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Discussion: Confess ...
Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by Hotshot
It's probably option 2. Since our fall off, I've met a lot of new friends, travel around and see new things. I don't believe that you could actually replace a friend (or a person in general) like I miss him as a person in particular (our jokes, conversations, etc.) not just having a friend around.
I'm very hesitant to mend things with him because he's leaving next month and we'll probably don't get to see each other easily after that. That's actually a reason why I thought it was okay to just avoid him since he'll be gone soon. While typing this, I just remembered how awful things were when it's bad between us. I am now in a more peaceful place, I wouldn't want to exchange for anything else. Maybe if we meet again in a few years in a different situation, we can be friends again but for now, I want to temporary close that door.
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sound to me like you weighted the situation and already found your closure, which is great since a broken friendship bond is not something insignificant.
and I do understand your situation, but for me it was more of a drift way , I had this friend that I used to go to theater with but then moved away and not even too far away , we kept our frienship alive for a while then we just kind of kept keeping in touch less and less until we just moved on.
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Member Since: 5/29/2012
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I fall in love with guys way too easily.
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Member Since: 4/22/2012
Posts: 5,740
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Originally posted by Hotshot
are you in high school though? don't worry, a single exam won't change your life unless it's SAT ![:)](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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Thanks sis. It's just I worked so hard during the semester to only eff it up over the exam. But it's not the end of the world so you're right. ![:)](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 2,811
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The parent of someone that I have known since I was born told me a couple of weeks ago that he found a letter written by my friend from a few years ago that mentioned me saying 'I hate [my name], she always gets everything she wants', and I've been devastated since because she didn't even deny writing it, so I know it's true.
The thing that makes it worse, is that I've been spoilt my whole life with things etc... and I'm not denying it, but the one thing I really want is to stop having my severe social anxiety, be able to have enough confidence to get a job (I had to quit college and left school because it was so bad), and stay in the same house for over a year (I've moved at least once every year since I was eleven, which involved new schools etc.. every time). So for her to go and say that broke my heart. I just would have thought she'd know me better by now.
We haven't spoken since, and I've been an emotional wreck since it happened. It also doesn't help that her dad also happens to be a bully, who says things about the way I look every time I go round her house.
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Member Since: 3/9/2012
Posts: 4,903
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Quote:
Originally posted by Sakamoto
sound to me like you weighted the situation and already found your closure, which is great since a broken friendship bond is not something insignificant.
and I do understand your situation, but for me it was more of a drift way , I had this friend that I used to go to theater with but then moved away and not even too far away , we kept our frienship alive for a while then we just kind of kept keeping in touch less and less until we just moved on.
![Stare](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/noneiuskn_zpsd181099c.gif)
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I kinda made peace with this situation a long time ago, which is great. I never liked the idea of what happened between you and your friend. For me, it's better to burn out than fade away. Anyway, thanks for your kind words, I feel a lot more better now ![:)](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 3,228
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I hate my ****ing professor so much. I study for days, I write two ****ing awesome essays on the english history, I use the correct names, dates and locations and I still fail. Meanwhile other people don't even read the lecture notes, they don't attend the lectures and they pass? What the ****?! This exam period is taking forever, I had exams since the end of December, I'm so tired ![toofunny3](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/faces/toofunny3_zps08814413.gif)
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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My damn iPad is ****ing making me lazy, plus ignorance is a bliss ![:(](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/frown.gif)
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 2,215
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My metabolism.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
Posts: 6,922
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Originally posted by CountryBritney
The parent of someone that I have known since I was born told me a couple of weeks ago that he found a letter written by my friend from a few years ago that mentioned me saying 'I hate [my name], she always gets everything she wants', and I've been devastated since because she didn't even deny writing it, so I know it's true.
The thing that makes it worse, is that I've been spoilt my whole life with things etc... and I'm not denying it, but the one thing I really want is to stop having my severe social anxiety, be able to have enough confidence to get a job (I had to quit college and left school because it was so bad), and stay in the same house for over a year (I've moved at least once every year since I was eleven, which involved new schools etc.. every time). So for her to go and say that broke my heart. I just would have thought she'd know me better by now.
We haven't spoken since, and I've been an emotional wreck since it happened. It also doesn't help that her dad also happens to be a bully, who says things about the way I look every time I go round her house.
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aw honey that is so sad, but to be honest a true friend should never stab you in your back especially if that said friend is close enough to see past the superficial things (in your case the fact that you're blessed with parents who don't deprive you from anything) and she should've been more sensitive, and to add to things you say that her father is a bully, All I can tell you is that you need to come to peace with this and confront her about how you felt about it and tell her honestly that uou expected more from her and that she should be sorry for doing this, because it's not healthy to leave things unfinished and without a closure. but you just hang in there and keep your chin up and don't let her get you down.
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Member Since: 3/9/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by Kendi
I hate my ****ing professor so much. I study for days, I write two ****ing awesome essays on the english history, I use the correct names, dates and locations and I still fail. Meanwhile other people don't even read the lecture notes, they don't attend the lectures and they pass? What the ****?! This exam period is taking forever, I had exams since the end of December, I'm so tired ![toofunny3](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/faces/toofunny3_zps08814413.gif)
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Lol I 've had several professors like that. Last semester, I worked so hard on a term project but ended up getting the same grade as my friend's who only did his project in a week. I was so furious about it, so what I did was I bothered my professor even if he won't change my grade, I want him to suffer by proving me why we earned that grade. Anyway, I still got the same grade. But the thing with school is, it's a matter of learning what you believe is important to you so in the end, I am still glad I worked hard with my term project coz I learned something and it's useful for my future job. ![:)](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 42,704
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I can't at the way a guy was starring at me when I was in train.
It was damn annoying and made me feel really uncomfortable
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
Posts: 6,922
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Originally posted by ♚ PRiNCE HiGH ♚
I can't at the way a guy was starring at me when I was in train.
It was damn annoying and made me feel really uncomfortable
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was it in a creepy and malicious way or more of a flirty and flattering way? because it depends, but then again some might not be comfortable with the attention they get for their looks, while other live for it.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/2/2012
Posts: 7,414
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I have a crush on the most loud, obnoxious guy in my school and I have no clue why. Like he doesn't even like me
Also, I feel you guys that were talking about fall out with friends. My best friend was like my brother and I transferred schools and it's like we never knew each other. Like it feels like I lost an arm. ![Doc](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/doc_zpsc886535c.gif)
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Speaking of broken friendships, I an no longer in speaking terms with my ex best friend. We knew each other for about 9 years and we were in the same classes throughout our primary and secondary education
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Member Since: 2/23/2012
Posts: 7,699
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Originally posted by ks_dollar
I fall in love with guys way too easily.
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I do this. Even knowing it wouldn't work and I often don't even know them well at all. It's so wierd.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 42,704
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Quote:
Originally posted by Sakamoto
was it in a creepy and malicious way or more of a flirty and flattering way? because it depends, but then again some might not be comfortable with the attention they get for their looks, while other live for it.
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I caught him starring at me whenever I looked at him (I looked at him because I felt like he was starring at me) and everytime that happened, he'd be pretending to look elsewhere.
Judging by the way he dressed up, he did not look like a creep. He was well dressed up.
But idk really
I'm fine with girls looking at me lie that but otherwise.... ![Doc](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/doc_zpsc886535c.gif)
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Member Since: 5/21/2012
Posts: 13,571
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I want friends, I want proper friends. I hate my friends, I have virtually nothing in common. Also, I'm tired of dating girls, I wanna date a guy but like apparently cant because all the gays here (and by here I mean a country 5 hours away from me) apparently know each other and anyone I even slightly consider dating ends up being a .... gold digger who essentially wants my leverages (invites to the best places and concerts etc) and money and word about what I do and make gets around easily...
I just released my debut collection and for the past week I've been on the cover of every newspaper and magazine and I have literally no one congratulating me and no one for me to share this awesome memory with so Instead ive been doing nothing but eating and watching Sabrina The Teenage Witch for the past week .
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2 things, I know this is a first world problem but I never had a friend who I can depend on or whatever so that's an ugh thing.
2) I'm really not making anything up.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 3,228
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Originally posted by Ares
Also, I feel you guys that were talking about fall out with friends. My best friend was like my brother and I transferred schools and it's like we never knew each other. Like it feels like I lost an arm. ![Doc](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/doc_zpsc886535c.gif)
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I know that feeling. I had a huge fight with one of my best friend and we didn't talk for over a year afterward. Like, it was horrible I never felt myself so miserable like after that fight, we said really mean things. It really sucked. We're ok now, but I know it's never gonna be like it was before. There's always a bit tension between us, like one of us says something and we're just waiting when the other one's gonna snap. And we don't even talk that much like before.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 42,704
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Originally posted by PromKing
I want friends, I want proper friends. I hate my friends, I have virtually nothing in common. Also, I'm tired of dating girls, I wanna date a guy but like apparently cant because all the gays here (and by here I mean a country 5 hours away from me) apparently know each other and anyone I even slightly consider dating ends up being a .... gold digger who essentially wants my leverages (invites to the best places and concerts etc) and money and word about what I do and make gets around easily...
I just released my debut collection and for the past week I've been on the cover of every newspaper and magazine and I have literally no one congratulating me and no one for me to share this awesome memory with so Instead ive been doing nothing but eating and watching Sabrina The Teenage Witch for the past week .
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2 things, I know this is a first world problem but I never had a friend who I can depend on or whatever so that's an ugh thing.
2) I'm really not making anything up.
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Your debut COLLECTION?! Wow that's amazing!
Congrats and good luck sis!
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Member Since: 5/21/2012
Posts: 13,571
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Originally posted by ♚ PRiNCE HiGH ♚
Your debut COLLECTION?! Wow that's amazing!
Congrats and good luck sis!
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thank you ![heart2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/a3fdf692.gif)
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