Yes, I got out. The kid didn't get in trouble cuz the school staff didn't care about any of it. They practically agreed with him about that I'm bad for "acting gay", so I transferred, only to get bullied again, but not as bad. I transferred again in 5th grade because my mom wanted me to, so I went to a charter school for about half a school year where I got beat up during recess, and I tried to get a teacher there to help me, but she blatantly ignored me until someone who lived across the street from the damn playground the students were at came over and made them do something. The people got suspended, and I transferred again back to the school I went to from the most of 3rd grade through fifth. From there, I went to the middle school I'm at now, and I'm still doing fine, despite the bullies.
Mkay. I'ma leave you alone, as I said. I'm not going to become, further, one of those bullies who bullies cuz they've been bullied.
I'm glad things are getting better for you. I know we don't want to go through this **** because it'll make us "stronger" or some Friday night movie line ********, but you're strong, and if you could fight through that, girl you can do anything!
All the time This group of cholas from 5th-7th grade used to try to spit on me whenever I would walk by b/c they thought I was gay (and I was ). They hit a couple of times...
I get teased all the time about my weight (not so much nowadays, I used to be a ****ing blimp..), but that doesn't really get to me. Actually.. It never got to me. I am too egotistical to care..
I guess before I check out i'll ask for some quick advice.
There are these three kids that ALWAYS bully one of my friends. We aren't that close anymore so it's not like we talk about it BUT we used to be BEST friends, so I have a certain feeling towards him. I want him to be happy and blah blah. But what do you think I can say to these other three guys to make them stop? Make them feel bad about what they're doing?
And please don't anyone reply with 'tell admin". I can't. The admin really has it out for my friend. He's kinda weird and quirky and teachers in Highschool LOVE picking on kids like that. Oh, and might I add this is in Physical Education. This isn't his strong point. And the PE department especially HATES him.
But anyways, these kids are HUGE douches. They make fun of anyone from disabled kids to social outcasts. I really want to make them stop and so far nothing I have said has made them. Whenever I say something they stop for a bit because I am not one of their targets considering I am somewhat 'cool' but they'll be right back at it when I leave.
Anyways I'm late on time and need to go to Basketball tryouts. PLEASE! someone reply.
I'm 5'2", and I weigh 84.5 pounds atm. My godfather called me an "anorexic idiot" and there are rumors at my school that I'm anorexic.
I made a blog post about it a while ago.
That is so messed up... no one should make anyone especially their child feel that way. You are who you are and it's a great thing for another person to grace this earth.
She's a good mother though, I know her intentions were good but the method was not. She motivated me to workout and join sports though, but some nights I cried because I felt like no one would ever like me if my own mother was saying these things to me.
I feel sorta weird that I was never bullied. Maybe cause I liked girls until I was in HS? When I came out my junior year, it was fine cause I went to a performing arts high school and being gay was a rite of passage.
I just want lots of friends who invite me to their parties
Now, to all of you who think I shouldn't be here because of my age, the door's over there.
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I'm glad things are getting better for you. I know we don't want to go through this **** because it'll make us "stronger" or some Friday night movie line ********, but you're strong, and if you could fight through that, girl you can do anything!
I notice when we're being LGBT bullied, it is usually the worst when we're ashamed ourselves and "weak" trying to remain closeted and such. However, at my school the guys openly gay never get bullied because they are proud and will irl drag a bitch whoever tries to come at them with ********.
ATRL is training ground to use that shadyness on homophobes, transphobes, etc so they cannot get the best of you.
She's a good mother though, I know her intentions were good but the method was not. She motivated me to workout and join sports though, but some nights I cried because I felt like no one would ever like me if my own mother was saying these things to me.
That's so sad. Agree your mom shouldn't have done that to you.
But... Did you lose weight?!
I've been bullied a lot, about my bisexuality to my sense of fashion.
Even before I came out this school year, people always assumed I was gay and bullied me for that.
I got shoved into a tree. One kid slammed my head into a wall. One kid hated me so much for "acting gay" that he nearly pushed me out of a ****ing 4th story window. I got shoved down a set of stairs today in school because of my bisexuality.
First experience with physical bullying was about.... 3rd grade? That was the window thing. It was all verbal from some groups of kids until then. I've actually transferred schools a few times because of it all.
Oh gosh, that's horrible. I really hope U dont hurt urself bcuz of wat others may say or do to U... It really does get better.
Only time i've dealt with a bully was in elementary and the kid was picking on my friend day in and day out when we had split in different classes for music and art. So one day i caught him doing it in front of my face at lunch and got on that ass.
Well you know what they say .. hurt people, hurt people.
All of the big, bad & tough bullies in school are the ones being tortured & bullied at home .. not that I feel bad for them, but when I see instances of bullying, I automatically think of what that person must have went through in life to make them the way they are.
Yes I have been bullied, but I have too much of a back bone to be bullied now.
I had to learn the hard way.
ATRL is full of countless cyber bullies, so this should be interesting.
Which is why I KI when people wanna go into anti-bully mode, especially when they stay caught up in arguments. You will never catch me on some righteous ****.
I've never been bullied, but then again bullying can be a number of different things. What I may/may not consider bullying someone else might/might not, etc etc.
I guess before I check out i'll ask for some quick advice.
There are these three kids that ALWAYS bully one of my friends. We aren't that close anymore so it's not like we talk about it BUT we used to be BEST friends, so I have a certain feeling towards him. I want him to be happy and blah blah. But what do you think I can say to these other three guys to make them stop? Make them feel bad about what they're doing?
And please don't anyone reply with 'tell admin". I can't. The admin really has it out for my friend. He's kinda weird and quirky and teachers in Highschool LOVE picking on kids like that. Oh, and might I add this is in Physical Education. This isn't his strong point. And the PE department especially HATES him.
But anyways, these kids are HUGE douches. They make fun of anyone from disabled kids to social outcasts. I really want to make them stop and so far nothing I have said has made them. Whenever I say something they stop for a bit because I am not one of their targets considering I am somewhat 'cool' but they'll be right back at it when I leave.
Anyways I'm late on time and need to go to Basketball tryouts. PLEASE! someone reply.
What a sticky situation.
My best advice to you is to attempt to get these bullies to stop a few more times, but if your efforts are really proving to be near fruitless, you might want to supply your ex-best friend with some advice. It wouldn't be a bad idea to talk to him, straightforwardly, about how he feels. Don't make it awkward or immediate, though; just start to talk to him about something else and then move into that subject. You could even try to talk to him more often and basically try and be good-ish friends with him again before you approach the subject.
Only time i've dealt with a bully was in elementary and the kid was picking on my friend day in and day out when we had split in different classes for music and art. So one day i caught him doing it in front of my face at lunch and got on that ass.