[Nido]

@nnnnnn: Ohh, he's half Korean? Maybe you should play this BOP to him. Maybe he'll understand

[-ToxicGuy-]

Originally posted by nnnnnn

R Update!

He's half Korean and Half Finnish. LORD this CHANGES a lot of things. If his dad is the Korean one, then LAWD I can only imagine how repressed he must feel inside. We all know how Koreans are very, very, very close minded with homosexuality, and that gay Korean men end up committing suicide because of this repression.

So we were talking... and then the conversation went something like..

"I play video games all night, and I sleep at 4 A.M"

"What? 4AM, don't you have like a girlfriend, lol"

"*scoffs" pffht.. girlfriend, I don't have time for a girlfriend"

"Well, any girl will be very lucky to have you"

"That's not what my mom said... my mom says I'm rude, and yeah I think I'm rude"

Oh my god. This really confirms that he's gay. But I'm just worried because he seems frustrated about himself, and that's probably why he acts to rude around people. He feels like he can't be happy with who he is because of his Asian family.

You know non-gay guys can be shy, too. Not every straight guy is sleeping around with girls or a big girls man. Not having time is a regular excuse for not having a girlfriend. It's not like only gays use it.

Originally posted by katysus

I want to be active in this thread but it seems what you guys are talking about is all about personal sex life stories. Not saying it's wrong at all though.

You can talk about anything. I never tell personal sex stories just played along for kiis when others were being messy

[ABEL-o-matic]

Thanks ToxicGuy... I know that... but I'm not giving up!

[Nido]

*sighs*...I need a boy

[Ryou Itaru Hou]

Hi everyone. I'm back from a long hiatus.

Didn't know where to start but luckily I found this thread for Asian members.

Guess I should start all over from here.

Oh I'm from Vietnam by the way.

Nice to meet you guys.

[-ToxicGuy-]

Hi! Welcome back! Any specific reason for your hiatus?

[Ryou Itaru Hou]

Originally posted by -ToxicGuy-

Hi! Welcome back! Any specific reason for your hiatus?

Life was hard back then. I decided to stop using all of my social network for a while.

I thought I would solve everything one by one but things were more complicated than I thought.

It took me almost three years so settle down everything.

My life is on the right track now. I decide to come back. But I change now so I will not be aggressive as my past self haha

I need a forum to update information about my faves so I'm here.

[BlazingLovatic]

Hi Asians.

We should talk different cultures, such as that of China.
What do y'all like about Chinese culture?
Let's discuss.

[Ryou Itaru Hou]

I'm Chinese original myself here

So I like everything about Chinese culture.

I love the diversity of the language. I can speak Cantonese and Mandarin.

I can speak some basic greetings in Hokkien language too.

[-ToxicGuy-]

Cool. I have to be studying some Chinese for next week. I've been learning Mandarin at university as an extra curricular.

[Nido]

Originally posted by Ryou Itaru Hou

Hi everyone. I'm back from a long hiatus.

Didn't know where to start but luckily I found this thread for Asian members.

Guess I should start all over from here.

Oh I'm from Vietnam by the way.

Nice to meet you guys.

Hey girl

[Ryou Itaru Hou]

Originally posted by -ToxicGuy-

Cool. I have to be studying some Chinese for next week. I've been learning Mandarin at university as an extra curricular.

Some advices for you while taking Chinese class:
1. Master the pinyin (the pronunciation system of Chinese) first. It will help you alot because the system is more simpler and easy to remember than the English pronunciation system.
2. Learn how to write the Chinese character CAREFULLY. You must be very patient or you will get screwed in the future.
3. Master the grammar. Chinese don't have much grammar structures so as fast as you master this, you win.

Originally posted by Nido

Hey girl

Hey, where are you from?

[Nido]

Originally posted by Ryou Itaru Hou

Hey, where are you from?

I'm from Vietnam too. It's nice to know there are so many of us here

Anyway, since I'm studying Hotel Management and there's been this huge influx of Chinese tourists here, everyone I know keeps telling me to study Chinese & I've seen a lot of people studying it too but honestly I'm not keen of the idea of learning any language that doesn't use the ABC alphabet. Trying to remember & write all the symbolic characters would have take me forever. Four to five-star hotels here require you to at least know 2 foreign languages to get accepted in but so far I'm still stuck with my part-time job & school. There's no way I'm gonna studying any other language until I'm done with 1 of them

[Ryou Itaru Hou]

Originally posted by Nido

I'm from Vietnam too. It's nice to know there are so many of us here

Anyway, since I'm studying Hotel Management and there's been this huge influx of Chinese tourists here, everyone I know keeps telling me to study Chinese & I've seen a lot of people studying it too but honestly I'm not keen of the idea of learning any language that doesn't use the ABC alphabet. Trying to remember & write all the symbolic characters would have take me forever. Four to five-star hotels here require you to at least know 2 foreign languages to get accepted in but so far I'm still stuck with my part-time job & school. There's no way I'm gonna studying any other language until I'm done with 1 of them

Haha sweet. Which specific city are you living? I'm living in Saigon.



If you're really interested in Chinese culture or Japanese culture, you should start learning.

Japanese language borrows the whole Chinese language as the Kanji system. So when you finish (or you could remember 4589 Chinese characters), you can expand to Japanese. It's much easier.

[Nido]

I'm from Saigon too

And well tbh, I'm not that interested in either Chinese & Japanese culture although the place where work gets a lot of customers from both countries I definitely prefer Western countries, like, I actually plan of studying French when I have time or after I graduate. Now I only have English to back myself up

[ABEL-o-matic]

I have to learn Korean now... Gorls help me

[Ryou Itaru Hou]

Originally posted by Nido

I'm from Saigon too

And well tbh, I'm not that interested in either Chinese & Japanese culture although the place where work gets a lot of customers from both countries I definitely prefer Western countries, like, I actually plan of studying French when I have time or after I graduate. Now I only have English to back myself up

Cool. Maybe I do know you

If you're not really interested in Chinese or Japanese then don't waste your time on studying them.

You have to study a lot of stuff

Even myself really love Chinese but it's hard for me to remember everything

[Ryou Itaru Hou]

Originally posted by nnnnnn

I have to learn Korean now... Gorls help me

There was time I intend to study Korean too but I'm too old and a bit busy to learn another language now

But if you really love it, then go for it.

[Nido]

Originally posted by nnnnnn

I have to learn Korean now... Gorls help me

Girl I totally know how you feel but I feel like you're just too invested in this guy without knowing whether he likes you back or not like. Have you ever thought about the different outcomes that might happen?

[ABEL-o-matic]

Originally posted by Nido

Girl I totally know how you feel but I feel like you're just too invested in this guy without knowing whether he likes you back or not like. Have you ever thought about the different outcomes that might happen?

This phase will go away once I'm out of school.. so I'll be fine.. I have a couple of back up guys