I've always been a bit feminine, but most people don't know i'm gay until i tell them. i mean.. what straight guys do you know worship pop stars, hate sports, loves reality TV, has madonna & kylie minogue posters, and gets pedicures.. what more hints do people need?
My friends still ask me if I'm definitely gay and girls are still a little cautious with me and don't get intimate at all despite knowing about it. I'm just from a place where all guys are expected to be "macho", so I kinda carried it with me to UK.
edit: not everyone pretending to be the straight type
At some people in here pretending to act straight.
I'm pretty flamboyant, so it's kind of obvious. That doesn't mean that I can't be comfortable around chill straight guys though, because I can and I have.