Poll: If your kid wanted you to use gender neutral pronouns - Page 16

LionH3art

I would see it as a cry out for help and would focus on why my kid feels such a misfit. Talk things out, let it know it's not alone. I don't believe in gender neutral terms.

keshaspearsxo

That's up to them. I'd have no choice but to respect them in the way that I respect all people ! To be against it isn't even a question

keshaspearsxo

Always the same old trolls in these treads. Nothing better to do?

AxelFox

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Originally posted by Giselle

I don't believe in nonsense like that, so I don't know. My kids will be raised correctly so hopefully this won't even come up.

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ChapelHooker

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Originally posted by Rose Mulet

It's always shame to see gay men be ignorant to the rest of their community. It's called LGBTQ+ for a reason. When I think I ATRL's definition of LGBTQ+ it's basically "Gay, and f*** everyone else, they're not real." This is a website full of Frankie Grande's. You all need to stop being so ignorant twoards your own community. This is the last place this should happen. The hate here is disgusting.

Even if you don't understand it, that's your child. As a parent, it's your job to understand your children, and to do what's best for them and what makes them happy. To the gays here, Imagine if your parents forced you to be straight? It's kinda like that. Some people don't identify themselves with either gender, and the thought of gender either irritates them, or they would simply prefer to be referred to with neutral pronouns because that matches their identity and makes them feel more comfortable. Respect their wishes, because you have no idea what they're going through.

this, most of the replies in here are so upsetting and disgusting. it actually makes me really sad that the community is still so ignorant and stupid, I hope it's gonna get better.

most of y'all would be terrible parents anyway lmao

AxelFox

Also I think it's time more people should realize that sexual orientation and gender identification are two separate things which need to be adressed separately.

I get the whole "we're a community, we're fighting for the same goal aka equality" and stuff, but being attracted by a person of the same sex has nothing to do with wanting to change you're gender and become something else.

cancer

Never.

ChapelHooker

some of y'all still thinking this stuff comes from tumblr, please educate yourself

the lack of logic and respect in this thread is disheartening

Mettaton

Sure. After a frank discussion on why they feel this way and how long, I'd be cool with it. I'd also let them know not to get stressed out if people aren't used to the change at first, and sometimes slip up.

Stylesney

karron0624

ummmmm. My children will use regular pronouns and not live in tumblr society. Sorry.

SayCart1991

Nope! Stop trying so hard to be unique!

Opium

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Originally posted by karron0624

ummmmm. My children will use regular pronouns and not live in tumblr society. Sorry.

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Bey_Rihstan

d idk I think it's stupid tbh but like if it's what they want I guess I'd have to.

EDIT: Ya know what, no, that's dumb. Now if they're trans and wanted to be called by their respective pronoun, then yes. But no, you are not both.

Kim Kardashian

I hope NONE of y'all saying 'No' have kids.
I've already expressed my disgust in this thread but Jesus.

The sad thing is the majority of y'all are gay yet you won't accept other factions of the LGBT community.
What would y'all do if your parents said they didn't believe being gay was a thing and refused to accept you?

Kim Kardashian

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Originally posted by Bey_Rihstan

d idk I think it's stupid tbh but like if it's what they want I guess I'd have to.

EDIT: Ya know what, no, that's dumb. Now if they're trans and wanted to be called by their respective pronoun, then yes. But no, you are not both.

It doesn't make sense to accept a trans child but not a non-binary child.
I know what it feels like for someone to disregard your true identity and say you are something you are not and to have it reinforced constantly. It makes me want to die sometimes, especially when it comes from my parents. I've been really close to suicide on multiple occasions over **** like this. Do you want that for your child?

lovecatt

Opium

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Originally posted by Kim Kardashian

I hope NONE of y'all saying 'No' have kids.
I've already expressed my disgust in this thread but Jesus.

The sad thing is the majority of y'all are gay yet you won't accept other factions of the LGBT community.
What would y'all do if your parents said they didn't believe being gay was a thing and refused to accept you?

I think people won't accept that because most of us have no idea what those pronouns are or what they mean

like I'd be okay if my children would be straight, gay, bi, trans etc. but if they'd tell me about those neutral pronouns I'd most probably feel weird having no idea about what they talk about

MrDeeds

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Originally posted by Kim Kardashian

I hope NONE of y'all saying 'No' have kids.
I've already expressed my disgust in this thread but Jesus.

What? As 99.99999999999% of human kind have had no problem with regular nouns

Are you 14 years old? Serious question.

Mhs90

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Originally posted by Kim Kardashian

It doesn't make sense to accept a trans child but not a non-binary child.
I know what it feels like for someone to disregard your true identity and say you are something you are not and to have it reinforced constantly. It makes me want to die sometimes, especially when it comes from my parents. I've been really close to suicide on multiple occasions over **** like this. Do you want that for your child?

What's interesting is that people who are confused about their gender because they don't fit into the stereotypical gender roles society has made are also the same people that complain (and rightfully so) about the existence of these stereotypical gender roles.

Go back to preschool and learn that He and She are used based on what sex you were born with. Not how you act or how you feel deep inside. If you got a penis, you're a He. If you got a ***, you're a she. If you wanna switch, then by all means go for that surgery, Bro. Otherwise this neutral pronoun crap is a cry for attention and the desperate need to feel special in a world where Instagram and Tumblr are making ya'll vain and vapid af.

If you still wanna feel special, feel free to go to a psychiatrist and get your free diagnosis of Gender Dysphoria, which is still in the DSM V Manual of Psychiatric Illnesses.