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Discussion: Why do gay males chase after straight men?
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Ding ding, you just found out how girls feel about guys.
PS: If anything, you should feel flattered that they consider a vomit bag attractive.
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Originally posted by Gazing Ball
In my opinion it's because we're all self-hating, insecure individuals that detest every stereotype put upon the gay community which of course leads onto this. Therefore to compensate for this, we turn against "gay men" naively believing they all fit these stereotypes "except for ourselves" and therefore lust after straight men who we believe embody the opposite of the gay stereotype, when really we're all just men and specific traits of sexualities are social constructs that we ignorantly continue to believe.
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Mess at a few comments in this thread.
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Why are so many perched....is it because I spoke on something that too many have been afraid to address?
I will always ask the tough and unpleasant questions because the underdogs(str8's) need their respective voices heard.
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Anyway, as for myself, I would never go after something that I know I wouldn't be able to obtain, hence a straight guy. Yes, I can acknowledge when a straight guy is cute. I'll say "He's cute", but it never goes past that.
I mean, I get the whole forbidden fruit and want what you can't have thing, but it just seems messy. Why not go after & lust over a guy that you could actually get. Like, idk, another gay guy?
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Originally posted by DevonRoars
That is so sad and pathetic. I'll pray for you.
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Oh please. I'd rather pay for quality people than get crappy people for free off Craigslist and Grindr. Not only that, but I get to do what I want to do. Men focus way too much on sucking and ****ing and I'd rather have fun other ways. You have an entire body to play with. Not just a banana and cake. I'd rather save sucking and ****ing for a relationship. All the other fun stuff I want to do with no strings attached. And men simply don't work like that.
Besides, there's a thing called time management. This is the only time I'll be meeting up with one for awhile, because of hosting as well as the lack of special occasions.
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I think it's basically because one in every ten guys is gay, so falling for a straight guy is something that will happen to every single one of us at some point (considering most gay guys are either closeted, or too afraid to make a move).
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I don't chase after straights.
But I assume the ones who do, are fems and need to feel & be treated like a lady
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Originally posted by Joaquin Ignacio
I think it's basically because one in every ten guys is gay, so falling for a straight guy is something that will happen to every single one of us at some point (considering most gay guys are either closeted, or too afraid to make a move).
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1 in 10? Where y'all live?
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Originally posted by MiMiLamb
1 in 10? Where y'all live?
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it's just an estimate, and even if it wasn't true, most gay guys are closeted so it doesn't matter.
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Because straight guys are totes masculine!!!11 That's stupid though because it implies all straight men are masculine and all gay men are feminine which is 100% not true. If you think that maybe you need to meet more gay guys because it seems like you're just going off of stereotypes.
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Much higher # of guys are straight, so of course it is statistically probable that the random hot dude we lust after will be straight.
About the celebrity thing, what difference does it make if a gay guy lusts after Zac Efron than if a straight girl does? Either way he's unattainable for both of us, so it's not really a relevant point.
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Originally posted by Gazing Ball
In my opinion it's because we're all self-hating, insecure individuals that detest every stereotype put upon the gay community which of course leads onto this. Therefore to compensate for this, we turn against "gay men" naively believing they all fit these stereotypes "except for ourselves" and therefore lust after straight men who we believe embody the opposite of the gay stereotype, when really we're all just men and specific traits of sexualities are social constructs that we ignorantly continue to believe.
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Originally posted by Gazing Ball
In my opinion it's because we're all self-hating, insecure individuals that detest every stereotype put upon the gay community which of course leads onto this. Therefore to compensate for this, we turn against "gay men" naively believing they all fit these stereotypes "except for ourselves" and therefore lust after straight men who we believe embody the opposite of the gay stereotype, when really we're all just men and specific traits of sexualities are social constructs that we ignorantly continue to believe.
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I like men. Not fairies.
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Originally posted by Ryan
Why do straight guys chase after unattainable women?
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Off topic make your own thread sir.
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Why do straight men think gay people (men and women) want them? Sorry but NO.
As soon as straight guys realize I don't want them they get all upset. I'm like sorry DUDE. I want a man.
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If that person is attractive of course you are going to lust after them...regardless of sexual orientation.
That's just human nature... we want the "best" we can get, tbh.
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Everyone wants who they cant have, it doesnt even have to do with gay men chasing straights. Ugly men want hot females and Ugly females want hot men. Ugly gays want hot gays. its the food chain
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Originally posted by Gazing Ball
In my opinion it's because we're all self-hating, insecure individuals that detest every stereotype put upon the gay community which of course leads onto this. Therefore to compensate for this, we turn against "gay men" naively believing they all fit these stereotypes "except for ourselves" and therefore lust after straight men who we believe embody the opposite of the gay stereotype, when really we're all just men and specific traits of sexualities are social constructs that we ignorantly continue to believe.
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This truth is too painful for some!
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Because we like masculinity. Is that hard to understand?
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Originally posted by MusicLoverDude
I don't. But the straight guys are hotter than the gays in my area.
But you can always hire a G4P male escort. Just saying! I'm meeting up with one next week
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Why are your posts always so messy?
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