I don't want to be like a 30 year old virgin tho
It seems as though most people lost their virginity earlier or at least during college years (which I still am) but I don't see it happening for me any time soon...............
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What if I want to be a used up dish rag
would you rather force yourself into an uncomfortable and awkward position with some random person you don't really care about just so you can "get it over with" or would you rather wait a little longer and do it with someone that actually matters to you
Don't beat yourself up over it! There is absolutely nothing strange about it. I was 20 when I lost mine which is probably considered "older", but I wanted to feel comfortable and ready, so you should do the same thing!
Honestly be happy that you did not get HIV so far. Life is enjoyable in other aspects as well.
And this is not meant as an insult to anyone who is more sexually active.
But those who said it's weird should be more thoughtful.
would you rather force yourself into an uncomfortable and awkward position with some random person you don't really care about just so you can "get it over with" or would you rather wait a little longer and do it with someone that actually matters to you
True sis. I'm also terrified of ever getting pregnant so there's that
Obviously not. Don't do it just because you think it's weird "being a virgin", do it when you feel ready and sexually attracted to someone. It will be better and you'll enjoy a lot.
And don't worry, things like this happens naturally.
It isn't weird being a virgin at all, it's better to wait and have sex with someone who is caring and passionate and will move at a speed you're comfortable with for your first time than some random guy on Grindr in a Honda Civic behind the dumpster at a McDonald's parking lot.
I lost my virginity at 19 to my first boyfriend. I was so paranoid it'd take forever to lose it, and I'm happy I waited for him. We were both virgins and moved at a slow pace and it was comfortable and a learning experience for the both of us.