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Discussion: Anti-Blackness exposed on Grindr
Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by FreeXone
Psh...they just wantes some D. Thirsty gays will agree with anything if they think it will lead them in bed with something hot.
Trust me all their preferences will go out the window when the ultimate gay death hits them: AGEISM.
They wont care what the chocolate,spice or rice looks like when the people they once glorofied shuns them for being old or ask them to be "generous"around. Karma comes around.
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nnnnn. This reminds. One time this OLD white man had in his profile white and latino only. After a while he toke that out his profile and started messaging me His old spoiled milk looking ass probably realize he wasn't in the position to be the pickest kii
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Originally posted by GreasyBruce
Another propaganda piece presented as a representative study when it's really just a carefully selected sample. Another chance for the regressive left to **** on white men, even if they're gay.
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I'm totes confused, words have meaning. Can you please explain to me what ideology or point in time this article is hoping for people to regress back to?
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Member Since: 1/18/2012
Posts: 348
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Originally posted by Benjamin
Let's be honest here, of those first 100 messages 90 of them probably either saw the "attractive" picture and clicked chat without reading the profile, or read the profile and thought "I'm messaging him for sex, not for a political chat, I'll overlook that." The other 10 are the ones there are screenshots of. This is giving people on Grindr way too much credit.
"Is it OK if I have a ____ sized dick" though.
Though even he was shocked at the message he had received. This seems more of a study of "What people are willing to overlook in order to get laid".
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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So it's okay to overlook somebodies racist ideologies as long as your horny I hope ya'll don't have POC friends
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 4,083
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Originally posted by Ryanicorn
Let me just say this, and get my black ass out this thread, because reading through this thread almost gave me a headache
I'm so sick of you writing stuff like this as "fake sjw!! propaganda". It's absolutely idiotic how so many of you are so quick to run and find absolutely every reason to disprove this rather than accept that this is a reality within the community, and that we don't believe that ALL white gays are racist. A large group of you ARE, and it happens so often and so viciously that you can't help but focus on it. There are PoC who are scared to even talk to a white person because they're afraid of the reaction that they're going to get. Are you THAT blind that you can't see it when it's constantly shoved in your face? So many gay white men are more concerned with the fact that they're generalized, than they are with the racism that the people that they call their "friends" are faced with. You want us to shut up, get over it and move on, but you can't stand up for this or at the very least sympathize with us and what we have to put up with in our dating pool.
When I used Grindr, I did this similar experiment. I use my straight friend's photo and the results were astounding. So many men sent dick pics and thirsted over me and talked about how much they wanted to **** me. Once I got on my own personal account, those same exact men didn't message back, tried to act as if they were above hooking up (despite those same exact ones sending me photos of their assholes and wanted to be ****ed by me, when they thought I was white) and didn't want to hold a conversation with me. One guy even messaged me randomly (never spoke to him) and asked me to block him because he wasn't attracted to black men and didn't want to waste a block on me. I've seen numerous profiles saying that they're "not into dark meat", "blacks" or "ghetto blacks" . I've had white gays tell me that they'll never date me because they don't like that black men have dark balls or too dark of a dick for them.
So many of these experiences made me debate whether I wanted to pursue white men due the fear of being rejected, fetishized and disrespected. So many of you don't know what PoC have to go through and the fact that so many of you would rather ignore that, use made up examples of how PoC do this too, and cry about being generalized is literal garabage. You're no better than these people, because by not standing up against it, you're saying that you're fine with it and by default I'm not fine with you. Don't @ me
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Originally posted by Latch
is this what you think?
you think the overwhelming majority of us sit in our homes going on about chinks and spics?
you ain't even Black
stop making **** up
you always come in threads like this with your ~unpopular opinion~
trying to refute these claims and calling us "leftisTs!!1!"
the only reason people like YEW get bothered by " the SJWs" is because the things being addressed by us make you all feel feel thwarted or exposed in some way
you don't like the idea that your world is being shaken up because people are speaking out about things that offend them and keep different groups of people from getting along
you mad cause you part of the problem
you feel the need to fire back because you feel attacked
because you read this kind of **** and you know we're talking about YOU
and you come into threads like these waving your weak arguments around and feeling a sense of satisfaction every time you click that "Submit Reply" button because you actually think you're making some kind of a point
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It's just sick how some in here think this is made up. I'm a black bisexual men living in Germany and have experienced it all on various dating apps and websites.
No one would ever talk to you, and if they do somehow message you, they'd just ask if it's legit that black men have huge **cks and request a picture. Leaving out the times where I got insulted (with the n-word) for messaging people on grindr.
The ignorance is disgusting.
It also saddens me whenever I see other minorities write something like "I know ppl in Germany/Europe aren't into ___ but I thought I'd still sign up here.. "
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Member Since: 3/1/2014
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white gays being racist lmao like what else is new
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Your next threads should be:
"Water is wet"
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by GreasyBruce
. Another chance for the regressive left to **** on white men, even if they're gay.
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What's the problem?
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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remember how certain ATRLers were mad about that black lgbt pride flag?
anyway, this thread is very telling
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this happened to me a few weeks ago, and I'm pretty light skin (mixed). I can only imagine what my darker sistrens go through. btw the guy was Italian (not surprising)
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However, there are places where they LOVE guys with darker features, Croatians, Hungarians, Czechs... they will quickly kick a white guy to the curb for a black/latino guy, maybe because they barely have any black people in their countries but since I moved to Budapest I met tons **** of guys who obssess over black gays.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Originally posted by Last Boy on Earth
this happened to me a few weeks ago, and I'm pretty light skin (mixed). I can only imagine what my darker sistrens go through. btw the guy was Italian (not surprising)
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So so disgusting.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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If I'm being honest, its more socially acceptable for white men to be with black women and its growing population of interracial relationships trending in that direction where as for black men in the US its harder for them to date outside their race where as in Asia and ironically in certain parts of Europe it is much easier.
I think this culture is due to the nonacceptance of gays in certain circles and no one likes to be the lowest on the totem pole. I know for a fact, I have had sex with some of those "whites" only guys before multiple times but they are publicly shame to date or let it known they sleep with black guys. My advice, don't let it phase you. Tinder is where its at now.
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Member Since: 11/27/2010
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This is how white people talk when black people aren't around. I'm looking at the European white people too.
#preference
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Member Since: 11/27/2010
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Originally posted by Last Boy on Earth
this happened to me a few weeks ago, and I'm pretty light skin (mixed). I can only imagine what my darker sistrens go through. btw the guy was Italian (not surprising)
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However, there are places where they LOVE guys with darker features, Croatians, Hungarians, Czechs... they will quickly kick a white guy to the curb for a black/latino guy, maybe because they barely have any black people in their countries but since I moved to Budapest I met tons **** of guys who obssess over black gays.
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This has happened to me on multiple occasions. I can assure you that being white is not enough for me to be interested.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by qmpierre
If I'm being honest, its more socially acceptable for white men to be with black women and its growing population of interracial relationships trending in that direction where as for black men in the US its harder for them to date outside their race where as in Asia and ironically in certain parts of Europe it is much easier.
I think this culture is due to the nonacceptance of gays in certain circles and no one likes to be the lowest on the totem pole. I know for a fact, I have had sex with some of those "whites" only guys before multiple times but they are publicly shame to date or let it known they sleep with black guys. My advice, don't let it phase you. Tinder is where its at now.
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I think it's the opposite IMO. Not to say that relationships between white men and black women are not acceptable but compared to black men and non-black women relationships, it's uncommon.
Only in the gay community it will be harder for black men to date out.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by Last Boy on Earth
this happened to me a few weeks ago, and I'm pretty light skin (mixed). I can only imagine what my darker sistrens go through. btw the guy was Italian (not surprising)
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However, there are places where they LOVE guys with darker features, Croatians, Hungarians, Czechs... they will quickly kick a white guy to the curb for a black/latino guy, maybe because they barely have any black people in their countries but since I moved to Budapest I met tons **** of guys who obssess over black gays.
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what is this mess! Do white gays think their gods gift to the world and and POC should be lucky to given the time of day this mentality is more common thank you think
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by qmpierre
If I'm being honest, its more socially acceptable for white men to be with black women and its growing population of interracial relationships trending in that direction where as for black men in the US its harder for them to date outside their race where as in Asia and ironically in certain parts of Europe it is much easier.
I think this culture is due to the nonacceptance of gays in certain circles and no one likes to be the lowest on the totem pole. I know for a fact, I have had sex with some of those "whites" only guys before multiple times but they are publicly shame to date or let it known they sleep with black guys. My advice, don't let it phase you. Tinder is where its at now.
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so they have whites only in their profile buy they say they would date a black person/sleepy with one before
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Member Since: 8/28/2012
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Nothing wrong with stating you're not into/attracted/want to sleep with a specific type of person based on PHYSICAL attributes like height, weight, and skin color. For instance, I'm of Indian descent but prefer not to sleep with/go out with Asian persons.
But attributing MENTAL characteristics like behavior or stereotypes to a specific group of people based on skin color is RACIST.
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Member Since: 8/28/2012
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Originally posted by Ryanicorn
Let me just say this, and get my black ass out this thread, because reading through this thread almost gave me a headache
I'm so sick of you writing stuff like this as "fake sjw!! propaganda". It's absolutely idiotic how so many of you are so quick to run and find absolutely every reason to disprove this rather than accept that this is a reality within the community, and that we don't believe that ALL white gays are racist. A large group of you ARE, and it happens so often and so viciously that you can't help but focus on it. There are PoC who are scared to even talk to a white person because they're afraid of the reaction that they're going to get. Are you THAT blind that you can't see it when it's constantly shoved in your face? So many gay white men are more concerned with the fact that they're generalized, than they are with the racism that the people that they call their "friends" are faced with. You want us to shut up, get over it and move on, but you can't stand up for this or at the very least sympathize with us and what we have to put up with in our dating pool.
When I used Grindr, I did this similar experiment. I use my straight friend's photo and the results were astounding. So many men sent dick pics and thirsted over me and talked about how much they wanted to **** me. Once I got on my own personal account, those same exact men didn't message back, tried to act as if they were above hooking up (despite those same exact ones sending me photos of their assholes and wanted to be ****ed by me, when they thought I was white) and didn't want to hold a conversation with me. One guy even messaged me randomly (never spoke to him) and asked me to block him because he wasn't attracted to black men and didn't want to waste a block on me. I've seen numerous profiles saying that they're "not into dark meat", "blacks" or "ghetto blacks" . I've had white gays tell me that they'll never date me because they don't like that black men have dark balls or too dark of a dick for them.
So many of these experiences made me debate whether I wanted to pursue white men due the fear of being rejected, fetishized and disrespected. So many of you don't know what PoC have to go through and the fact that so many of you would rather ignore that, use made up examples of how PoC do this too, and cry about being generalized is literal garabage. You're no better than these people, because by not standing up against it, you're saying that you're fine with it and by default I'm not fine with you. Don't @ me
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How about you make two accounts--one fit, chiseled Asian guy and one obese, flabby Asian chub. You will get the same difference in response.
Not everyone should be obligated to find a black penis or a white smooth ass exciting. People have different preferences
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