I was somewhat gay at 14? You have signs but not 100% sure about yourself. I denied my gayness throughout High School and always hung out with girls. But when it was just me and my girl I didn't feel anything. I remember this one girl left me cause I wouldn't do anything or go to the next step with her
I've always looked at guys and gay **** in High School
. Once I left High School and found this site, I slowly accepted who I am. And when I'm around guys I liked, I feel different. Something I don't feel around girls. It makes me want to go to the next "level"
That's how! Tambourine probably isn't 100% sure yet and is confused. Once he is more mature, he can accept it more. I denied up until the past couple of years really.
Drinking doesn't solve anything. It ruins lifes. It may make you feel better now but if you don't get control over it, it will take control of you. 
