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Originally posted by dessy
I don't get why some gays have issues with bisexuals tbh.
Also I wasn't aware that most gays are turned on by straight/gay-for-pay guys
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Well there's a huge market in ****, for example, with guys who are most likely gay/bi being marketed as "straight"/g4p. And MANY gay guys I know have "converting straight boy" fantasies. For me, a guy being straight/g4p just means he'll be less passionate and experienced with me
But I digress.
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Originally posted by iHype.
But this reminds me last week some girl in class said "I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. It's not cheating if they're different genders".
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That's exactly the stereotypical fear a lot of people have
But the thing is, I don't even buy into that: I know bi people can be faithful, which is why I was so perplexed/confused by my visceral subconscious reaction of being put off. I mean, even IF they have a higher chance of being unfaithful (big if, I wonder if a study has ever been done), I'm actually LESS concerned about infidelity than I am about not being able to satisfy my partner fully due to something I can't control (gender).
I mean, at the end of the day if a bi guy likes me and I like him I'd still give it a try. I was more curious if other gays considered that as even being a factor, or if they're just like "gay = bi = 'heteroflexible' = ie: compatible with me" and didn't weigh other sexualities differently.