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Originally posted by MiMiLAMb!
Absolutely. I'm A Bisexual Male & I Love The Experience , Sooner Or Later Though I Know I'm Going To Have To Choose One Or The Other & That's The Toughest Thing To Do Imo About Being Bi.
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Well I think the beauty of it is that, as a bisexual (or pansexual) person, you aren't bound by gender. You won't have to "choose" a gender to settle down with... you'll probably fall in love with someone regardless of their gender and that will be that.
When you go in with the mindset that it's a choice, it's easy to end up guilt tripping yourself into living a "straight" life and ignoring any non-hetero feelings you may have. It's an unhealthy way to live.
This is all coming from a gay guy with zero bi-curiosity and only a handful of bi/pan friends, so take it with a grain of salt.