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Celeb News: Chris & Rihanna: Back Together? / Blood Found In Chris's Car
Member Since: 9/6/2006
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I hope this is false. She better not get back together wit him!
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Member Since: 7/14/2008
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Hopefully they work things out.
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Member Since: 9/26/2001
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Originally posted by 1-N-Only21
I'm mad people are trying to dog her for taking him back when they don't know anything but the brutal picture of her.
Bruises heal but a heart will NOT. Love is really stronger than some of you know.
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Now, I still think that Rihanna would be absolutely INSANE to take him back, because men who abuse women just do not change. Period. They may appear sorry, but, hey, look, it's a week later, and guess who has a black eye and bruises? No, it's not the man, before you ask.
However, I tend to agree with the general point, though people have a right to lose respect for Rihanna, if the rumors are true. That being said, obviously, love is stronger than some people here might understand. When you're in love, your feelings can overcome you rather easily, no matter what happens. I mean in Rihanna's case, keep that in mind. The heart and mind work in mysterious ways, ways that I cannot even comprehend.
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Sure, we all know that love works in strange, stupid ways. But if she loses sight of reality, and she willingly re-accepts someone that has hurt her before and will hurt her again, well, I can't be sympathetic anymore.
If he abuses her once, shame on him. If she takes him back and he abuses her again, shame on both of them.
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Member Since: 12/12/2004
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I agree with Tierra. Thats why i wouldnt be that suprised because they seemed as if they were really serious, spending the holidays with each other's families etc etc. And like i said, they're both from dysfunctional families & probably feel like they're the only ones that understand each other.
And i dont think abusive people can totally change but would you really think Chris would do something like this again after all the ish thats been happening? I doubt he would ever do it again, but its different for him i guess, because he's famous.
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Member Since: 9/29/2008
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I don't believe this story for a minute.
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Member Since: 5/2/2000
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He would abuse her again and he will if given the chance.
It's all a part of the cycle that's been going since the beginning of time. People like that never change.
1. The tension builds: Verbal and emotional abuse
2. The explosion: Actual physical assault
3. The apology: The batterer promises never to do it again
4. The honeymoon: Ridiculously loving acts
5. The repeat: Guess what? Next stop, back to step 1...
If you trust and believe someone who has abused you, then you're out of your ****ing mind.
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Member Since: 1/27/2006
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People, this is OBVIOUS rumor back-up. They have no official stories to work off of, so they come up with most believable thing.
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Member Since: 5/31/2008
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This is most likely a rumor, but I strongly hope she doesn't take him back.
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Member Since: 12/12/2004
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Originally posted by TC
He would abuse her again and he will if given the chance.
It's all a part of the cycle that's been going since the beginning of time. People like that never change.
1. The tension builds: Verbal and emotional abuse
2. The explosion: Actual physical assault
3. The apology: The batterer promises never to do it again
4. The honeymoon: Ridiculously loving acts
5. The repeat: Guess what? Next stop, back to step 1...
If you trust and believe someone who has abused you, then you're out of your ****ing mind.
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I see what you're saying but i still think theres some people that can really change. Like if they get help for it & understand the consequences they will face if it happens again & thats why i dont think Chris would do something like this again because of how big the media blew it up and he is on even THINNER ice than the average person.
I think if he did this to a regular girl it would be a totally different case, unfortunately ... nobody would really care as much or anything.
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I think, sadly, if Chris Brown could let himself do that even once, he'd do it again. Think about it. For this to happen in the first place, he had to lose all perception of his fame and fortune, the media, the paparazzi, all of it.
He lost sight of everything because he was really pissed off at Rihanna and just felt like ****ing up her face.
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Member Since: 10/17/2008
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i just know one thing - Rihanna's manager will never give her the choice of going back to CB.
The media is insane about the leaked picture, everyone is talking, and since Rihanna is that famous, it'll be seriously career breaking step for her to back to him.
and if Rihanna will be losing the audience support, Chris will leave her.
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Member Since: 12/12/2004
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Originally posted by TC
I think, sadly, if Chris Brown could let himself do that even once, he'd do it again. Think about it. For this to happen in the first place, he had to lose all perception of his fame and fortune, the media, the paparazzi, all of it.
He lost sight of everything because he was really pissed off at Rihanna and just felt like ****ing up her face.
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Well....i agree.
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Member Since: 5/14/2007
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Why did he even beat her? What's like the "official story."
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Member Since: 9/6/2006
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I think she can do better! She doesn't need dat ****!
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Member Since: 1/20/2008
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Quote:
Originally posted by TC
For this to happen in the first place, he had to lose all perception of his fame and fortune, the media, the paparazzi, all of it.
He lost sight of everything because he was really pissed off at Rihanna and just felt like ****ing up her face.
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The same thing keeps going through my head. It should have been obvious to him that this was going to ruin his career, so he must've been really angry to have forgotten, or not even cared about that fact.
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Member Since: 10/17/2008
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Originally posted by music135
The same thing keeps going through my head. It should have been obvious to him that this was going to ruin his career, so he must've been really angry to have forgotten, or not even cared about that fact.
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I think he was thinking that the media isn't going to know..
Maybe this is not the first time he beat Rihanna?
maybe it happen' before but not as bad? =\
you never know =\ this story is messed up..
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Member Since: 12/12/2004
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The New York Post:
TALK about adding insult to injury: We hear Rihanna was slated to be a surprise special performer at last night’s Academy Awards, but pulled out following her alleged brutal beating by boyfriend Chris Brown. The Barbados-born beauty had previously missed her performance at the Grammys because of the attack. The LAPD is investigating the source of leaked photos that showed the extent of her injuries. Academy reps did not return calls.
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Member Since: 6/23/2005
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PUHLEASE, RiRi!
You better off without him.
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Member Since: 2/21/2005
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TC is absolutely right. I think that if they get back together it will only get worse from there.
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