Yeah. A lot of the best people I've met in life have been homophobic. On a personal level though, it is a bit crushing to learn they're so obstinate in their view of gay people, since I'm in the closet and I know they'd probably treat me differently if they knew I was gay.
I mean, good is a subjective view not really related to one's own prejudices. It's always weird when people conflate ignorance/awareness with some false moralistic quality.
To me, being good is an irrelevant quality and being ignorant is far worse than being "bad".
Why would any sane person in society choose to be gay?
What are the benefits of being gay?
Well in general gay people are better dressed, have better hygiene, higher IQ and more fulfilling sex lives. They probably want it to be a choice so they can be more like us
But we don't believe it's behind your control. We believe it is a choice.
it really isn't a choice, but let's just play devil's advocate. if so, what's the problem if it doesn't affect you at all? it's like judging people for prefering hotdogs over hamburgers. it's dumb and none of your business.
Why would any sane person in society choose to be gay?
What are the benefits of being gay?
If you were born with a penis -- it was meant to reproduce with a vagina. If you were born with a vagina, you were born to reproduce with a penis. Period. Being gay can be the lifestyle you wish and live by but in the end it is another mental illness.
it really isn't a choice, but let's just play devil's advocate. if so, what's the problem if it doesn't affect you at all? it's like judging people for prefering hotdogs over hamburgers. it's dumb and none of your business.
inb4 bible, quran, etc.
I don't judge you. I just don't agree with your lifestyle.
My mom's face when she hears about gay sex is always like which probably makes her a homophobe lol but at the same time I've heard her defend gay marriage (she thinks people should mind their own business) and she loves some gay celebs like Big Freedia and Rupaul. She's harmless and a sweet lady.
If you were born with a penis -- it was meant to reproduce with a vagina. If you were born with a vagina, you were born to reproduce with a penis. Period. Being gay can be the lifestyle you wish and live by but in the end it is another mental illness.