Woo huga, I guess times have changed, when out in my country of a high school, gays are still the wierd ones, unless it became cool somehow. Farming communities and their traditional values
And DripDrip it sounds lik with the attention your both giving each other, it's only a matter of time you will agree to hang out outside of those two places without your brother, I hope
As for me, I'm playing around with dating site (classier and not grindr

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However in my blog i mentioned about this "95%" straight guy who I was hanging out with. Recently we spent 2 nights together doing the usual chat, watched brokeback mountain, ran together, and he was in charge of cooking

to say the least, ever since I moved out to the city, we have connected and bonded, really where not many people get to connect with me ever. We both get each other. Most people evauate the situation and say he's gay and we might be slowly falling in love for each other. So far I just take it for granted considering the "95%" and just have fun.
And for those who don't read the enitre blurb, did I find love in a hopeless place?