Well yall do know some people have sexual fetishs towards certain races. meaning they jus like to **** certain races but will never have a committed relationship with someone of that race that they have a sexual fetish for
See I don't completely believe in this either. It is like when people say "I don't see race" or things like that...of course you do! There are things about every race that I am into. I am into skinner black guys, but into bigger Asians. Everyone has a type and there is nothing wrong or racist about it. Sexual attraction is outside of social conscience. It is just important to not limit yourself...more for your own benefit than others
True. when people make their preferences known, most people tend to take it of context and consider it racist. And yes people should think out the box, but it's there own choice, and people shouldn't feel affended by it.
Well yeah. I really can't imagine anyone, other than another mentally handicapped person, approaching a handicapped person and asking them out on a date . Unless it's a fetish or something
true. When people make their preferences known, most people tend to take it of context and consider it racist. And yes people should think out the box, but it's there own choice, and people shouldn't feel affended by it.
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Hi.Def, I have nothing to let go. I also don't have any anger. But if you're going to bring up your other problems with me when they aren't even necessary in a thread that is totally unrelated, then I'll do the same.
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I disagree entirely, as picky as I am I could find a girl from any race that I am attracted to enough to date. To have a preconceived notion that there is no one from a specific race worthy enough to date is highly ignorant.
Actually I do feel kinda hypocritical when you bring that up. Like, no matter how much I like a person, I don't think I can date a mentally retarded person...because I just...idk. It's kind hard to explain, but that's probably the only time when I would say I wouldn't date ALL of a specific characteristic.
I do think it's different than race.
Skin, and skin color, that has nothing to do with who the person is, or what they look like (you know what I mean there). Which is why it can easily be perceived as racist to say "I have never and will never date an Xrace person."
Intelligence level, that's different. A huge part of a relationship is an intellectual connection. You need someone who's on your level or around it. Not someone who's 50 points below you on the IQ scale. The relationship is doomed from the beginning if so.
Religion is something that falls in between. It's complicated, because these are lifestyle conflicts which is a big part of relationships too. That's one of those things where, for example, saying "I have never and will never date a person of Islam faith" is not discriminatory, while expanding on it and saying **** like "They're all suicide bombers and plane crashers, I could never" IS wrong of you ****** But then at the same time, I would never EVER date a Satanist, and I'd make a generalization about Satanists not unlike that Islam example. So it is complicated, very gray.
As for weight... I don't have much to say... I mean, this is just practicality, TBH. I would/could never:
****** This really annoys me though. I have how many some Christians refuse to accept that Islam is not that unlike their own faith. They accept Judaism as one not unlike Christianity, but not Islam. And that's really annoying, because all three are Abrahamic religions, they all tell the same basic story of the world, but focused on their own culture. But I digress.