sometimes i feel people do a bit much on this.
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You will not get HIV from your partner if your partner is undetectable and you are on PreP or you use condoms.
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this isn't 100% certainty.
i don't think there's anything wrong with not being comfortable sleeping with someone who is HIV positive, detectable or not. you're putting all of your trust in that person's hand. like.. hiv
is a big deal. there's medication to help along with it, but there is no universal cure and the temporary fixes cost so much money (not everyone has insurance!) and then there's the side effects of everything. you don't know medication will react with your body and your immune system might not be as strong as others in fighting off things. the medication for hiv/aids is not the magic fix.
you can't simply call someone being cautious about their sexual health ignorant because they don't want to heighten the risk. if you're okay with their status, feel they're responsible with their medications and don't think the risk is significant enough to warrant concern... then by all means do whatever you want, that's your prerogative, but forcing those ideals on others is not cute.