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Originally posted by rwoznia
He seems to be using you as a safety net. It seems when you were apart, he realized he didn't have anyone for comfort and support, and immediately out of instinct wanted to get back with you. However, he's not mature enough to recognize that he only wants you around for selfish reasons, and not the right ones. Not only that, but that facebook incident screams a red flag of immaturity. I hate to break it to you, but you NEED to break up with him. Why wait? If you realize that things are bad and you are wanting them to end, what better way than to make it happen yourself. Don't feel bad about breaking up with him, because ultimately, you're doing everyone a favor. You're teaching him to grow up and you're getting out of an unhealthy situation. May hurt initially, but you'll be better in the long run.
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ughh.. I know it is best in the longrun, it just makes me feel horrible. And then he gets all moody and it's very hard to let go of him completely. I just am not that type of person that would build up the courage to break up with him. He said he still wants to keep trying but I just don't want to anymore. I am sick of it I need to end it I just know that last time I did, it just ended up being us getting back together which pisses me off to. I obviously need to grow up as a person to break up with him, I just can't do it. I hate hurting people and I know he is gonna hate it and be depressed. I just don't know what to do
On a different subject, I think it's about time we talk about your obsession with Jennifer Lawrence... Do we need to hold an intervention with all the gifs you keep using of her?
Jk,
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Originally posted by boyonce
Yeah, yourfavefan, what rwonzia said. You have to end it...as hard as that will be, you can't wait around for him. It seems like a bad situation for the both of you.
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I know.. I just need to build myself up to do it. Last time I broke up with him, we just ended up getting back together. I just don't know if I am capable from doing it. I feel like if he breaks up with me, he will be more committed to staying away from each other, rather then if I broke up with him and him talking me into wanting him back