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Discussion: How To Know If A Guy is Gay?
Member Since: 2/10/2012
Posts: 2,319
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Originally posted by Katy Perry
He's so good looking I just. I panicked and I declined. That was months ago though. I'm going to ask him this time maybe we can go alone.
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sis your stories are fascinating but INFURIATING.
Go the **** over to him, ask him if he wants to grab a drink sometime, and see where it goes.
Seriously if he asked you if you wanted to eat his tuna or whatever then i'm pretty sure nothing you say will be more embarrassing.
Get the goddamn HELL on it asap
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Member Since: 6/25/2012
Posts: 41,860
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Update kinda,
So I didn't get a chance to hangout 1 on 1 yet but the other day we were hanging out in a group and it was me him my cousins gf and my cousin
And she and I both had our feet up facing each other sitting on our hips so to be comfortable i had to lean into him a bit which he didn't seem to mind and soon enough we were basically cuddling. He was stretching out and playing with his shirt lifting it up *mmmhmh* then he said "bro I'm so hot right now" "feel" so I got to feel his abs he asked me to do it again later but I thought it would be awkward so I didn't ( ) still, it was nice
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 68,548
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When he asks you how much you spent for the Ariana Grande concert to start a conversation and then says he won't be able to go, yet claiming he's straight but saying you're hot on more occasions. The good sis needs to stop hiding the obvious.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
Posts: 1,865
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
Update kinda,
So I didn't get a chance to hangout 1 on 1 yet but the other day we were hanging out in a group and it was me him my cousins gf and my cousin
And she and I both had our feet up facing each other sitting on our hips so to be comfortable i had to lean into him a bit which he didn't seem to mind and soon enough we were basically cuddling. He was stretching out and playing with his shirt lifting it up *mmmhmh* then he said "bro I'm so hot right now" "feel" so I got to feel his abs he asked me to do it again later but I thought it would be awkward so I didn't ( ) still, it was nice
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Not me getting a boner while reading this..
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 17,938
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omg that guy I like probably broke up with that girl (still not sure if they've ever been a thing tho)... the thing is, tomorrow it's my last week of school ever and after that there will only be exams and I won't see him frequently / at all
but he's so cute and just perfect and idk
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
Posts: 38,919
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Well easy signs are
-Walking fast
-Slightly long fingernails
-Prolonged eye contact
-Wearing clothes that show off his figure (especially lower body)
I would say twisting/switching of the hips but alot of guys do that (gay & straight)
Some signs are harder to pick up on like a guy purposely brushing/rubbing against you if you bump into each other or trying to find some kind of excuse to get close to you (for example if you work or go to school together he might follow you around, but not in a stalkerish way). If you're in the library and get up to go get something he might act like he has to do the same thing or if you're in the cafeteria ad go get a tray he'll do the same. Basically anything to be around you.
There are tons of signs though.
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Member Since: 2/2/2009
Posts: 20,174
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Ya'll are a ****ing mess. Talk to these guys! All these games are a waste of time. Communication is the key. I learned that very early in my life and I never regret It.
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Member Since: 3/6/2014
Posts: 10,805
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Originally posted by Truth Teller
Go through his music
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My friend stans for Beyonce and Gaga but straight.
I'm not %100 sure tho
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Member Since: 3/6/2014
Posts: 10,805
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Originally posted by Joaquin Ignacio
I was the one who posted it , it is true though... if he walks faster than other people, he's gay.
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mess i do
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Member Since: 3/6/2014
Posts: 10,805
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Originally posted by prezli
Ask him: "Are you gay?" That's all.
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that DOESNT WORK, AT ALL.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,585
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Mess at considering wearing skinny jeans gay
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 4,564
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look at his facebook likes. If theres a ton of female pop divas in his like list, he is gay
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 10,989
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Originally posted by 2stupid4you
look at his facebook likes. If theres a ton of female pop divas in his like list, he is gay
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I forgot to go through his profile earlier. I clicked the block button as soon as I see "Interested in Women" on his profile.
But then again, I also do the same thing.
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Member Since: 2/2/2014
Posts: 11,642
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
Update kinda,
So I didn't get a chance to hangout 1 on 1 yet but the other day we were hanging out in a group and it was me him my cousins gf and my cousin
And she and I both had our feet up facing each other sitting on our hips so to be comfortable i had to lean into him a bit which he didn't seem to mind and soon enough we were basically cuddling. He was stretching out and playing with his shirt lifting it up *mmmhmh* then he said "bro I'm so hot right now" "feel" so I got to feel his abs he asked me to do it again later but I thought it would be awkward so I didn't ( ) still, it was nice
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I wish my friends had abs
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Originally posted by Kayhan
My friend stans for Beyonce and Gaga but straight.
I'm not %100 sure tho
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No he isn't
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Originally posted by devotedtokesha
I forgot to go through his profile earlier. I clicked the block button as soon as I see "Interested in Women" on his profile.
But then again, I also do the same thing.
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Same
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 3,023
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Originally posted by Somalian Hooker
sis your stories are fascinating but INFURIATING.
Go the **** over to him, ask him if he wants to grab a drink sometime, and see where it goes.
Seriously if he asked you if you wanted to eat his tuna or whatever then i'm pretty sure nothing you say will be more embarrassing.
Get the goddamn HELL on it asap
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Originally posted by RT Air
^ Sis you need to act quickly or you're gonna regret it during the whole summer or even next year.
Next time you bump into him, you should totally make something up, like your friend cancelled your plans and you're bored af, and ask him if he'd like to join you for a drink / coffee / shopping / to the movies / etc.
If he's willing to go, you've got the green light, and you can put an end to all these questions once and for all, depending on how it goes. If he gets awkward and declines, at least you'll know the tea (that he's either not gay or is a massive closet case), so it shouldn't bother you anymore. You said you won't even see him after this month, so you've got nothing to lose.
Keep us updated!
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OK, so about an hour ago I got all dressed up/shaved and went over to his room. He was playing some online game with his friend and I asked him if he was busy and wanted to get some coffee, he smiled and said "No yeah I'm kinda busy thanks anyway [myname]" MESS. I'm uncertain of what this means, should I follow through with the moves? They say rejection is the greatest aphrodisiac but for some reason I feel empty.
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Member Since: 3/6/2014
Posts: 10,805
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Originally posted by Katy Perry
OK, so about an hour ago I got all dressed up/shaved and went over to his room. He was playing some online game with his friend and I asked him if he was busy and wanted to get some coffee, he smiled and said "No yeah I'm kinda busy thanks anyway [myname]" MESS. I'm uncertain of what this means, should I follow through with the moves? They say rejection is the greatest aphrodisiac but for some reason I feel empty.
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On the worst scenario, maybe he has given up on you But I would say don't let go
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Member Since: 3/6/2014
Posts: 10,805
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Originally posted by Anvarie
No he isn't
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He's been giving me gay vibes A LOT. But I can't go further
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 3,023
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Originally posted by Kayhan
On the worst scenario, maybe he has given up on you But I would say don't let go
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How can I let go of something I never had in the first place. I just... Not sure what to do
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Member Since: 4/4/2014
Posts: 6,717
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Originally posted by Katy Perry
How can I let go of something I never had in the first place. I just... Not sure what to do
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Well you have rejected him so many times, what do you want sis? maybe he felt like he needed to act this way, not being always there for you since you haven't made any move to get him, and you choosed the worst time to ask him to go out, men love to play video games, the guy I like loves to play dota and I have a feeling that he is gay because the times we have been together is always awkward and he has stared at me, but ok keep trying but invite him to go out when he is not busy doing something.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 3,023
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Originally posted by bornbrave
Well you have rejected him so many times, what do you want sis? maybe he felt like he needed to act this way, not being always there for you since you haven't made any move to get him, and you choosed the worst time to ask him to go out, men love to play video games, the guy I like loves to play dota and I have a feeling that he is gay because the times we have been together is always awkward and he has stared at me, but ok keep trying but invite him to go out when he is not busy doing something.
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I'll try on Thursday in class because that's the next time I see him, but if he rejects that I honestly don't know what to do. Mess at both our men playing video games, you need to ACT on your man before you end up in my situation sis. Have either of you made any advances, why do you think he's gay?
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