I over heard my guy tell one of his friend jokingly he loves the fact that i am a total ***** when he is around, now chris was the first guy i was with sexually but should i be pissed at him for saying it. I know ***** has the conciliation's of someone who sleeps around but can a person be a ***** and still be in a relationship
yea... even if you are a ***** (or freak as we call it) around him, its not only his buisness he is telling... its yours as well. So yea be offended. Tell him to leave his friends out of yall's bedroom cuz they dont belong there.
I agree with the posters above. Trusting and respectful relationships usually don't have 'casual bragging rights' where one or both go off and talk about the other to score points off friends and be talked about degradingly. It's different when people participate casual 'flings' or relationships where one partner is more sincerely involved.
It's understandable that you might feel hurt, offended and betrayed even, like Da Good Life said - it's a private thing and a matter of confidence.
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