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Originally posted by I Am Music
He didn't lie. Some gay men need to realize that it doesn't matter if you're masculine or not.
You're still seen in the same boat as feminine guys.
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Ugh yes. Literally the only people who make a distinction between masculine gays and feminine gays are gay guys themselves. The straight community lumps every single gay guy together, regardless of how manly or girly they are. If you suck dick, you're all the same in their eyes. I think a lot of fem hate stems from people who think that masculine gay guys are more accepted in straight society, so they think that fems are slowing down gay acceptance, which isn't true.
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Originally posted by Drama
I just don't like the people who try too hard to be fem. This guy I know came out a few months ago and now it's like he wants EVERYONE to know he's gay.
Every word out his mouth now is "yas mam GAWD hunty girl sweet child miss thang bitch". Being around him is like being trapped in a never ending episode of RuPaul's drag race.
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Maybe this is who he really is and he was trying too hard to be masculine before and putting up a facade? And now that's he's out he feels free to be who he really is? It doesn't matter though, because people have a right to be who they want to be so long as it isn't hurting anybody. If he feels more comfortable being overly feminine then that isn't any of your business and you shouldn't concern yourself with it.