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Discussion: Most hurtful thing anybody's ever said to you in real life?
Member Since: 8/22/2009
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
Do you consider yourself effeminate? And do you think it's wrong to assume someone is gay just because they're that way? I mean, my brother is kind of like that but he's not gay.
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Now that im older im much more butch rather than queeny. I dress like a man, im about 6 feet tall, Im a big boy, so I look like someones husband lol. But when I was younger, I was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO queenish, I mean I was obsessed with barbie dolls, models, hair, makeup, and the works I mean EVERYTHING. I didnt know it was considered wrong at the time and so I did it, and when I saw it was frowned upon I did it in private. I was drawing couture red carpet gowns before I was 13 years old and wearing curtains and bed sheets as dresses and using the hallway as my runway. I still love those things its just its not as obvious as it once was in my life.
And I must admit its hard for me to find someone to be straight when they like to wear girly things because thats my experience but I dont judge them for it.
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Member Since: 6/3/2011
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Originally posted by Ahmed
-rolls eyes- I hate assumptions
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Sorry babe, I just call it as I see it.
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Member Since: 4/4/2007
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I felt really bad when I was like, 12, and my dad and I were talking, and he ended up saying something like "You're not gay, right?", and he sounded so afraid I was all "right, of course!", which is not as bad as some people's stories but still forced me back into the closet for another six years.
And another time after I had cancer, I went back to school, some kid comes up to me and goes "WOAH! I thought you were dead!" I had actually made a friend in the hospital who had died recently, so in addition to being weird, it set me off...I don't think I replied, and we never ever spoke again.
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Member Since: 8/24/2008
Posts: 35,091
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Originally posted by Skin
Who?
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dfgkif
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/8/2006
Posts: 42,086
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
ATRL should have a discussion thread where we can discuss like this. It'd be so beautiful.
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We have RT
Although it is dead now, we used to share a lot of stories there, in that place I got to know amazing people that are now my ATRL friends
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Member Since: 5/28/2010
Posts: 29,225
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Originally posted by BadBitchRihanna.
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LGBT Talk.
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Sis that thread was great....as a matter a fact let me go find it.
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Originally posted by Ahmed
-rolls eyes- I hate assumptions
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I don't know you. Therefore what I say is irrelevant to you. If you know who you are and you are confident...the others shouldn't matter.
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Member Since: 6/3/2011
Posts: 1,458
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Originally posted by Đeucés
I don't know you. Therefore what I say is irrelevant to you. If you know who you are and you are confident...the others shouldn't matter.
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That was beautiful.
You tell her sis!
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Member Since: 10/9/2008
Posts: 9,835
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Originally posted by Chemist
Yes! That's what I've learned from my past experiences, if you want to get a man you need to be a bitch with him
I used to act all cute and lovely but the guys all were a cund and ended up hurting me, Now I'm a bitch and I can get whatever I want
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That's how it works.
All the guys you don't like/you're not interested in them ended up being so in love with you. They can't get over it.
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Member Since: 5/22/2010
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Originally posted by Skin
Sorry babe, I just call it as I see it.
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And may I ask how you "see it"?
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by Beyond Say
The thing that really gets me is when they are like, "i'm not gay, but you cute as hell." Like really?
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Boys never call me cute unless they get to know me first and then im not as ugly anymore because my personality ***** on most peoples but still....
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Member Since: 8/24/2008
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I'd share my story but I prefer to have all of ATRL frightened of me.
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Member Since: 10/9/2008
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Originally posted by Chemist
Lol no Sats it's a great person, Just don't come after beyonce that's all
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Member Since: 5/22/2010
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Originally posted by Đeucés
Sis that thread was great....as a matter a fact let me go find it.
I don't know you. Therefore what I say is irrelevant to you. If you know who you are and you are confident...the others shouldn't matter.
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Your opinions about me really don't matter. But out of all the people, this community is suppose to be judgement free
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Member Since: 6/3/2011
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Originally posted by iBeyoncé.
I'd share my story but I prefer to have all of ATRL frightened of me.
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*****..
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Member Since: 11/11/2010
Posts: 28,420
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Originally posted by RyanC
When I was going through a REALLY tough time between 2002 - 2003, Christina Aguilera's Stripped album gave me LIFE. It's like that girl crawled into my subconscious and put my mess into perfect music.
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YES! Stripped will always remain one of my all-time favorite albums. It got me through some really rough times. Every song on the album is personal to me. How can an album be so amazing?
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by ManDown
Exactly! I think that is the main thing that this site is lacking. I'm assuming that there used to be more random discussions like this several years ago, when things like stanning and warning points weren't taken very seriously. But, the new wave of members seems to be into discussions like this, which I like. I'm sure we'll have more threads like this in the future.
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The new stans get on some people's nerves but I find a lot of them to be very good people, and less interested in all that crazy stanning and more interested in genuine conversation. There should be a thread where we can have discussions like this. This thread alone proves that we can handle it and not have it be ruined.
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Originally posted by satellites™
Now that im older im much more butch rather than queeny. I dress like a man, im about 6 feet tall, Im a big boy, so I look like someones husband lol. But when I was younger, I was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO queenish, I mean I was obsessed with barbie dolls, models, hair, makeup, and the works I mean EVERYTHING. I didnt know it was considered wrong at the time and so I did it, and when I saw it was frowned upon I did it in private. I was drawing couture red carpet gowns before I was 13 years old and wearing curtains and bed sheets as dresses and using the hallway as my runway. I still love those things its just its not as obvious as it once was in my life.
And I must admit its hard for me to find someone to be straight when they like to wear girly things because thats my experience but I dont judge them for it.
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You did? Why did you choose to change the way you were? And I suppose it can come across as gay...but I think the situation with my brother is that he's the kind that wants to respect women. He's not the kind of guy that wants to bang every girl that walks by, and even if he is, he doesn't make it obvious. I think that's a good characteristic to have.
And I don't think clothing or way of dress has much to do with sexual orientation, as in someone's way of dress doesn't mean they are gay or straight.
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Member Since: 5/22/2010
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Originally posted by RyanC
When I was going through a REALLY tough time between 2002 - 2003, Christina Aguilera's Stripped album gave me LIFE. It's like that girl crawled into my subconscious and put my mess into perfect music.
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One of the best albums ever
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by featheralley
Yeah I remember going to camp and in our cabin we had like 7 guys in there. This was middle school by the way. 5 of the guys were talking about which girls they would bang, and after a few minutes they were like "wow you guys (me and my friend) are really gay because you didn't mention any girls". My friend isn't gay, he just doesn't like to openly talk about sexual activities, but for me I had no defense I just said I was tired.
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Member Since: 5/22/2010
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Only featheralley can bring out everyones good side
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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