ive had a lot actually, but they come and go. my two life best friends are both chicks.
actually, one of my best friends in high school was straight. we started hooking up and then he bitched out and our friendship immediately fell apart. after that i sort of dropped out of our circle of friends and made new ones. so i lost a good chunk of high school buddies i couldve potentially had had we never literally ****ed our friendship.
I literally have 0 Gay friends. Not intentionally or anything we just don't get along. Guess I just haven't met one that has the same interests as I do (outside atrl of course, I'm a thirsty Stan fighting lil b on here but that couldn't be further from the truth Irl)
I also feel like every straight guy should have a gay wingman. Girls feel like they can confide in gays but at the end of the day, no matter gay, straight or bi its bros before hos.
I had mostly straight male friends until the start of 10th grade when I realized that they were basically insufferable so I just stopped talking to them Then I became best friends with 2 straight females, and I've never been friends with a gay male. And now I have 0 friends But I'm moving to college tomorrow actually so hopefully I meet new ones
I am a straight guy, and if they are truly your friends, they won't really mind.
When I was in school there was this flamboyant gay in class who was closeted but everyone knew sin e he would try to put Britney's DVDs at every group project and had his room decorated in purple and leopard prints. We bullied the hell out of him.
A couple of years later, one of my closest friends started to drift away from the group, isolating himself.
It was quite strange and didn't make sense until my then-GF (who happened to be one of his best friends), told me and other one of the guys it was al because he was struggling to come into his own, and didn't trust us enough to open up since he was afraid to receive the same threatment than the bullied kid.
The notion of someone who I'd known since age 3 feeling that alone, like he couldn't come to us for help, wrenched my guts and made me realize how wrong I was with my intolerance, and decided it didn't actually matter who was he bedding (and most of the guys shared this view).
So my advise is: come clean, be who you are.
My best friend is straight and that's about it really, lots of straight "acquaintances" eg. friends' boyfriends, their friends etc. Not that many I'd hang out with. Well my flatmate and I were friends pre-flatting, but living with him has ruined our friendship somewhat.