Why are we so afraid of words? Like, yeah, I get that labeling yourself too much is restricting and, often, unnecessary, but we can't hide from a simple self description. No, if you enjoy sex with someone of the same gender, you're not heterosexual. And there's nothing wrong with that. Don't know if you're "gay" or "bi" or "fluent" or whatever, but you're not straight.
Maybe I'm being too narrow minded about it, idk. But the whole concept of having sex with a guy and saying "nah, I'm not gay, cause I don't actually love him or wanna be with him" sounds so ridiculous to me, idk.
And I never got this mindset either
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sometimes, we have sex with people we don’t necessarily find physically attractive; at times we do it to pass the time, and other times we have it because we crave sex. This is normal human sexuality — gay, straight, male, female; we can get off on all of it any given time.
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