This is interesting. I've heard of many cases in my area where both the male and female are drunk and "it's always the male at fault" even though they were just as under the influence. My step-dad has actually caught so many girls lie about "being raped" just because they were walked in on during it and figured it was okay to potentially ruin the males life. Hope this helps though!
I know a girl who had consensual sex in a field at the age of 13 but claimed rape when her parents (and the entire school) found out.
I don't know how straight sex works cause this seems primarily geared towards females, but when is the word "yes" ever used? Do people ask people if they want to have sex?
This basically makes it much easier for women to accuse a man of rape. There is no innocence until proven guilty on college campuses and unless a man can prove he didn't rape a woman (very hard to do unless he were recording the sexual act, which in itself can be illegal), he can be thrown out of the school if the woman says he did it. We live in a world that is overcompensating for the fact that women were (and still are in many scenarios) treated poorly and is therefore making life harder for men instead of just easier for women.
I don't know how straight sex works cause this seems primarily geared towards females, but when is the word "yes" ever used? Do people ask people if they want to have sex?
Have you ever heard people having good sex? I swear, I hear more yes's through my bedroom wall than when watching X Factor.
I know a girl who had consensual sex in a field at the age of 13 but claimed rape when her parents (and the entire school) found out.
My best friend was in a relationship of two years. She always complained though she hasn't been with enough guys, everyone knew that. One day at a party she slept with a guy, SHE BROUGHT HIM IN AND WAS THE ONE WHO INITIATED IT, Than claimed rape when her boyfriend found out. I stopped talking to her after because she ruined the other guys entire life.
My best friend was in a relationship of two years. She always complained though she hasn't been with enough guys, everyone knew that. One day at a party she slept with a guy, SHE BROUGHT HIM IN AND WAS THE ONE WHO INITIATED IT, Than claimed rape when her boyfriend found out. I stopped talking to her after because she ruined the other guys entire life.
A similar situation happened to my moms brother and now he's in jail for something he didn't do
My best friend was in a relationship of two years. She always complained though she hasn't been with enough guys, everyone knew that. One day at a party she slept with a guy, SHE BROUGHT HIM IN AND WAS THE ONE WHO INITIATED IT, Than claimed rape when her boyfriend found out. I stopped talking to her after because she ruined the other guys entire life.
this is just a mess
Like do people need to have signed papers before they have sex with someone
This would actually be good: you could control infections; find out who's the baby daddy without having to go on Maury; follow up about the encounter the next day or maybe a few years down when your marriage is rocky... who knows? Keep a head count?
Kind of ruins the atmosphere to say "Hey, before we get started you must first say 'yes, you can have sexual intercourse with me'"
Not here for this...
oh my god, you again? how many offensive things will you say before you're satisfied?
the atmosphere is so much less important than people being raped. that's a tiny problem. any tiny problem that comes up with something that can prevent rape should be ignored. have you ever known anyone who has been raped? this could stop many rapes and lead to people who rape being prosecuted. preventing something that horrible should be the #1 priority.
This would actually be good: you could control infections; find out who's the baby daddy without having to go on Maury; follow up about the encounter the next day or maybe a few years down when your marriage is rocky... who knows? Keep a head count?
A similar situation happened to my moms brother and now he's in jail for something he didn't do
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Originally posted by Lose My Breath
You should've turned her in
We basically had a group about of 100 of us. We told the officers and investigators it wasn't raped. They took the word of my friend over everybody else.
I guess because my step-dad, he's a Police Officer, worked in that department for so many years I have a very strong opinion of "rape-culture".
He's told me stories where he had to tell 17/18 year old boys, who were completely innocent and not in the wrong, that their lives were ruined forever because the girls admitted details too late or just blatantly lied. He said for every ten rape cases he'd get, only two or three were legitimate.
One case he told me, A girl walked in on her best friend having sex with her own boyfriend. And because she got caught she claimed rape. Disgusting.
We basically had a group about of 100 of us. We told the officers and investigators it wasn't raped. They took the word of my friend over everybody else.
I guess because my step-dad, he's a Police Officer, worked in that department for so many years I have a very strong opinion of "rape-culture".
He's told me stories where he had to tell 17/18 year old boys, who were completely innocent and not in the wrong, that their lives were ruined forever because the girls admitted details too late or just blatantly lied. He said for every ten rape cases he'd get, only two or three were legitimate.
One case he told me, A girl walked in on her best friend having sex with her own boyfriend. And because she got caught she claimed rape. Disgusting.
I have heard of cases where people lie due to embarrassment, which is so sad. Rape is not a joke.
oh my god, you again? how many offensive things will you say before you're satisfied?
the atmosphere is so much less important than people being raped. that's a tiny problem. any tiny problem that comes up with something that can prevent rape should be ignored. have you ever known anyone who has been raped? this could stop many rapes and lead to people who rape being prosecuted. preventing something that horrible should be the #1 priority.
I have heard of cases where people lie due to embarrassment, which is so sad. Rape is not a joke.
He said he'd find it disgusting when interviewing a girl and they were smiling, almost laughing when discussing the incident acting as if nothing happened.
8% of all rape cases are based off of false accusations
Not saying that that 8% is something we should ignore. Just that the idea that the woman is just going to be wrong and accusing left and right is ridiculous.
He said he'd find it disgusting when interviewing a girl and they were smiling, almost laughing when discussing the incident acting as if nothing happened.