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Poll: Is it rude to ask a guy if he's gay??
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Poll: Is it rude to ask a guy if he's gay??
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: *same question as the title*
Yes
159
73.27%
No
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26.73%
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RatedG²
Member Since: 8/3/2010
Posts: 71,871
Post #21
No lol. I do that all the time and they are free to not answer
XIAN
Member Since: 9/4/2012
Posts: 12,421
Post #22
yes cuz it's very inconsiderate
Midnight
Member Since: 1/3/2010
Posts: 21,098
Post #23
It most definitely is.
TOASTY
Member Since: 11/2/2010
Posts: 7,797
Post #24
U have to read the persons vibe...it will vary from person to person. If you feel like they won't receive your question well, I wouldn't recommend it.
Asking if somebody is gay in a private setting isn't inconsiderate/rude, but CLAIMING somebody is or putting them on the spot publicly is
feuxtography
Member Since: 3/17/2012
Posts: 10,399
Post #25
Yes, it's rude. Doesn't matter who it's coming from.
Genocide
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Post #26
A complete stranger, yes. Get familiar with the person first before asking them.
ManDown
Member Since: 11/11/2010
Posts: 28,420
Post #27
No. It's basically the same as asking somebody how old they are. Some people take offense, most won't.
It depends on how you ask, though.
RatedG²
Member Since: 8/3/2010
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Post #28
Quote:
Originally posted by
Genocide
A complete stranger, yes. Get familiar with the person first before asking them.
Nobody got time foh dat
Marq
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Member Since: 9/22/2011
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Post #29
From a stranger, I suppose.
But otherwise I wouldn't be offended, like if it was from an acquaintance who was just curious.
BlooRiverAnimal
Member Since: 8/4/2012
Posts: 37,267
Post #30
Yes, it is. It annoys when people do that. Then have the nerve to do it in front of other people. That's so inconsiderate.
feuxtography
Member Since: 3/17/2012
Posts: 10,399
Post #31
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Originally posted by
ManDown
No. It's basically the same as asking somebody how old they are. Some people take offense, most won't.
It depends on how you ask, though.
No it's not.
Your age doesn't have an extremely taboo stigma still attached to it.
ImmaSlave4u
Member Since: 1/8/2012
Posts: 13,571
Post #32
Absolutely
It's not your business
Genocide
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Post #33
Quote:
Originally posted by
RatedG²
Nobody got time foh dat
Unless you're hooking up with someone, what's the purpose of asking? Facebook tells all nowadays
Aqim
Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 4,235
Post #34
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DevonRoars
depends if he punches you or not
Sis what!?
RomanNavy
Member Since: 8/1/2012
Posts: 25,037
Post #35
Yes very rude
Mhs90
Member Since: 8/28/2012
Posts: 10,506
Post #36
Would you ask someone if they're straight?
Nippy'sReceipts
Member Since: 4/9/2012
Posts: 16,749
Post #37
No, how is that rude? If u wanna know, u wanna know
Rigalo
Member Since: 5/3/2010
Posts: 26,013
Post #38
Yes, especially in a big group of people it's kind of embarrassing. Since there is still a bad stigma on gay people you know.
RatedG²
Member Since: 8/3/2010
Posts: 71,871
Post #39
Quote:
Originally posted by
Genocide
Unless you're hooking up with someone, what's the purpose of asking? Facebook tells all nowadays
Sometimes I'm just curious and I wanna know
. Other times I'm tryna bag
RatedG²
Member Since: 8/3/2010
Posts: 71,871
Post #40
Quote:
Originally posted by
Mhs90
Would you ask someone if they're straight?
lol that's just as "rude" tbh
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