[madonnas]

Most of you guys are such puritans!

[Mimie]

about 300

i'm only halfway so i think i'm still good

[t.A.T.u.]

the responses in here

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[KillingYourCareer]

More than 12 in a lifetime is too much already but who am I to judge

[Departure]

Originally posted by That Britney Face

I've had 25 sexual partners since I lost my virginity at 13. I went four and a half years without any sexual contact, dates, not even kissing. Now I'll only do it if I have feelings towards someone, but I'll never judge someone for their choices.

I'm 29, if that matters.

I'm one year older than you and I never done it yet I always whine on Grindr about being a virgin and all the gays ignore me cause I'm real. I wish I would let go of my Christian beliefs, cause I know many many would love to do things with me. But I don't and won't. After waiting 30 years, I might as well not throw it away.

Although I have messed around, well not intentionally, I still feel like a horrible person for doing those things with over 10 guys. I guess it's not in my blood to 'hook' up with strangers I'll never talk too ever again. I have more respect for myself than that.

This is a picture of me

[OneAndOnly]

Originally posted by Departure

God? I compare many sexual partners to murder. One sin isn't greater than another. A sin is all equal in God's eye. If you wouldn't murder someone, why would you have sex with 500 people? Because it benefits you and gives you pleasure? More hypocritical if anything. Doesn't make it any less or more right. In the end it comes down to morals. Do what is the right thing

[GenieBaby]

32, 25, 150`? you guys, I'm shocked.

Even 10 is too much imo. I'm old fashioned I guess but like 3,4 in a lifetime is enough.

Not judging tho, am just a bit shook.

[OneAndOnly]

Originally posted by mimilamb.

about 300

i'm only halfway so i think i'm still good

Honestly who's that in your avi

[alstrom]

Like wtf are you guys on about?
Nothing is too much or too little. If you're happy and content (and safe!!) with 500 or 2, it's all up to you. No such thing as too many.

[bey0nce]

There isn't really a "too many" as long as you are safe.

Tbh if you have had less than like 15 sexual partners by the age of 20 you are frigid, imo. Not a good look

[OneAndOnly]

Originally posted by Departure

I'm one year older than you and I never done it yet I always whine on Grindr about being a virgin and all the gays ignore me cause I'm real. I wish I would let go of my Christian beliefs, cause I know many many would love to do things with me. But I don't and won't. After waiting 30 years, I might as well not throw it away.

Although I have messed around, well not intentionally, I still feel like a horrible person for doing those things with over 10 guys. I guess it's not in my blood to 'hook' up with strangers I'll never talk too ever again. I have more respect for myself than that.

You can still be a devout Christian and enjoy a gay and sexual lifestyle. Nothing's worse than feeling guilty and ashamed all the time over sex. Not saying you have to hookup with a different guy everyday, but you can have a romantic and sexual partner that means a lot to you and still be a devout Christian.

[iLays]

I'm not one to judge but I definitely won't settle down or date anyone who is known for spreading their legs like rumors. I don't want someone who's been around the town

[Outlaws]

999 a month.

[Paparazzaid]

I've had like 20 in almost 10 years and I feel like it's a lot. So I guess it depends on you.

Just remember to use condom every time.

[BadToYou]

I've been wondering this.

I have been noticing that a person with many sexual partners usually are not interested in a relationship or are more likely to cheat. I know that's not the case with everyone tho.

[That Britney Face]

Originally posted by Departure

I'm one year older than you and I never done it yet I always whine on Grindr about being a virgin and all the gays ignore me cause I'm real. I wish I would let go of my Christian beliefs, cause I know many many would love to do things with me. But I don't and won't. After waiting 30 years, I might as well not throw it away.

Although I have messed around, well not intentionally, I still feel like a horrible person for doing those things with over 10 guys. I guess it's not in my blood to 'hook' up with strangers I'll never talk too ever again. I have more respect for myself than that.

This is a picture of me

You're not alone in feeling this way, and it's a good look, despite what most people here will say, to have your beliefs intact.

I do think, at this point, you're doing what you feel is right and literally no one needs to say anything to you about it. A lot of guys on Grindr only want a quick release, which is sort of cliche for the gay population.

You're very cute, have nothing to be concerned with, and you WILL find someone who will make you happy!!

[Can't_M!ss_This]

However many you want. I've been with a lot of guys. More than listed so far. Just do as you please and be safe.

It's probably just a phase. Most people go on a spree at some point but they settle down. Orhers just aren't ever active and they preach to people about sins for holding hands. It just varies

[MonsterPaw]

Well everyone is different. I wouldn't settle down with someone who had more than 10 partners but it depends on the age.

[Nemo]

Um..none? There's literally no such thing. Personally though I only hope to have one or just a few.