So, I have a question. What if someone used the N word around friends all the time but you never see it on social media. Will you still be mad? No, because you don't know that they used the word. You're just mad that they post it on social media, when in reality, they can be using this word years on end without anyone's knowledge
When it all comes down to it, this word shouldn't even be used as term of endearment but that isn't going to be changed anytime soon