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Discussion: Most hurtful thing anybody's ever said to you in real life?
Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by satellites™
Im 20 now, I was 16 at the time.
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I've always thought you were that age, but when you mentioned your mother I thought for a second that you were, like, 13 or something, which I couldn't believe since you're so eloquent in your writing. ![laugh](images/smilies/images/smilies/laugh.gif)
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by Sahn
Bullying at school. For being gay of course. It was horrible.
I went to several schools and the story repeat it each time.
One time we had to vote for Spring's "Queen" and "King"... i had like 10 votes for "Queen" and i almost won.
When you gonna do it? ![Alexz 2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/alexz2_zps7d3bf068.gif)
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I think if I could have won Prom Queen they actually would have voted for me.
I won King though, receipts on deck of course. ![Alexz 2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/alexz2_zps7d3bf068.gif)
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Member Since: 6/28/2010
Posts: 5,647
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Originally posted by Chris191
My "friends" invited me to a party & then they called me a fat ******, & told me to go home, slit my wrists & kill myself. Honestly the worst thing ever, I even contemplated killing myself. These were my friends that I thought I was friends with for 7 years, which is what hurt me the most, I felt so hated that I cried for the whole day & was up till 5am. There are a couple of others, but this one hurt me the most. ![:(](http://www.atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/frown.gif)
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That hurt me and Im not even you. That seriously is terrible. I am always here for you
But probably what has hurt me the most ever was my EX bestfriend who used to be really cool and such but then randomly started ignoring me called me a ****ing fat ass cocksucker for no reason and thought it was a joke and id say that hurts im not kidding and he would try to play it off like nothing. And then just wow really it hurts people calling me fat in real life gets to me the most in the world. On the internet is doesnt hurt me but in real life it hurts me a ton.
But overall that seriously killed me and it turned into a huge issue and Id rather not go into things but things got worse and led to me doing some bad things when we stopped being friends and more but its in the past and im glad im better now and ive moved on and im happy again with a lot going for me right now
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by AlabasterFierce
when my family had purposely left me out of planning and attending my grandfathers 70th birthday party. I barely like my ragedy ass family anyway but I was still hurt a lil ![shake no](images/smilies/images/smilies/shakeno.gif)
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I love my family but they anger me a lot, too. My parents even had the nerve to ask my brother why he couldn't be more like me a few months ago. ![shake no](images/smilies/images/smilies/shakeno.gif)
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by RyanC
When I was in 7th grade I made to a southern state. I befriended this guy named Nick, we were inseparable. Something happened at a party that Nick was mad at me about and stopped talking to me. I confronted him in class and asked him why he was giving me the cold shoulder. It was some BS over a girl, but he ended up calling me the N word. I had NEVER been called that before and I was really offended and hurt that my supposed best friend would call me that. I don't exactly remember what happened after that, all I know is we were in the principal's office and he was bleeding....
He apologized after for saying that but our friendship was never the same. I grew up in a diverse suburb, never encountered any kind of racism until that point. It made me self-conscious of myself. When you look at me you would have no idea that I'm multi-racial, that aside it didn't matter. It was hurtful.
There have been more things but I'm definitely not up for discussing that now...
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I can relate, I moved around a lot but where I grew up at 87% of the state was white so I never really dealt with racism until I got to school and saw that there were differences. That is one of the reasons I am so easily offended by racist remarks. ![:o](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRLSmilies/redface_zpsfd99364e.gif)
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Member Since: 6/10/2010
Posts: 18,057
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"Man up" "Boys don't' do that" "Stop being so finicky" "Toughen up" "You act like a girl" Me:" I love that" Someone else: "I love that" (in the most dramatic and exaggerated way possible) I used to hate that.
Thank God, It's became numb to me now. ![:o](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRLSmilies/redface_zpsfd99364e.gif)
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Member Since: 5/4/2011
Posts: 20,807
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Well, when I was in grade 6, I was a bit more outgoing than the other boys in the year level. And then some douche guy asked me if I had a sex change when I was younger. I could not even believe it, haha. But that was probably the most hurtful thing someone has ever asked me.
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Member Since: 10/5/2009
Posts: 137,162
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I haven't really been called much in real life, but on the internet and most likely behind my back I've probably been called the worst things in the world.
The worst that people have said to me is just random things that they'll say to me in the hallway when I walk by them and then they'll just walk faster to get away from me.. and then tons of people always stare at me so it feels like I can just feel the negativity and hatefulness through their looks.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by Chris191
I was in 8th grade, I wasn't exactly the "tough" one, I was friendly with everyone, the one who always helped people with their problems, the one that was there if you needed. & I guess they all thought I was a ****** since I was more of the sensitive one. I was too nice back then, but if it was me now, they would've been screaming for their lives. About 3 people tried to jump me, & this was after I had decided to work out for a whole summer, & I beat the **** out of them. I only talk to 2 people that talked to me after the party & convinced me to not do anything stupid.
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I think we were all the sensitive boy, but the difference with me was I was always tough cause I has no other choice. I am not the type to be bullied, I will beat a bitch down in a flat second before I allow them to harass me in any way. And it's frustrating too, cause my teachers and friends never knew I had a fierce side to me, but when the time came for him to show he came out full force to protect himself.
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Member Since: 10/5/2009
Posts: 137,162
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Quote:
Originally posted by Sahn
Bullying at school. For being gay of course. It was horrible.
I went to several schools and the story repeat it each time.
One time we had to vote for Spring's "Queen" and "King"... i had like 10 votes for "Queen" and i almost won.
When you gonna do it? ![Alexz 2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/alexz2_zps7d3bf068.gif)
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I can't at your life being a Glee episode. ![toofunny2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/faces/toofunny2_zpsb54f2d2d.gif)
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Member Since: 4/17/2011
Posts: 9,162
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Originally posted by satellites™
I think if I could have won Prom Queen they actually would voted for me.
I won King though, receipt son deck of course. ![Alexz 2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/alexz2_zps7d3bf068.gif)
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A boy at my school won Homecoming Queen last year and he was straight too.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
There was this guy that I used to be extremely close to. We told each other EVERYTHING about each other and neither of us had ever been closer to another individual, ever. We almost knew each other better than we know ourselves. But four months ago, he told me that he had given up on me. It wasn't even that much of a bad thing to say, but it hurt like a mother****er until recently.
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I was like this with one of my friends boyfriends who was also already a good friend of mine before they met, but I ended up falling in love with him and she found out. You can guess how that ended. ![eli's_rhythm](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/eli_zps0932edf9.gif)
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Member Since: 5/28/2010
Posts: 29,225
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I went to an away summer camp in 5th grade and I was shy and really quiet. I was small too. I was in a program with 6th and 7th graders. I was so intimidated. Anyways...I remember wanting to make a friend there so bad and it was impossible because I didn't listen to the common music, I had different interests. It was hard. One day I decided to sit with a group at lunch and they kicked me out. They told me I was lame and a loser and that I don't have any friends. Right now had they said that I would be unbothered but I was in 5th grade...I was 11. I was so hurt. I went back to my dorm and just laid there. I called my mom to pick me up..and she said suck it up. That bitch. ![eli's_rhythm](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/eli_zps0932edf9.gif) But I'm happy that happened to me. That moment is what made me become to vocal...and kinda rude (some might say) person I am today. I will defend myself and others.
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
Posts: 8,096
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Originally posted by AlabasterFierce
when my family had purposely left me out of planning and attending my grandfathers 70th birthday party. I barely like my ragedy ass family anyway but I was still hurt a lil ![shake no](images/smilies/images/smilies/shakeno.gif)
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That happened to me too. I hate everyone on my dad side of the family because everyone their is so wealthy and stubborn, especially my grandma. She's literally treated the queen and everyone praises her. I hate my grandma the most because she likes all my cousins except for me. I remember when I was younger, it was Christmas and she gave all my cousins (we were all kids at the time) presents except for me (and my sister) because she "forgot". My parents were all ~oh don't worry about our kids, worry about yourself~ but I always thought she intentionally did it on purpose.
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Member Since: 6/28/2010
Posts: 5,647
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Originally posted by Remeese
I haven't really been called much in real life, but on the internet and most likely behind my back I've probably been called the worst things in the world.
The worst that people have said to me is just random things that they'll say to me in the hallway when I walk by them and then they'll just walk faster to get away from me.. and then tons of people always stare at me so it feels like I can just feel the negativity and hatefulness through their looks.
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Aw why do they do that to you. You are such a good person and I love you lots I am ALWAYS here for you Remeese ![hug](images/smilies/images/smilies/hug.gif)
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by AlabasterFierce
I barely like my ragedy ass family anyway but I was still hurt a lil ![shake no](images/smilies/images/smilies/shakeno.gif)
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Ahhhhh dalfn;dkJNF;jdlgns ![lmao](http://atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/lmao.gif)
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Member Since: 5/22/2010
Posts: 9,633
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I don't get hurt by peoples words, because I know I am ****ing FABULOUS!
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by RyanC
He gave up on you? Why?
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It's a long story, but I can explain it if you're interested. ![laugh](images/smilies/images/smilies/laugh.gif)
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Member Since: 10/9/2008
Posts: 9,835
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Originally posted by Remeese
I can't at your life being a Glee episode. ![toofunny2](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/faces/toofunny2_zpsb54f2d2d.gif)
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I'm not making this up, i swear. I don't even watch Glee.
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Member Since: 8/3/2006
Posts: 33,524
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