wish to use a pronoun outside of the binary system, please inform me first and I will gladly use it. It's not my job to look like an idiot and assume, and in most cases that I have tried to go Gender-Neutral, it ends up insulting the person.

[WeFoundWill]

I think only the english language has that tbh, so no, not when I speak in my mothers tongue

[SebaMonster]

"He"/"she" when I know their gender, "they" when I don't.

[Samuel]

..no

If they look like a male there's a 99%+ chance they're gonna identify as a male & vice versa but online if I don't know their name/gender I'll say they