I have been listening to him all today and all last night, I've played his music 78 times, is he talking about a man in Night Swim or is it a woman? I know he's bisexual so could this play into it?

Would he be the first male artist to talk about being a male prostitute in Hustler? I know he was never a hustler but still. He creates some very dark lyrics which I like.
I am so glad that This Life is on the Deluxe edition.