[Cardinal_Luis]

I'll go first I guess. This may sound a bit dramatic.

My anger has reached an all time peak this Winter because I recently found out I was being cheated on by a boy I loved and dated for almost a year. He seemed so innocent at first and though I saw signs, I ignored them because I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. Idk whether I am angry at myself or him or both but I take boxing classes & even that isn't enough. I've started punching walls and almost got kicked out of my boxing class for being overly aggressive. Not only was I cheated on but he lived a double life; nobody knew I existed sans his close family but he acted single online and offline. Whether I'm being dramatic or not, I've stopped crying but I think it manifested itself into hatred and it's eating me alive. There's so much I wanna say but what's the point ya know? We do not speak because I cut off all ties. Should I reach out and express myself? Talking to him makes me incredibly sad and even angrier. How can I move past this and stop being so angry? My family is worried since I live independently.

Edit: I have deleted all social medias except Facebook to "cleanse" myself so to speak and yes I do go out and mingle with friends and strangers.

[Lee!!]

Originally posted by Miles Caulfield

I'll talk to the mods about it.

We can't. Only option would be in blogs after they re open.

Also, your avatar ;_; Raggedy Man, Goodnight

[NewRihannaStan]

Originally posted by Lethal

Gworl

it's true

[ForeverNow90]

Originally posted by NewRihannaStan

The gorls don't think ima chart high this week it's sad they hate me ....

Rules:
+ No trolling. It will be reported and will not go unnoticed. If you're a repeat troller(meaning you're at your third time trolling) you will be banned from the thread.

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[Desert Rain]

This is such a good idea for a thread.
As someone said, it'll be nice to take a break from dragging and scalping

[Retro]

Hey there guys! Assuming this thread does fly with the other mods, until we can get the restrictions for members-only, I will probably harshly warn or ban anyone who takes information from this thread and spreads it around the site because it will constitute Fighting. Cheers!

[ForeverNow90]

Originally posted by Retro

Hey there guys! Assuming this thread does fly with the other mods, until we can get the restrictions for members-only, I will probably harshly warn or ban anyone who takes information from this thread and spreads it around the site because it will constitute Fighting. Cheers!

ATRL cares indeed

[BadMonster]

I will gladly assist in this thread... Also, people can PM me if they want, I will never talk to other members about it and I'll never make fun of it or use it against you, even if I might dislike you as a member. I talk to a lot of people with problems on a regular basis and I always try to help them out anyway I can... If it's beyond my limits I will honestly tell you so, but like stated in the OP, I'm not here for trolling

[NewRihannaStan]

Originally posted by Cardinal_Luis

I'll go first I guess. This may sound a bit dramatic.

My anger has reached an all time peak this Winter because I recently found out I was being cheated on by a boy I loved and dated for almost a year. He seemed so innocent at first and though I saw signs, I ignored them because I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. Idk whether I am angry at myself or him or both but I take boxing classes & even that isn't enough. I've started punching walls and almost got kicked out of my boxing class for being overly aggressive. Not only was I cheated on but he lived a double life; nobody knew I existed sans his close family but he acted single online and offline. Whether I'm being dramatic or not, I've stopped crying but I think it manifested itself into hatred and it's eating me alive. There's so much I wanna say but what's the point ya know? We do not speak because I cut off all ties. Should I reach out and express myself? Talking to him makes me incredibly sad and even angrier. How can I move past this and stop being so angry? My family is worried since I live independently.

Edit: I have deleted all social medias except Facebook to "cleanse" myself so to speak and yes I do go out and mingle with friends and strangers.

Gorl boys come and go .! If you are still young don't hang yourself up on him . Go out with friends have fun flirt a little just have fun do something that makes you feel good...!! Get to know you

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by Cardinal_Luis

I'll go first I guess. This may sound a bit dramatic.

My anger has reached an all time peak this Winter because I recently found out I was being cheated on by a boy I loved and dated for almost a year. He seemed so innocent at first and though I saw signs, I ignored them because I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. Idk whether I am angry at myself or him or both but I take boxing classes & even that isn't enough. I've started punching walls and almost got kicked out of my boxing class for being overly aggressive. Not only was I cheated on but he lived a double life; nobody knew I existed sans his close family but he acted single online and offline. Whether I'm being dramatic or not, I've stopped crying but I think it manifested itself into hatred and it's eating me alive. There's so much I wanna say but what's the point ya know? We do not speak because I cut off all ties. Should I reach out and express myself? Talking to him makes me incredibly sad and even angrier. How can I move past this and stop being so angry? My family is worried since I live independently.

Edit: I have deleted all social medias except Facebook to "cleanse" myself so to speak and yes I do go out and mingle with friends and strangers.

I understand your anger but you have to channel them into more positive outlets. It ****ing hurts to know you didn't matter to someone you gave your time to for a year.
Try knitting or doing crossword puzzles something more productive and laid back than boxing.
If you need to vent do it verbally we're here to help.

Me I just hold things inside which is the opposite extreme of your situation I do and say nothing and just move on.

[NewRihannaStan]

I could be a caregiver !!!!

[RihannaLoverrr]

Wonderful idea

[ForeverNow90]

Originally posted by Cardinal_Luis

I'll go first I guess. This may sound a bit dramatic.

My anger has reached an all time peak this Winter because I recently found out I was being cheated on by a boy I loved and dated for almost a year. He seemed so innocent at first and though I saw signs, I ignored them because I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. Idk whether I am angry at myself or him or both but I take boxing classes & even that isn't enough. I've started punching walls and almost got kicked out of my boxing class for being overly aggressive. Not only was I cheated on but he lived a double life; nobody knew I existed sans his close family but he acted single online and offline. Whether I'm being dramatic or not, I've stopped crying but I think it manifested itself into hatred and it's eating me alive. There's so much I wanna say but what's the point ya know? We do not speak because I cut off all ties. Should I reach out and express myself? Talking to him makes me incredibly sad and even angrier. How can I move past this and stop being so angry? My family is worried since I live independently.

Edit: I have deleted all social medias except Facebook to "cleanse" myself so to speak and yes I do go out and mingle with friends and strangers.

It's probably better to speak to someone you trust about it (a close friend or family member). It helps to talk about things like these, trust me, I've been in a similar situation and talking to my dad helped because I got so depressed to a point where I got addicted to drugs. If you don't want to talk to someone you know its probably best to speak to a therapist.

As far as speaking to him is concerned, don't give any satisfaction. Try to move on no matter how hard it is, because you'll only hurt yourself by talking to him. We're pulling for you

[ForeverNow90]

Originally posted by NewRihannaStan

I could be a caregiver !!!!

Please, no

[I Am Music]

My issue is I don't speak on my problems like at all no one not even my closest friends or family know about what I think or feel. You will know what I am thinking only if I tell you and even then it will be what I want to tell you.

I am open but not too open you will only get the surface of who I am while I keep the deeper stuff to myself.
I have times where I get depressed some days due to my lack of an outlet but in my mind no one wants to hear your troubles so why talk about them?.

I get asked all the the time how I am doing I could be a total wreck but you wouldn't know I'll just say "I'm ok" and go about my day.

[BadMonster]

Originally posted by I Am Music

My issue is I don't speak on my problems like at all no one not even my closest friends or family know about what I think or feel. You will know what I am thinking only if I tell you and even then it will be what I want to tell you.

I am open but not too open you will only get the surface of who I am while I keep the deeper stuff to myself.
I have times where I get depressed some days due to my lack of an outlet but in my mind no one wants to hear your troubles so why talk about them?.

I get asked all the the time how I am doing I could be a total wreck but you wouldn't know I'll just say "I'm ok" and go about my day.

What could/might work for you is to write everything down, it could help you create an order and you will be able to write back your exact thoughts and feelings later, when you deal with something similar or if you forget how you were feeling exactly.. That way you can get it out of your system for the moment without anyone knowing about it. You could still discuss parts of it with people you trust

[RihannaLoverrr]

Originally posted by I Am Music

My issue is I don't speak on my problems like at all no one not even my closest friends or family know about what I think or feel. You will know what I am thinking only if I tell you and even then it will be what I want to tell you.

I am open but not too open you will only get the surface of who I am while I keep the deeper stuff to myself.
I have times where I get depressed some days due to my lack of an outlet but in my mind no one wants to hear your troubles so why talk about them?.

I get asked all the the time how I am doing I could be a total wreck but you wouldn't know I'll just say "I'm ok" and go about my day.

Oh my god, I'm the exact same! I would hate to tell people who I'm close to what I'm really feeling but there's times where I feel like I need to before I explode but I end up just bottling it away & ignoring it. What I've found to work is my tumblr where I can really express who I am.

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by BadMonster

What could/might work for you is to write everything down, it could help you create an order and you will be able to write back your exact thoughts and feelings later, when you deal with something similar or if you forget how you were feeling exactly.. That way you can get it out of your system for the moment without anyone knowing about it. You could still discuss parts of it with people you trust

I don't have trouble expressing my issues I can tell you exactly what is going through my head but I prevent myself from seeming weak or a burden.

I have tried to tell people I trusted but they're nowhere to be found no one really sticks around.
I don't have much of a relationship with some of my family members and my mother is in kidney failure she has her own problems.

[NewRihannaStan]

Originally posted by ForeverNow90

Please, no

Aside from my shady antics . I'm a nice person who's ear and shoulder is always available

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by RihannaLoverrr

Oh my god, I'm the exact same! I would hate to tell people who I'm close to what I'm really feeling but there's times where I feel like I need to before I explode but I end up just bottling it away & ignoring it. What I've found to work is my tumblr where I can really express who I am.

I am glad you found an outlet.