Oh, you know what's great? Nobody ever asked if I was gay this year in High School until there was a conversation about gay people. I kinda wedged myself into it and they asked if I "would ever consider being gay" and I responded with "I already am."And that's how I came out in High School. Nobody has ever said a mean thing to my face the whole time I have been going to High School. I even have more friends then back when I was lying to myself. News stories I have seen make me realize that not everyone is fortunate enough to have that privilege, but it really is great to know I can be myself and not have mean comments in return. I even talked about guys I liked to people.
Come backs are for people who are trying to hide something. Dont try to hide anything. Be yourself but dont give in to their petty remarks either. Honestly, anyone who asks if you are gay are trying to bring you down and are not your friends, so stay away from them. Surround yourself with genuine people.
When you stop thinking about what other people think about you, then it will stop.
I try to do that tho.
Everytime someone would ask me, I would promise myself to never trust them or be cool with them. It was to the point when most people were doing it.
Like they could've been genuinely serious and wanted to know, but it hurted so much because I heard it so much.
I am too and when I'm at parties and people "never have I ever" where you have 5 fingers up and someone goes "never have I ever had sex" and everyone in the room puts one finger down except for you... same when they say kiss etc.
Oh, you know what's great? Nobody ever asked if I was gay this year in High School until there was a conversation about gay people. I kinda wedged myself into it and they asked if I "would ever consider being gay" and I responded with "I already am."And that's how I came out in High School. Nobody has ever said a mean thing to my face the whole time I have been going to High School. I even have more friends then back when I was lying to myself. News stories I have seen make me realize that not everyone is fortunate enough to have that privilege, but it really is great to know I can be myself and not have mean comments in return. I even talked about guys I liked to people.
Ok now I'm convinced, sit down and write a book. based on a true stories.
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
Hell no.
I honestly think I will be out by then. I'm starting not to care about the opinions, and getting real tired of feel locked up.
You can't even be truthful about ho you like
It's your choice I guess but don't let people get it to you.
When I first commented on this thread, I did NOT think it would blow up like this. I honestly thought it would've died at like page 3 or something. Glad I was proven wrong cause topics like these bring ATRL together in a way.
Haven't told any family members that I'm gay, but since my sister has followed me on twitter (She's 27, not like a kid or anything), I'm pretty sure she knows. When I was trying to find a background for my ipad, she said "Why not get a pink triangle? And I almost died.
Also, I was in a relationship with my best guy friend for two years.
The most hurtful times the gay thing is ever used is when people who used to be your friends become your enemies, and in the rivalry they say something like "That's why you gay as hell".
That's use to be a low-blow to me. You're like "Wow, even people who were my friends think it too.".
I'll be your friend again for almost anything, but if you say that we never have a chance of being friends again.
When I first commented on this thread, I did NOT think it would blow up like this. I honestly thought it would've died at like page 3 or something. Glad I was proven wrong cause topics like these bring ATRL together in a way.
Everytime someone would ask me, I would promise myself to never trust them or be cool with them. It was to the point when most people were doing it.
Like they could've been genuinely serious and wanted to know, but it hurted so much because I heard it so much.
Dont get hurt by it. If you expect it to happen so much then form a barrier around it. You wont even see these people in your future. just deal with it the best you could until this phase of your life is over with.
Dont get hurt by it. If you expect it to happen so much then form a barrier around it. You wont even see these people in your future. just deal with it the best you could until this phase of your life is over with.
Omg, I'm getting too many flashbacks now.
I remember in this Summer Camp I went to this dude would always go around me infront of my friends and say "There go the Gay boy" in a tone and repeat it and dance.
I also remember these 3 girls bullied me and called me gay. ;(
I remember in 7th grade this kid would call me a *** everyday, and would go up to people and say "Do you know he's gay" and would say "There's a ****** in the room".
I eventually had to talk to the Vice Principal.
That's the only time I ever really told depth of a situation reguarding it.
I have an irrational fear of driving. I am so scared to drive because I have a feeling that I would get in a crash (whether it was my fault or not). Like, most kids my age would be excited as **** to get a driver's license, but I don't care if I never get the chance to drive.
The only secret I have is that I gave my friend a blow job in one of those dumpster things, and I've never been kissed, yet I've given head so I feel like some ****
And some other stuff I'm not prepared to open up about.
The only secret i have is that last year while my dad was out of town with his friend and i had to take care of my dads friends son i accidentally broke my dads glass table in his office and when they came back and after my dads friend left with his son i told my dad his son was playing with his soccer ball and broke his table.
I have an irrational fear of driving. I am so scared to drive because I have a feeling that I would get in a crash (whether it was my fault or not). Like, most kids my age would be excited as **** to get a driver's license, but I don't care if I never get the chance to drive.
OMG YES. I'm gonna be scared to get behind the wheel.
I cannot imagine speeding to fast and next thing you know, you see yourself crashing into something.
Even imagining driving on that fast ass highway scares me.
I have an irrational fear of driving. I am so scared to drive because I have a feeling that I would get in a crash (whether it was my fault or not). Like, most kids my age would be excited as **** to get a driver's license, but I don't care if I never get the chance to drive.
I was the same way until I started driving. I didnt know whether to be excited about it or scared but once I stared learning I got the hang of things. now im a pro.
I still get nightmares about driving tho.
If you tell your mom now, those men could get in a LOT of trouble for fooling around with a minor.
and when I'm at parties and people "never have I ever" where you have 5 fingers up and someone goes "never have I ever had sex" and everyone in the room puts one finger down except for you... 
same when they say kiss etc.
