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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 8/8/2012
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Originally posted by ClarksonSlays
How do y'all get to closeted boys?  |
Idk sis but I'm trying to right now with my crush 
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Member Since: 3/2/2014
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Originally posted by ClarksonSlays
How do y'all get to closeted boys? |
I've never been with someone who wasn't out yet so I'm no help 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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I feel like I'm in 8th grade with my crush. I saw him once today and I was with a bunch of friends taking pictures. He walks by and pays attention to one of my friends the whole time and shoots me a wink, then leaves. Then he just texted me to talk? like why not just talk to me in person 
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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My crush is an ass.
Can't really say anything else other than that because he knows my username..
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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I kind of ignored my crush today because we had cute foreign kids visiting our school
We were in the same group again and we spoke together a little bit as a group, but that was it 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
Hi girls
So i saw him last Sunday at a party and under your advice and my friends i decided to just talk to him like nothing happened and it went well for the most part i didn't seek him out to talk to him but i didn't avoid him either
anyway everything was going great till they started talking about how him and 3 of my other friends and his GF went to Seattle and stayed there that weekend and i was like excuse me you bring Alicea and not me?! i thought you were busy everyday???? you've barely known her for six months you ****s how dare you! over someone you guys have known for 5+ years?!?! i was so offended and hurt, totally ruined my night so i skipped out of there as fast as i could (said bye to the people who mattered first) and as i was walking out the door he was like "bye see you on Wednesday!" and i accidentally slammed the door in his face (felt good tbh) although it was kinda awkward cause they ended up leaving right after i did and they drove past me as i was walking home.
a little bit of an aside but i just realized how much things have changed again cause three years ago we were at this same place at a party and he had taken me there and he had to leave early for work and asked if i wanted to go home with him and i said i'd be fine so he left and i stayed till around 11 and took the bus home, i got home and walked in the door and my mom was like "oh there you are, Danny's been calling for you" and i was like what?? totally flustered and shes like yeah he wanted you to call him as soon as you got home. so i called him and he was like "where have you been???" and i was like "sorry i just got home"
and he was like 'why did it take so long did you walk?" "yes..?" and he asked me why didn't you call me you shouldn't be walking alone that late at night and stuff like that like he was legitimately concerned and a little upset and had no idea how to react so i just let out a sheepish sorrry...
he sighed and said "you know you can call me whenever and i'll come and get you, okay?" and i said really?? okay thank you see you tomorrow 
three years later here we are
I'm seeing him tonight again
he still hasn't met up with me that *****
i asked him if he could drive me home tonight and he said sure so hopefully he takes advantage of that time and takes me home last so we can talk or i will be pissed
at the same time i dont have any idea what i want to say to him idk why i even asked
Get it guys
Frozen its impact with the gays
speaking of this reminded of another story gimme a minute to write it up.....
the fact he did that for you congrats  |
I lol'd at the britney gif but anyway I hate when guys do that  It's like wtf I was here before her lol but yeah you should def. take advantage of the car ride. Find out what makes him tick .
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by seanoh
I kind of ignored my crush today because we had cute foreign kids visiting our school
We were in the same group again and we spoke together a little bit as a group, but that was it |
Not you betraying your crush for a lil foreign beef
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Member Since: 6/25/2012
Posts: 41,860
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Originally posted by Buddyc614
holy ****, sis |
im sorry sis i just started writing and once again it just keep coming like word vomit
btw idk if it wasn't clear but i never actually said any of that about "how dare you blah blah balh" i would NEVER
but i don't want to edit it and get that uglee last edited under my post so 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Not you betraying your crush for a lil foreign beef
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They were these British kids and the hottest one sat with our group!!! This girl in the back was wetting her panties over him, and as they were leaving, she was freaking out trying to find out his name. This other British girl laughed at her, and the girl in my school goes "oh my god, i totally forgot that they speak English" and I was like sfjasghsajkghskljhgs mess 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
i've been with 3 closeted guys i guess it's because i look comforting or trustworthy or something  |
Did you go to them or did they come to you?
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Member Since: 6/25/2012
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
I lol'd at the britney gif but anyway I hate when guys do that It's like wtf I was here before her lol but yeah you should def. take advantage of the car ride. Find out what makes him tick . |
right?! i mean you say you're busy then you go off with all our friends without me for the weekend i just wanna
ugh i honestly don't know if i should tell him that im upset and possibly ruin the "momentum" lel i have going
or just pretend nothings wrong and have everything stay the same
what do you mean by "tick"?
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
right?! i mean you say your busy then you go off with all our friends without me for the weekend i just wanna
ugh i honestly don't know if i should tell him that im upset and possibly ruin the "momentum" lel i have going
or just pretend nothings wrong and have everything stay the same
what do you mean by "tick"? |
Like what he likes . idk sometimes talking to guys can be like talking to a wall because they never go in depth about alot of things. But try and find that one things that he loves and talk about it with him.
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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Originally posted by ClarksonSlays
Did you go to them or did they come to you?
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one confessed he was gay & liked me via facebook message (when i still had it). we dated for 2 weeks.
one told me in my twitter DMs in 2013. i dated him for a week, found out he was seeing some tramp & left him.
the other is Cameron.
to answer you're question, they came to me.
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
Hi girls
So i saw him last Sunday at a party and under your advice and my friends i decided to just talk to him like nothing happened and it went well for the most part i didn't seek him out to talk to him but i didn't avoid him either
anyway everything was going great till they started talking about how him and 3 of my other friends and his GF went to Seattle and stayed there that weekend and i was like excuse me you bring Alicea and not me?! i thought you were busy everyday???? you've barely known her for six months you ****s how dare you! over someone you guys have known for 5+ years?!?! i was so offended and hurt, totally ruined my night so i skipped out of there as fast as i could (said bye to the people who mattered first) and as i was walking out the door he was like "bye see you on Wednesday!" and i accidentally slammed the door in his face (felt good tbh) although it was kinda awkward cause they ended up leaving right after i did and they drove past me as i was walking home.
a little bit of an aside but i just realized how much things have changed again cause three years ago we were at this same place at a party and he had taken me there and he had to leave early for work and asked if i wanted to go home with him and i said i'd be fine so he left and i stayed till around 11 and took the bus home, i got home and walked in the door and my mom was like "oh there you are, Danny's been calling for you" and i was like what?? totally flustered and shes like yeah he wanted you to call him as soon as you got home. so i called him and he was like "where have you been???" and i was like "sorry i just got home"
and he was like 'why did it take so long did you walk?" "yes..?" and he asked me why didn't you call me you shouldn't be walking alone that late at night and stuff like that like he was legitimately concerned and a little upset and had no idea how to react so i just let out a sheepish sorrry...
he sighed and said "you know you can call me whenever and i'll come and get you, okay?" and i said really?? okay thank you see you tomorrow
three years later here we are
I'm seeing him tonight again
he still hasn't met up with me that *****
i asked him if he could drive me home tonight and he said sure so hopefully he takes advantage of that time and takes me home last so we can talk or i will be pissed
at the same time i dont have any idea what i want to say to him idk why i even asked
Get it guys
Frozen its impact with the gays
speaking of this reminded of another story gimme a minute to write it up.....
the fact he did that for you congrats |
ok, i'm going to shoot it straight with you. I feel like he's wasting your time. & truthfully, i think you should just stop trying with him & find someone who isn't going to play tug-o-war with your heart & lead you through a maze.
or you could just pretend to be over him & make him jealous.
& thanks sis 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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My Britney sized meltdown that I shouldn't be having here because this involves members but you know what, i'm in an idgaf type of mood right now so yeah. Btw, can't spill specifics or too much tea so this might sound kinda vague.
Okay, I really hate guys. I really do. You try so hard to be there for them and let them know that you're there for them but do they realize it, no. All they want is to be with people who don't give two ***** about them really. Idk, maybe i;m just so nice that I just let people walk all over me, something that I say I'd never let anyone do, only to realize that that's exactly what i've probably been doing. I'm not mean. I don't deserve to be over looked. I don't deserve to be used. I don't deserve to just be someone's friend. I don't want to be just friends anymore, I want more. And I understand, i'm asking for a lot considering the fact that i;m a closet case but still. Just because i'm in the closet, doesn't mean that i should, once again, be overlooked! It's not fair. Life isn't fair, I know but I'm tired of just being used and overlooked. I am almost 20 years old and the sad thing is that, i'm pretty much completely inexperienced. Never been in a real relationship, or a relationship at all. I haven't kissed anyone since my first kiss and you don't want to know how long ago that was. I'm still a virgin which I should be proud of but quite frankly i'm tired of holding on to it. Thinking that I would find someone who truly wants to be with me and lose it to him/her is a complete delusion. It's a fairytale. It's not real life.
I don't like my crushes anymore. They're all overlooking me. No one wants me. I try but I get nowhere. What's the point of telling someone you like them if they aren't even going to say anything or act as if they didn't hear you or like you never said it or just completely disregard it and talk around it. Just be upfront with me. I hate people that don't tell me up front what they want. If you just want my body then tell me. If you want to be with me, tell me. I'm not going to cry about it though. I can't. I'm already struggling more than anyone will ever know about being in the closet on top of people using me, not that that's a complete bad thing because I use them too but I wouldn't do any of it with anyone I couldn't I see myself with possibly.
One of my crushes is M.I.A., and the other is just...idk what the hell is going on with that tbh. I told him but it's like he didn't hear me. I love talking to him and stuff but honestly I just don't know. I'm tired of feeling like i'm being ignored. I'm tired of people not realizing how great they are. I try my best to make my crushes and everyone else feel as if they are worth it because they are. Everyone is worth it. Everyone deserves to be happy and to find that someone but I've come to realize that it's not for me. I don't deserve it tbh. I can't. There's no point in liking anyone anymore. I'm done. Happy reading my classic meltdown, aren't you? nnn....
Daniel I know. Happy for you and I hope everything goes great 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
My Britney sized meltdown that I shouldn't be having here because this involves members but you know what, i'm in an idgaf type of mood right now so yeah. Btw, can't spill specifics or too much tea so this might sound kinda vague.
Okay, I really hate guys. I really do. You try so hard to be there for them and let them know that you're there for them but do they realize it, no. All they want is to be with people who don't give two ***** about them really. Idk, maybe i;m just so nice that I just let people walk all over me, something that I say I'd never let anyone do, only to realize that that's exactly what i've probably been doing. I'm not mean. I don't deserve to be over looked. I don't deserve to be used. I don't deserve to just be someone's friend. I don't want to be just friends anymore, I want more. And I understand, i'm asking for a lot considering the fact that i;m a closet case but still. Just because i'm in the closet, doesn't mean that i should, once again, be overlooked! It's not fair. Life isn't fair, I know but I'm tired of just being used and overlooked. I am almost 20 years old and the sad thing is that, i'm pretty much completely inexperienced. Never been in a real relationship, or a relationship at all. I haven't kissed anyone since my first kiss and you don't want to know how long ago that was. I'm still a virgin which I should be proud of but quite frankly i'm tired of holding on to it. Thinking that I would find someone who truly wants to be with me and lose it to him/her is a complete delusion. It's a fairytale. It's not real life.
I don't like my crushes anymore. They're all overlooking me. No one wants me. I try but I get nowhere. What's the point of telling someone you like them if they aren't even going to say anything or act as if they didn't hear you or like you never said it or just completely disregard it and talk around it. Just be upfront with me. I hate people that don't tell me up front what they want. If you just want my body then tell me. If you want to be with me, tell me. I'm not going to cry about it though. I can't. I'm already struggling more than anyone will ever know about being in the closet on top of people using me, not that that's a complete bad thing because I use them too but I wouldn't do any of it with anyone I couldn't I see myself with possibly.
One of my crushes is M.I.A., and the other is just...idk what the hell is going on with that tbh. I told him but it's like he didn't hear me. I love talking to him and stuff but honestly I just don't know. I'm tired of feeling like i'm being ignored. I'm tired of people not realizing how great they are. I try my best to make my crushes and everyone else feel as if they are worth it because they are. Everyone is worth it. Everyone deserves to be happy and to find that someone but I've come to realize that it's not for me. I don't deserve it tbh. I can't. There's no point in liking anyone anymore. I'm done. Happy reading my classic meltdown, aren't you? nnn....
Daniel I know. Happy for you and I hope everything goes great |
I understand you might be going through a lot right now but I'm going to be up front with you. The sooner you come out of the closet the sooner your dating/sex life will be fulfilled. A lot of gay guys won't even look twice in the direction of a guy who's still in the closet , idk why that is but that's just how they are. The more you put yourself out there the more you'll be open to receive. But you're right , hands down . Guys are stupid , they're liars , they give all of their loyalty to those who least deserve it and it ****ing sucks. I think sometimes like this ... Like what's the point of giving out so much love when no one is giving it back? It gets ****ing hard feeling isolated and not seeing your ideal future ahead of you but you just have to learn to focus on other things. Like school or some sort of hobby or just hanging out with your friends. When you least expect it , it'll happen. + also just make sure your happy with yourself (not saying you aren't) But you can't love anyone else if you don't love yourself first
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Royal Culture
My crush is gorgeous and super nice. She's a year younger than me.
And on her birthday, I left for a mission trip and found out that some douchebag asked her out and she said yes.
So now I told all my friends that I'm over her but I'm deffo not |
I swear, this is like the worst kind of situation init??When some other guy asks out a girl you like. It's really f'd up.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
My Britney sized meltdown that I shouldn't be having here because this involves members but you know what, i'm in an idgaf type of mood right now so yeah. Btw, can't spill specifics or too much tea so this might sound kinda vague.
Okay, I really hate guys. I really do. You try so hard to be there for them and let them know that you're there for them but do they realize it, no. All they want is to be with people who don't give two ***** about them really. Idk, maybe i;m just so nice that I just let people walk all over me, something that I say I'd never let anyone do, only to realize that that's exactly what i've probably been doing. I'm not mean. I don't deserve to be over looked. I don't deserve to be used. I don't deserve to just be someone's friend. I don't want to be just friends anymore, I want more. And I understand, i'm asking for a lot considering the fact that i;m a closet case but still. Just because i'm in the closet, doesn't mean that i should, once again, be overlooked! It's not fair. Life isn't fair, I know but I'm tired of just being used and overlooked. I am almost 20 years old and the sad thing is that, i'm pretty much completely inexperienced. Never been in a real relationship, or a relationship at all. I haven't kissed anyone since my first kiss and you don't want to know how long ago that was. I'm still a virgin which I should be proud of but quite frankly i'm tired of holding on to it. Thinking that I would find someone who truly wants to be with me and lose it to him/her is a complete delusion. It's a fairytale. It's not real life.
I don't like my crushes anymore. They're all overlooking me. No one wants me. I try but I get nowhere. What's the point of telling someone you like them if they aren't even going to say anything or act as if they didn't hear you or like you never said it or just completely disregard it and talk around it. Just be upfront with me. I hate people that don't tell me up front what they want. If you just want my body then tell me. If you want to be with me, tell me. I'm not going to cry about it though. I can't. I'm already struggling more than anyone will ever know about being in the closet on top of people using me, not that that's a complete bad thing because I use them too but I wouldn't do any of it with anyone I couldn't I see myself with possibly.
One of my crushes is M.I.A., and the other is just...idk what the hell is going on with that tbh. I told him but it's like he didn't hear me. I love talking to him and stuff but honestly I just don't know. I'm tired of feeling like i'm being ignored. I'm tired of people not realizing how great they are. I try my best to make my crushes and everyone else feel as if they are worth it because they are. Everyone is worth it. Everyone deserves to be happy and to find that someone but I've come to realize that it's not for me. I don't deserve it tbh. I can't. There's no point in liking anyone anymore. I'm done. Happy reading my classic meltdown, aren't you? nnn....
Daniel I know. Happy for you and I hope everything goes great |
feel better bitch
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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I'm really confused.
Why do I have a sudden urge for the D and not the V.
Mess.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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I saw my crush a couple of days ago at a friend's party since december when we finish high school.
I thought that i forgot all the things that i feel for him but i was wrong, when he hugged me and he said that he missed me i was screaming inside and then he said: did you miss me? tell me the truth, did you miss me? and i only said: yes, yes i miss you and we started talking about what we have done since the last time that we saw . But then yesterday i read his twitter just for curiosity and he just keeps tweeting to his girlfriend that he loves her so much, im just so jealous of her even tho she's a sweet girl and very quiet and she loves him too.
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